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Roflspammer
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The more I think about this whole situation the more I wish I would just die (disclaimer: not suicidal). I feel like a fucking waste. My life is nothing like I envisioned it. I'm my own worst enemy. I don't know whats wrong or why I am so sad, but this... this is just tripping me up more so then it should.
I'm just a bitch I know that
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Sleepwalker
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19166016 - 11/20/13 03:33 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I think you will feel a lot better if you just take the leap...hold your breath and jump...you need to get out of the mindset that you aren't worthy of confidence or a woman.
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19166023 - 11/20/13 03:34 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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You are what you say you are. So quit labeling yourself negatively. Ive made millions of plans and the only one that works out is getting the trash to the curb on time. Nothing goes accordin to plan. Thats life. You are right, you are your own worst enemy. Only you can undermine yourself or let others do it. Theres enough people in the world who will hate on you, dont hate on yourself too. You have the power to do and be anything you want. Use it.
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Giggle_Grower said: You are what you say you are. So quit labeling yourself negatively. Ive made millions of plans and the only one that works out is getting the trash to the curb on time. Nothing goes accordin to plan. Thats life. You are right, you are your own worst enemy. Only you can undermine yourself or let others do it. Theres enough people in the world who will hate on you, dont hate on yourself too. You have the power to do and be anything you want. Use it.
You are so awesome...this is the truth And you have no idea how many girls,women are gonna reject you as sex partner or even for a serious relationship So go the fuck for her i say
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Roflspammer
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: BU4O]
#19166143 - 11/20/13 03:58 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm just going to get drunk and wallow thanks guys but its not helping
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19166209 - 11/20/13 04:11 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Roflspammer said: I'm just going to get drunk and wallow thanks guys but its not helpingim not helping myself
And gettin drunk isnt gonna solve your problem. Tends to make them worse IME. Sending some good vibes your way.
Edited by Giggle_Grower (11/20/13 04:19 PM)
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Roflspammer
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I fake it everyday in school because thats what I am told to do. Fake it till you make it. At the end of the day I'm still just as unhappy as ever. I'm just not normal. I can't help myself. Yeah sure, I shouldn't have that attitude... but I have been struggling with on-off depression for 3 uyears. Things should be different by now... how is sex going to change anything? I already know it won't.
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19166312 - 11/20/13 04:37 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Roflspammer said: The whole idea of sex just like idk I feel like I'm not man enough for it. I feel like a child
the base of all this is I lack confidence, and am a beta male I have a low self esteem even though I'm decently good looking and have the world in my hands. I can't get out of my funk and I don't want people to know about it; especially this cool chick
Stop it with that beta male bullshit. Everyone feels young on the inside, just go for it. there is no way in hell you will not like it.
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19166379 - 11/20/13 04:52 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Depression is a bitch man. Definetly want to try to get that fixed. Theres are many way and there is one that will work for you. If you fake your way thru the day, why not fake your way through this? What do you have to lose? Beside is it really gonna get any worse? Man if you want to be different and have a different life, then YOU have to be the one do it. Noone else can. Not your friends. Not your parents and family. Not this chick. Not the guy you barely know. Definetly not any of us here in the shroomery. You are the only one who can change you. If you feel like life is beyind your control, its not. You are the only one who can control it. If its sucks and is not what you want, its because you aren't controlling it. Not because someone else it. You can start the change right now if you choose to do it. Your choices are what make you. So put down the bottle, grab a pen a paper and write down exactly what you want to changeand hoe you are going to do it. Write it don't type it. I find this gets it into the mind better. . Copy this list. Read it every day and hang it places you will see it. Then make it happen. It all starts with you.
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Roflspammer
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I don't know what I want. And I don't know if I don't know what I want
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19169280 - 11/21/13 10:23 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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JUST DO IT.
IF there were ANY down sides to what you are wanting to do, you wouldn't have 3 pages full of people telling you to do it.
Seriously, it doesn't matter the topic, on the shroomery you are always going to get people who oppose the topic of discussion. This is one of those rare posts that this ISN'T happening.
DOO ITT
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Roflspammer
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Herbologist]
#19170317 - 11/21/13 02:19 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I talked to her today... idk how to read women but I mean she is normally not really talkative and relatively apathetic in school but she laughed at the shit I said even though I wasn't funny. I'm just going to keep at it.
Goal: To have her down by the end of the semester (January 13th)
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19170485 - 11/21/13 02:58 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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She obviously likes you bro
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Legend]
#19172751 - 11/21/13 09:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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So she fb messaged me
She broke her side view mirror and asked me for help. I said I will attempt at fixing it and what not. I have no fucking clue how to fix it hahah but I figure a nice temporary duct tape fix will work while I consult the interwebs to find a real fix for it.
So I figure it will end in a sexual favor or me awkwardly walking away hahahaha
Oh boy; lyfe.
Shroomery: How do I fix a side-view mirror? More importantly; how do I not over think possibly getting sexy times?
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19172793 - 11/21/13 09:53 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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try to fix it its ok to be nervous don't let it stop you if its going to happen have a good time I am sure she wont judge you or anything sounds like she likes you go hang out with her
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you should probably tell her about never having sex before and are kinda nervous and stuff, when it starts heading in that direction, if she likes you and is a decent person i'm sure she'll be more than understanding
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19172994 - 11/21/13 10:55 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I recommend a meditation session before meeting her.
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Sheekle]
#19173012 - 11/21/13 11:01 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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nice xmas avi sheekle
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Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Legend]
#19173149 - 11/21/13 11:58 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Listen to the sex with emily podcast. It helped me know what chicks are looking for and for what I should be doing in bed.
(1) Invite her over for a movie (2) Drink alcohol together (3) Make out (4) Instead of progressing, look at her and tell her to take a shower with you. Do NOT ask. She will accept. (5) Rub some soaps on each other and have fun. Surreptitiously make sure she is without STDs (6) Dry each other off and fuck.
I have never been denied this routine a single time. For a variety of reasons, this seriously works.
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Edited by All We Perceive (11/21/13 11:59 PM)
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All We Perceive said: Listen to the sex with emily podcast. It helped me know what chicks are looking for and for what I should be doing in bed.
(1) Invite her over for a movie (2) Drink alcohol together (3) Make out (4) Instead of progressing, look at her and tell her to take a shower with you. Do NOT ask. She will accept. (5) Rub some soaps on each other and have fun. Surreptitiously make sure she is without STDs (6) Dry each other off and fuck.
I have never been denied this routine a single time. For a variety of reasons, this seriously works.
Man i am so gonna try this  
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