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Offlinedontknow
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Is it normal to last a long time your first time?
    #19140670 - 11/15/13 11:54 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I recently had sex for the first time. It went for almost 2 hours, and ended because she was tired. I never reached climax though, or even got close.

Is this because I've jacked off so much? It was hard to get off to the sensation alone, i couldn't feel very much when she was sucking, and I felt nothing when I went in with a condom.

I use to be a mad fapper up until recently. Will abstaining from porn/masturbation help this go away?

Does anyone know my pain :crying:


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Invisiblekoraks
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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: dontknow]
    #19140694 - 11/15/13 12:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Are you on any sort of medication?


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Offlinepsyconaught
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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: koraks]
    #19140699 - 11/15/13 12:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

my first time i had sex was the same way. Didn't cum and lasted around two hours. Its gets infinitely better when you ditch the condom (for the love of god make sure she's on the pill though). It also comes down to getting used to each other and figuring out what the other likes. The more you have sex the easier it will be to make each other cum.


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Offlinerobbyberto
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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: koraks]
    #19140700 - 11/15/13 12:03 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Were you drunk? I was wasted my first time and I couldn't finish either. Also I know SSRI's can mess with sexual functioning.


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Offlinedontknow
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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: koraks]
    #19140705 - 11/15/13 12:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I take asthma/allergy meds

and immunoglobulin ivig infusions once a month.


edit: and I smoke too much bud. Could all this smoking affect my blood circulation? I didn't have a problem staying hard though


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Edited by dontknow (11/15/13 12:05 PM)


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Offlinedontknow
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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: robbyberto]
    #19140708 - 11/15/13 12:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

robbyberto said:
Were you drunk? I was wasted my first time and I couldn't finish either. Also I know SSRI's can mess with sexual functioning.



Nope. Was completely sober


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Invisiblekoraks
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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: dontknow]
    #19140724 - 11/15/13 12:08 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

dontknow said:
I take asthma/allergy meds

and immunoglobulin ivig infusions once a month.


edit: and I smoke too much bud. Could all this smoking affect my blood circulation? I didn't have a problem staying hard though



Those things are not a problem in terms of sensitivity.

Some people are just more sensitive than others. In addition, mental blockage is common in inexperienced people preventing them from reaching orgasm - especially in women, but in men too.

I recommend you practice the fuck out of sex :thumbup:


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Invisiblekoraks
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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: koraks]
    #19140726 - 11/15/13 12:08 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Oh and consider yourself blessed that you last for 2 hours instead of 2 seconds. That sucks a lot more.


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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: dontknow]
    #19140730 - 11/15/13 12:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I couldn't cum when I lost my virginity, I blame the condoms and performance anxiety.
No worries you'll cum in due time.
:somagnificent:


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OfflinePatlal
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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: koraks]
    #19140740 - 11/15/13 12:11 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

If your first time lasts more than 15 minutes, it is a great source a shame and very insulting for the women.

Clearly it means you are gay.


Just kidding bro, you were nervous, condoms don't help and I did just about the same thing. You're used to your own hand and a vag isn't hand shaped. Don't worry dude lol


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Offlinedontknow
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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: Patlal]
    #19140763 - 11/15/13 12:19 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Alright thanks guys. I'm sure it'll get better with more practice :wink:


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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: Patlal]
    #19141995 - 11/15/13 06:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Patlal said:
If your first time lasts more than 15 minutes, it is a great source a shame and very insulting for the women.

Clearly it means you are gay.


Just kidding bro, you were nervous, condoms don't help and I did just about the same thing. You're used to your own hand and a vag isn't hand shaped. Don't worry dude lol




2 hours is a long ass time..and thats not related to what im saying next which is..
im gay and girls can make me come in less then 5 minutes easily..
just saying.


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OfflineMoxyOx
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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19151471 - 11/17/13 07:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

First time for me I lasted way too long and couldn't ejaculate. I also had a condom that was way too small(hooray for big penis).

Now if I go in uncovered I can blast my load in like 5-10 minutes if I just relax and let it happen. That usually pisses girls off though :smile:


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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: MoxyOx]
    #19151526 - 11/17/13 07:57 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Be glad you had a first time :mad:


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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: dontknow]
    #19151674 - 11/17/13 08:34 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I'm the same way, always have been since my first time.  In fact, I usually have to get pretty comfortable with someone before i can get there.  I think its all mental for me.  You may not know until you get some more experience.


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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: Irfan]
    #19152190 - 11/17/13 10:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

It's normal. I didn't come until the 3rd time (once a day 3 days in a row). I could barely stay hard the first time either. Just wasn't used to all the new stuff. Don't worry...you'll get a lot better! Just play it off like you're a sex god


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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: Black_Sunset]
    #19152851 - 11/18/13 04:36 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I don't know your pain

usually I'd congradulate someone but for almost two hours?

are fucked up kid.

what positions did you try?

you should hover over her lying down and put your belly on hers and pound way

see if that little whore will let you raise her legs up

also talk, I don't talk a lot during sex but just say some dirty shit, think about what you are going to say before you chill next tim instead of being worried


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Offlinedontknow
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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: Konyap]
    #19153446 - 11/18/13 10:09 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Illyabo said:


you should hover over her lying down and put your belly on hers and pound way



i did:snoop:


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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: dontknow]
    #19153461 - 11/18/13 10:14 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

maybe you're just a better man then eye


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Re: Is it normal to last a long time your first time? [Re: Konyap]
    #19154097 - 11/18/13 01:16 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Yeah abstaining from masturbation and porn will help if you're pretty deep in that shit, go much faster than sex, hold much harder etc. but only you will know.


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