|
BU4O
Weed on ^^



Registered: 11/18/11
Posts: 750
Loc: Bulgaria,Plovdiv
Last seen: 1 hour, 19 minutes
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19163649 - 11/20/13 06:00 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Listen to me tell her you have a crush on her,kiss her when she look's at you...And after some time when you know eachother more you tell har and that you are virgin and everything else...she will die to have you! If she say somthing like -yea right...do the sad face and tell her it's ok if you don't believe me...she is gonna get you... If you lie and then have sex she will know you are virgin...believe me!Don't lie!She is gonna make you feel comfortable enough to have sex....
--------------------
Edited by BU4O (11/20/13 06:06 AM)
|
daz01
Learning


Registered: 09/30/10
Posts: 4,652
Loc: Scotland
Last seen: 1 hour, 46 minutes
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: BU4O]
#19163670 - 11/20/13 06:12 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
OP
Do it now. I've been in a similar position to you and I fucked up. It involved a hottie in my bed and I could not make the final move to seal the deal. We cuddled but I could not muster up the confidence to go in for the kiss 
DO ITTTT
-------------------- Pain is temporary. It may last for a minute or an hour or a day or even a year but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however, it will last forever.
Edited by daz01 (11/20/13 06:12 AM)
|
Sleepwalker
Overshoes

Registered: 05/07/08
Posts: 5,503
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: BU4O]
#19163678 - 11/20/13 06:16 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
BU4O said: If you lie and then have sex she will know you are virgin...believe me!Don't lie!She is gonna make you feel comfortable enough to have sex....
|
Thayendanegea
quiet walker



Registered: 02/20/12
Posts: 7,596
Loc: 7 Lodges Nation
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: deadwk]
#19164462 - 11/20/13 10:48 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
thedeadwalkk said:
Quote:
Roflspammer said: I don't even know... something about sex right now just isn't appealing... am I broken 
Maybe you're gay?
-------------------- Look Deep Into Nature,and Then You Will Understand Everything Better. Albert Einstein
|
shLong



Registered: 03/04/10
Posts: 25,330
Loc: 'sconsin
|
|
I would tell the woman you're a virgin. For 1,youll lose a lot of the anxiety of performance because you already more or less told her you may suck at first. 2, some chicks will find that sweet and will love to help you along. 3, just because.
Go fucking hump that chick for 19 seconds, bust a nut, eat her out for 10 to 20 minutes and go again for a longer romp..
|
Patlal
You ask too many questions



Registered: 10/09/10
Posts: 44,797
Loc: Ottawa
Last seen: 2 hours, 42 minutes
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: shLong]
#19164854 - 11/20/13 11:55 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Performance anxiety... Never understood that. You can't really screw up fucking. Its an in and out game you play with your penis. Her vagina won't see the difference.
--------------------
|
Roflspammer
Strangest



Registered: 12/05/12
Posts: 1,901
Loc: New Hampshire
Last seen: 1 hour, 10 minutes
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Patlal]
#19165215 - 11/20/13 01:01 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
She knows I am a virgin. I didn't even talk to her today. I just don't give a fuck and it would be more awkward now cuz I know what she wants... and I'm the type of guy who won't get hard because I don't know her. I am not an alpha. I hate that my friend told me this. I feel like the whole dynamic of us has changed now that I know she wants the D. If I was ignorant to the fact then I would be on my game. Now its just awkward to talk to her... or even approach her. Hell I don't even feel comfortable making eye contact now.
I may be genophobic. I am over thinking this but I can't help it. This is just too much
|
Patlal
You ask too many questions



Registered: 10/09/10
Posts: 44,797
Loc: Ottawa
Last seen: 2 hours, 42 minutes
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19165266 - 11/20/13 01:10 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Roflspammer said: She knows I am a virgin. I didn't even talk to her today. I just don't give a fuck and it would be more awkward now cuz I know what she wants... and I'm the type of guy who won't get hard because I don't know her. I am not an alpha. I hate that my friend told me this. I feel like the whole dynamic of us has changed now that I know she wants the D. If I was ignorant to the fact then I would be on my game. Now its just awkward to talk to her... or even approach her. Hell I don't even feel comfortable making eye contact now.
I may be genophobic. I am over thinking this but I can't help it. This is just too much
Trust me, when she touches your dick, it'll get hard.
--------------------
|
Roflspammer
Strangest



Registered: 12/05/12
Posts: 1,901
Loc: New Hampshire
Last seen: 1 hour, 10 minutes
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19165292 - 11/20/13 01:15 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
I'm getting depressed just thinking about this whole situation. An attractive girl wants to have sex with me. With me. Geeky, introverted, underweight, boring me. And I am throwing it away because every time I get the chance to seal the deal I throw it away. Right now I just want to do it, but when it comes to action I get as far away from the situation as possible.
|
BU4O
Weed on ^^



Registered: 11/18/11
Posts: 750
Loc: Bulgaria,Plovdiv
Last seen: 1 hour, 19 minutes
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19165338 - 11/20/13 01:21 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Dude what the fuuuuurck is wrong with you...i cannot help this time if you dont help you'r self...if she is a nice beautiful girl man dive in...
--------------------
Edited by BU4O (11/20/13 01:22 PM)
|
trippyshit901
Stranger
Registered: 11/20/13
Posts: 5
Last seen: 10 years, 2 months
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19165380 - 11/20/13 01:27 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
If you don't fuck her you'll regret it at some point in time!!!
|
Roflspammer
Strangest



Registered: 12/05/12
Posts: 1,901
Loc: New Hampshire
Last seen: 1 hour, 10 minutes
|
|
Knowing me, I really don't think I'm going to do it; I am 85% certain of this
Its really sad that I have to consult an internet forum about this ain't it ...
Edited by Roflspammer (11/20/13 01:40 PM)
|
qman
Stranger

Registered: 12/06/06
Posts: 34,927
Last seen: 2 days, 33 minutes
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19165452 - 11/20/13 01:40 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Roflspammer said: She knows I am a virgin. I didn't even talk to her today. I just don't give a fuck and it would be more awkward now cuz I know what she wants... and I'm the type of guy who won't get hard because I don't know her. I am not an alpha. I hate that my friend told me this. I feel like the whole dynamic of us has changed now that I know she wants the D. If I was ignorant to the fact then I would be on my game. Now its just awkward to talk to her... or even approach her. Hell I don't even feel comfortable making eye contact now.
I may be genophobic. I am over thinking this but I can't help it. This is just too much
Maybe just step away from the situation and let another man get the job done, you're clearly not ready for sexual relations, maybe one day you will be mature enough for sex, some people are never ready for sex their entire lifes and remain celibate.
|
Sagescruffy
CH



Registered: 10/30/09
Posts: 2,011
Loc: PNW
Last seen: 6 months, 12 days
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19165468 - 11/20/13 01:43 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Just talk to her man, you don't HAVE to bang. This way, it might actually happen.
-------------------- Love.  
|
Herbologist
Grrratata



Registered: 05/09/10
Posts: 7,471
Loc: Casa Bonita
Last seen: 3 years, 1 month
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: qman]
#19165500 - 11/20/13 01:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
qman said:
Quote:
Roflspammer said: She knows I am a virgin. I didn't even talk to her today. I just don't give a fuck and it would be more awkward now cuz I know what she wants... and I'm the type of guy who won't get hard because I don't know her. I am not an alpha. I hate that my friend told me this. I feel like the whole dynamic of us has changed now that I know she wants the D. If I was ignorant to the fact then I would be on my game. Now its just awkward to talk to her... or even approach her. Hell I don't even feel comfortable making eye contact now.
I may be genophobic. I am over thinking this but I can't help it. This is just too much
Maybe just step away from the situation and let another man get the job done, you're clearly not ready for sexual relations, maybe one day you will be mature enough for sex, some people are never ready for sex their entire lifes and remain celibate.
This is harsh but true.
OP, are you willing to let another man come in and smash her vagina to pulp, knowing she didnt even want it from that guy?
She is gonna move on man
-------------------- Shroomery Law: Don't piss off the leftist mods & their friends!
|
BU4O
Weed on ^^



Registered: 11/18/11
Posts: 750
Loc: Bulgaria,Plovdiv
Last seen: 1 hour, 19 minutes
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Herbologist]
#19165587 - 11/20/13 02:03 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Let me put it this way for you...Do it for her...don't be stupid...don't be selfish...just go...and let her enjoy you...she will...i can promise you that...
--------------------
|
Lynnch
Strangerer



Registered: 04/29/09
Posts: 7,855
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19165819 - 11/20/13 02:49 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Roflspammer said: I am not an alpha.
Dude, quit labeling yourself with bullshit created by assholes to make themselves feel better. This whole self depreciating, low self esteem act won't get you anywhere. You decide for yourself what your self image is and what to outwardly project. You've got some things you don't like about yourself? Fine, change them. You aren't into this girl enough to pursue her? Fine, don't fuck her, no big deal. But you kinda have to ask yourself, If you really didn't care, If you really didn't deep down want to be an ace in the sack and jump at the chance to bang this chick, then why did you make this thread?
|
Patlal
You ask too many questions



Registered: 10/09/10
Posts: 44,797
Loc: Ottawa
Last seen: 2 hours, 42 minutes
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Roflspammer]
#19165832 - 11/20/13 02:53 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Roflspammer said: Knowing me, I really don't think I'm going to do it; I am 85% certain of this
Its really sad that I have to consult an internet forum about this ain't it ...

Alright then, if you're not gonna do this, at least give me her number so I can have a shot at it.
--------------------
|
Giggle_Grower
A lil less noob each day



Registered: 04/07/10
Posts: 1,598
Loc: Shroomery
Last seen: 1 year, 5 months
|
Re: Afraid to lose virginity [Re: Patlal]
#19165887 - 11/20/13 03:07 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Sigh this thread makes me want to cry. Good vibes OP.
|
Roflspammer
Strangest



Registered: 12/05/12
Posts: 1,901
Loc: New Hampshire
Last seen: 1 hour, 10 minutes
|
|
The more I think about this whole situation the more I wish I would just die (disclaimer: not suicidal). I feel like a fucking waste. My life is nothing like I envisioned it. I'm my own worst enemy. I don't know whats wrong or why I am so sad, but this... this is just tripping me up more so then it should. I'm a mess
I'm just a bitch I know that
Edited by Roflspammer (11/20/13 03:23 PM)
|
|