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No, gender doesn't matter.  But personally, I feel that the spirit of the person can be constrained by their gender.  Some people, when describing themselves in their own minds would naturally see their gender as part of who they are.  Some people don't see themselves this way.  When describing themselves, they would first mention their sign, or their favourite foods, or even if they prefer cats to dogs. And then maybe, if you asked, they would mention "Oh, well yeah I suppose I am ________ (male/female)" 

Well, I don't know if anyone else feels this way.  But when I think of my significant other (Ped's Note:  This is me here folks), I don't think of his name.  It's more like a rich picture comes to mind, and a warmth of feelings (Ped's note: *blush*).  Forgive me for being so corny (Ped's note: It's alright, you're always this way), but it's more like I identify people that I'm close to as a "string of music".  It's more like the tune of someone's soul, if you're close enough to know them that well.  I think gender is only an issue if you allow it to be.  If it's not an issue to you, and it's not an issue to the person in question, then the relationship should be the priority.  I think it would be a wonderful world indeed if gender didn't matter, and it was only your interplay with another living person which counted.

If you can deal with the fact that some people will not be able to see beyond the confines of gender, and you think the special something you have is strong enough to survive such minor views, then I'd say go for it!  Our society is becoming far more accepting of this way of perceiving things, and I personally think that one day no one will really take note of gender... accept perhaps when in the Sex Store, considering the most appropriate toys!  

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0toxic0 said:
well thanks so much for actually READING my post adn responding to THAT......
ahh watever.. 

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Heh, I did read your post and thought it was quite interesting. I agree that some pretty strong feelings come from people from the same sex and all of that, but sexually acting on them is different..

I guess it is just a matter of personal preference. It all just depends on who you are and what you feel, and what you decide to pursue. What works for one person doesn't work for another..

But yeah, Ped pointed it out and I couldn't help but commenting. I guess I should have added my insight on the issue at hand first.. Do you accept my late insight?

Welcome here, too, I am sure you will enjoy your stay and will learn a lot. This is really quite the place..
Peace.

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Spokesman said:
I dont think any sexual attraction can come untill you see the person. You can be real close friends with this voice under the suit but at the end of the day unless you wanted it up the a-hole in the beggening, a sexual relationship wont spark up untill you have decided that you ARE gay and have a weird fetish for guys in silver suits with masks on and distorted voices.

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0toxic0 said:
so r u saying that sex is the only thing that brings two people closer than just "best friends?"

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theshiftingwalls said:
So you mean your soulmate can be the same gender as you?

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