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Aedium
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#19155574 - 11/18/13 05:21 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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dontknow
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium]
#19155580 - 11/18/13 05:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Are you in high school? Need to know to prescribe my love medicine
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Aedium
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: dontknow]
#19155586 - 11/18/13 05:23 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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indeed, i am
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium]
#19155608 - 11/18/13 05:25 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Write her the best letter you've ever written and mail it to her.
You shouldn't have to do anything completely over the top. Simply letting her know in some well thought out writing why you did what you did, why you realized it was a mistake, and the extent of your feelings towards her, should be enough for anyone who is truly in love with you.
Don't listen to anyone else in matters of love. Stop and think, without bias, for yourself sometimes.
Then again I'm not the best person to ask about this as I fuck up all my relationships.
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Midnight_Toker]
#19155630 - 11/18/13 05:28 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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That's good advice. But I'm also not the best person to ask about this .
Just be open and honest
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium] 2
#19155642 - 11/18/13 05:31 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Khii Khwaay] 1
#19155702 - 11/18/13 05:41 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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write her a letter on a credit card application and give it to her with home made cheesecake and a mix tape of all the songs that remind you of her. oh and draw a picture of her yearbook or facebook pic, and smear some patchouli oil on it, roll it up and wrap a bow around it. give it to her in a big box with like, a mcdonalds gift certificate and a stuffed bear too.
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium]
#19155735 - 11/18/13 05:45 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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dontknow said: Are you in high school? Need to know to prescribe my love medicine
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aaronlolz said: indeed, i am
What grade? Senior, junior, sophomore? This also matters before I can give my advice.
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Aedium
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Everlong]
#19155746 - 11/18/13 05:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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senior
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium]
#19155750 - 11/18/13 05:49 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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aaronlolz said: senior
17 or 18?
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Everlong] 4
#19155761 - 11/18/13 05:51 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Everlong]
#19155771 - 11/18/13 05:53 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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go up to her in front of her friends and tell her how you really feel. she'll be embarrassed at first but it'll fade
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: fiddle]
#19155779 - 11/18/13 05:54 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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fiddle said:

It's relevant, if he is under 18 my advice will be different as minors get a slap on the wrist compared to those over the age of 18.
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Aedium
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Everlong]
#19155808 - 11/18/13 06:00 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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im 18+ lol whats your advice? this thread
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium] 3
#19155812 - 11/18/13 06:00 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I had no advice I was just trying to bait you into admitting you are under the age of 18.
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Everlong]
#19155821 - 11/18/13 06:02 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium]
#19155865 - 11/18/13 06:08 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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aaronlolz said:
something that says Catalina, i love the shit out of you.
what do i do?
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium]
#19155928 - 11/18/13 06:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Take her to Catalina Island on vacation
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium]
#19155975 - 11/18/13 06:23 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Propose.
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Shroomslip]
#19156039 - 11/18/13 06:32 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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DSHSB
Just kidding. Ask her out for lunch so you can talk and make up.
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Synthe]
#19156065 - 11/18/13 06:36 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Synthe said: DSHSB
Just kidding. Ask her out for lunch so you can talk and make up.
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Everlong] 1
#19156066 - 11/18/13 06:37 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Everlong said: I had no advice I was just trying to bait you into admitting you are under the age of 18. 
it works every once in a while
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: NWlight]
#19156462 - 11/18/13 07:42 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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basically you fucked up. if you grovel she'll own you and you'll love her but also grow to resent the shit out of her because of it.
stick to your decision. there had to be some logic behind how your brother persuaded you it was the right decision.
you are probably just scared of being alone more than you are actually in love with her.
is it love, or lust and co-dependence?
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: JesusIsLord]
#19156492 - 11/18/13 07:51 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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[qoute] is it love, or lust and co-dependence?
man as fucked up as my life has been, i wouldn't doubt this.... thank you for replying man, this might have changed me
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium]
#19156536 - 11/18/13 07:59 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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aaronlolz said: [qoute] is it love, or lust and co-dependence?
man as fucked up as my life has been, i wouldn't doubt this.... thank you for replying man, this might have changed me
hey dude, you're very welcome. I'm all for honesty and that's all I hope you take away from our little exchange here - be completely honest to yourself about your intentions, your intuition, your instincts. I'm betting this is your first girlfriend and long relationship?
I'll keep it brief here but you sound a lot like how I felt when I broke up with my ex. Thinking it was just this massive mistake and immediately afraid of what I lost - sabotaging the relationship. Then I remembered what a massive list of things were wrong with the relationship - like her lying to me, manipulating me and trying to fuck with my head by trying to change how I remember events. Basically mind control. Which fucking disgusted me, and I realized I could never be with a person like that when I gave them total honesty and loyalty I didn't deserve that.
Hope you might glean a little wisdom from my perspective. Peace bud.
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: JesusIsLord]
#19157362 - 11/18/13 10:49 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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no actualy its not my first relationship
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JesusIsLord
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Aedium]
#19161813 - 11/19/13 08:24 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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aaronlolz said: no actualy its not my first relationship
ah well, shot in the dark. let us know how it turns out man, I mean, if you want to share - I'd be curious.
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Re: Please help me save my relationship [Re: Synthe]
#19162272 - 11/19/13 09:26 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Ask her out to lunch and find some way to make her sit through that GTA video, its the only way..
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