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Everyone we knows, knows that my wife spends an inordinate amount of time in 'her' bathroom. I had to stop using it altogether years ago, the one in the bedroom, even in the middle of the night, and so I painted the guest bathroom blue, and put my boy stuff in it, like Jerry Garcia picture and Dead Head Parking tin sign over the toilet. And as we get older, the time she spends doing stuff in there gets longer. To make things worse, she listens to NPR in there, and sort of goes into some motionless samadhi when she becomes rapt in a story. As bright as she is, she can't seem to do her toilette and listen to the radio at the same time. I learned to meditate during female get-ready time as far back as 1975. One particularly memorable girl's father stooped down and whispered, "Does this help?" I think he had the same situation with his wife I imagine. It's ubiquitous, the Eternal Femine has us waiting for what seems like Eternity.
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Re: Porn: For Better or Worse [Re: resonant111]
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resonant111 said: i'm just sick of depending on porn as a primary sexual outlet. it's kind of depressing.
also, looking at those pictures of pornstars without makeup sort of shatters the illusion of it all. these "perfect babes" are just normal women who are air-brushed to look immaculate. there's nothing real about any of it whatsoever.
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Re: Porn: For Better or Worse [Re: Beanhead]
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Yeah make-up is fucked.
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Re: Porn: For Better or Worse [Re: Beanhead]
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There is some real shit out there. I always wondered why and am quite disappointed that porn never focuses on female orgasm. Really disappointing. Anyway I've found that when the element of reality is actual exclusively for the female its a huge turn on. REAL PLEASURE should be the focus.
Expert Guide to the G-Spot is a good one. And lesbian porn.
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FishOilTheKid said: There is some real shit out there. I always wondered why and am quite disappointed that porn never focuses on female orgasm. Really disappointing. Anyway I've found that when the element of reality is actual exclusively for the female its a huge turn on. REAL PLEASURE should be the focus.
Expert Guide to the G-Spot is a good one. And lesbian porn.
i've always wondered why there's isn't any tantric porn of two people making meditative love. i saw this documentary on this tantric couple once and it was honestly the first time in my life i saw two people actually make slow, blissful LOVE to each other rather than just fucking the shit out of each other. they were doing the yab-yum position which you will NEVER see in a porno movie.
forgot the name of that doc tho, it was pretty cool. they should show that in sex ed cuz it's like legitimate lovemaking.
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Re: Porn: For Better or Worse [Re: resonant111]
#18925346 - 10/03/13 10:59 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Porn: For Better or Worse [Re: Icelander] 1
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i feel like porn almost purposely tries to make sex dirty and shocking because that idea has been embedded into the human consciousness by religion for centuries. so instead of people innocently making love we get videos of prostitutes getting drilled in multiple holes at once, screaming in pain, and getting jizzed on. that's why porn is fucked up lol.
and that's also why it's addictive...cuz they make sex as exaggerated as possible to keep you hooked.
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Re: Porn: For Better or Worse [Re: resonant111] 1
#18925364 - 10/03/13 11:05 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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resonant111 said:
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FishOilTheKid said: There is some real shit out there. I always wondered why and am quite disappointed that porn never focuses on female orgasm. Really disappointing. Anyway I've found that when the element of reality is actual exclusively for the female its a huge turn on. REAL PLEASURE should be the focus.
Expert Guide to the G-Spot is a good one. And lesbian porn.
i've always wondered why there's isn't any tantric porn of two people making meditative love. i saw this documentary on this tantric couple once and it was honestly the first time in my life i saw two people actually make slow, blissful LOVE to each other rather than just fucking the shit out of each other. they were doing the yab-yum position which you will NEVER see in a porno movie.
forgot the name of that doc tho, it was pretty cool. they should show that in sex ed cuz it's like legitimate lovemaking.
I could dig it.
The stereotypical porno really doesn't turn me on. It looks rather ludicrous IMO.
Huge fake tits, swollen lips, bleached hair, violent sex, etc...
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Re: Porn: For Better or Worse [Re: resonant111]
#18925367 - 10/03/13 11:06 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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resonant111 said: i feel like porn almost purposely tries to make sex dirty and shocking because that idea has been embedded into the human consciousness by religion for centuries. so instead of people innocently making love we get videos of prostitutes getting drilled in multiple holes at once, screaming in pain, and getting jizzed on. that's why porn is fucked up lol.
and that's also why it's addictive...cuz they make sex as exaggerated as possible to keep you hooked.
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Re: Porn: For Better or Worse [Re: resonant111] 1
#18925392 - 10/03/13 11:16 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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and that's also why it's addictive...cuz they make sex as exaggerated as possible to keep you hooked.
There is the factor that you will always seek out more extreme or better porn and the frustration that you will never get the trashy divine girl, this is based on exaggeration.
But in the end addiction lies in what I wrote previously in this thread IMO:
Instead of releasing your anger and frustration over the shitty and frustrating existence or society we live in, you release it looking at porn just like men portrayed in porn movies. Easy and simple quick fixes to peoples issues equals big money.
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Political Notes 124, Defending Pornography (1996), by Danny Frederick
Discerning this because the author is male is sexist. My opinion stems from the sado-masochistic part which really does not correlate with any of the points made by Anne. Roles differ though it's not prominent in general.
To answer your earlier question; it has been inspirational to try out a few things, I like to try new things. Sorry for the bump, found it an interesting read.
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Re: Porn: For Better or Worse [Re: Beanhead]
#19150100 - 11/17/13 02:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Porn is just Mtv without clothes on.
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Re: Porn: For Better or Worse [Re: eve69]
#19150261 - 11/17/13 03:20 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Exactly, you get more and more addicted, what you first got off to doesn't do it anymore so you get to more extreme and crazy things, eventually tranny and who knows what. Porn is great but you have to control it.
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