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underfliptown
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Synthe]
#19156065 - 11/18/13 06:36 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Synthe said: DSHSB
Just kidding. Ask her out for lunch so you can talk and make up.
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NWlight
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Everlong] 1
#19156066 - 11/18/13 06:37 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Everlong said: I had no advice I was just trying to bait you into admitting you are under the age of 18. 
it works every once in a while
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JesusIsLord
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: NWlight]
#19156462 - 11/18/13 07:42 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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basically you fucked up. if you grovel she'll own you and you'll love her but also grow to resent the shit out of her because of it.
stick to your decision. there had to be some logic behind how your brother persuaded you it was the right decision.
you are probably just scared of being alone more than you are actually in love with her.
is it love, or lust and co-dependence?
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Aedium
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: JesusIsLord]
#19156492 - 11/18/13 07:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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[qoute] is it love, or lust and co-dependence?
man as fucked up as my life has been, i wouldn't doubt this.... thank you for replying man, this might have changed me
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JesusIsLord
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium]
#19156536 - 11/18/13 07:59 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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aaronlolz said: [qoute] is it love, or lust and co-dependence?
man as fucked up as my life has been, i wouldn't doubt this.... thank you for replying man, this might have changed me
hey dude, you're very welcome. I'm all for honesty and that's all I hope you take away from our little exchange here - be completely honest to yourself about your intentions, your intuition, your instincts. I'm betting this is your first girlfriend and long relationship?
I'll keep it brief here but you sound a lot like how I felt when I broke up with my ex. Thinking it was just this massive mistake and immediately afraid of what I lost - sabotaging the relationship. Then I remembered what a massive list of things were wrong with the relationship - like her lying to me, manipulating me and trying to fuck with my head by trying to change how I remember events. Basically mind control. Which fucking disgusted me, and I realized I could never be with a person like that when I gave them total honesty and loyalty I didn't deserve that.
Hope you might glean a little wisdom from my perspective. Peace bud.
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Aedium
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: JesusIsLord]
#19157362 - 11/18/13 10:49 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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no actualy its not my first relationship
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JesusIsLord
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium]
#19161813 - 11/19/13 08:24 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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aaronlolz said: no actualy its not my first relationship
ah well, shot in the dark. let us know how it turns out man, I mean, if you want to share - I'd be curious.
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Synthe]
#19162272 - 11/19/13 09:26 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ask her out to lunch and find some way to make her sit through that GTA video, its the only way..
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