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JacksonMetaller
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19154857 - 11/18/13 03:42 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: im not asking anyone to pay for my shit dude
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lunarpiscean said: clayton? you got a lil bit o money in those pockets? 
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lunarpiscean
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i 'd at that too once i realized that i posted that
we'll just say it's because i had a blonde moment
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19155006 - 11/18/13 04:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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let me clear this up.
if we're in a relationship, and it's a new one, you should pay for everything. that's the way it goes. that's the way it's always been for me.
if we're having a friend/fuckship and just exchanging cuddles and hanging out, i dont expect you have to shit except for some weed to match me.
hate on my logic all you want i dont care lol
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19155109 - 11/18/13 04:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: let me clear this up.
if we're in a relationship, and it's a new one, you should pay for everything. that's the way it goes. that's the way it's always been for me.
if we're having a friend/fuckship and just exchanging cuddles and hanging out, i dont expect you have to shit except for some weed to match me.
hate on my logic all you want i dont care lol
Not hating on your perspective or anything, but this is personally unattractive to me. I treat women to meals often because I want to, not because I feel obligated to. Strong, independent women are sexy. As a rule of thumb, I never disclose how much money I have to people just so people don't expect it from me.
With that being said, if it works for you, then great! Best of luck finding an actual decent guy that is okay with that.
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19155124 - 11/18/13 04:17 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: let me clear this up.
if we're in a relationship, and it's a new one, you should pay for everything. that's the way it goes.

With an attitude like that it's so surprising you can't find a good partner.
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19155232 - 11/18/13 04:37 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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because I'm going to go on dates with some broke ass bum who I have to buy everything for? No.
a lot of women have my mindset, they just aren't upfront or honest about it because men think its super shitty. thats just reality guys
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean] 1
#19155460 - 11/18/13 05:08 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: because I'm going to go on dates with some broke ass bum who I have to buy everything for? No.
How about you each pay for yourselves? Why do you jump from end of the spectrum to the other? That's obviously not what I was implying.
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a lot of women have my mindset, they just aren't upfront or honest about it because men think its super shitty. thats just reality guys
There's a big difference between someone being a nice person and paying for you, and you expecting that behaviour. If I feel it's the latter, you are gone immediately.
Every post you make I view your character even lower than before.
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean] 1
#19155487 - 11/18/13 05:11 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I personally do not like being paid for. This is true for me with women and my guy friends. I am all for equal women rights, and as previously stated, independent women are sexy. I do not care at all how much money they make, as long as they are not trying to take mine. I will treat them because they are worth me treating.
I cannot judge you because I was raised with the mentality that sex and money are the only things that matter in the world. Perhaps it came with age and experience, but I find that the pursuit of money is the very thing that makes me unhappy in life. I have enough to live comfortably and still be able to have plenty of fun.
I agree with you that many women have the same perspective that you do. I would also say that many of these very same women are not happy with their lives. Insecure, lonely, obsessive, overly emotional, controlling, depressed, and other such negative traits usually plague the minds of those that think that money is what really matters in the world.
If you really want to find yourself a good partner that will stay by your side, show them that they are worth more to you than what is in his wallet. As soon as a guy finds somebody else that treats them better with the same amount of money spent as he does on you, it is unlikely he will remain faithful.
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: Cheezymold]
#19155721 - 11/18/13 05:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Gotta agree with lunar. A guy should pay for the girl.in the begining(within reason). Then split it when things get serious. However, the lady shouldn't have a price on dating. This is just how I like to do things, not the way to is.
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lol, the type of woman lunar is: (if you have money i like you more) could make me turn gay, and im bi-sexual.
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean] 1
#19156241 - 11/18/13 07:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: because I'm going to go on dates with some broke ass bum who I have to buy everything for? No.
a lot of women have my mindset, they just aren't upfront or honest about it because men think its super shitty. thats just reality guys
Or maybe the reality is that we're not going to buy all your shit because you didn't work for our money and by no means do you deserve it. And this is why you can't find a guy to your standards. You expect WAY too much. If i ever felt this you would be gone in an instant, and believe me i would not be feeling the loss.
Now on the contrary, if i'm married in a typical western situation where the mom stays at home to take care of the kids and i'm at work, then that's a different story. She deserves a cut of my work because she's watching the kids. But a girlfriend situation? Fucking please... Why do you think you deserve other mens money?
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Giggle_Grower said: Gotta agree with lunar. A guy should pay for the girl.in the begining(within reason).
And what reason would that be?
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean] 1
#19157435 - 11/18/13 11:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: if we're in a relationship, and it's a new one, you should pay for everything. that's the way it goes. that's the way it's always been for me.
Why is that? Is it prostitution or something else???
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She got that million dollar..
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19158124 - 11/19/13 03:02 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: because I'm going to go on dates with some broke ass bum who I have to buy everything for? No.
a lot of women have my mindset, they just aren't upfront or honest about it because men think its super shitty. thats just reality guys
Women of your mindset typically develop a reputation that repels anyone worthwhile.
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Lol, ever since I've been dating I've become accustomed to being taken care of.
Don't be mad.
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19158426 - 11/19/13 06:26 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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My threads irrelevant anyways. The guys do exist, I was just frustrated when I made the post.
:3 haters
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean] 3
#19158494 - 11/19/13 07:13 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: Lol, ever since I've been dating I've become accustomed to being taken care of.
That is a bad thing; it is not a thing to be proud of. It's actually pathetic and lame.
-------------------- “People say having kids is life changing, well that doesn’t necessarily mean a good thing, does it? I could take one of my legs off. That would change my life.” -Karl Pilkington
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: robbyberto]
#19158497 - 11/19/13 07:14 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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is shroomery pro feminist?
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Re: why arent there men that exist [Re: lunarpiscean] 1
#19158538 - 11/19/13 07:38 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: is shroomery pro feminist?
No but i am of the mindset that you should be able to take care of yourself after the age of 18. Having an adult baby on my arms would be awful.
And i'm not trying to be mean, just honest. A relationship is not all about you
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