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yogabunny
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: 245willow19] 2
#19135442 - 11/14/13 09:54 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've never been much for labels myself. I think in this case you're a human being who is in love with another human being.
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: yogabunny] 2
#19135681 - 11/14/13 11:02 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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People like to categorize things because it helps them understand things better. problems occur when they limit their understanding to these labels.
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: 404]
#19135865 - 11/14/13 11:49 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pika* said: I've never been much for labels myself. I think in this case you're a human being who is in love with another human being.

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StateOfMind404 said: People like to categorize things because it helps them understand things better. problems occur when they limit their understanding to these labels.
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? (moved) [Re: Sheekle]
#19136201 - 11/14/13 01:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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IMO Not until you findout its a man. Then your question just says. "If you fall inlove with a man, are you technically gay?"
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: The Shape]
#19136259 - 11/14/13 01:52 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Statistically straight men look at more tranny porn. sso its debateable. also, studies show men enjoy looking at penises.
so i say abolish these negative terms, they only divide us further.
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: 245willow19]
#19136621 - 11/14/13 03:17 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Trans is beautiful, penis not so much
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: Beanhead]
#19136753 - 11/14/13 03:41 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Only gay if you fall in love .
Not gay if you meet up on CL and have them suck you off. As long as you don't look em in the eyes
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: Beanhead]
#19136811 - 11/14/13 03:58 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Beanhead said: Trans is beautiful, penis not so much

I like penis, but it very much depends on my relationship with the attached person.
Anyhow I wouldn't mind experimenting with a trans person, and although I have some trans friends I met over a decade ago, one is in a long term partnership and the other two are only interested in men, so it hasn't happened. They turned out pretty, too. You'd have no idea that they were post-op mtfgirls unless you asked and were answered.
They're really great friends and I respect them a lot since they're some of the coolest, cutest, nicest and strongest people I've known, and who have also had some of the most awful things happen to them, like family rejection, bullying, sexual abuse, homelessness, harassment.
And even then, they were able to persevere in college (after moving to completely new cities), land jobs at top companies which shoot way past *my* salary (but I'm not a hardware or software engineer ;_;), as well as paid off all their cars, student loans, houses, transitional and surgical expenses, with income to burn. None of my dozens of non-trans friends have been as successful as those three yet. If that's not strength and dedication then I'm not sure what is.
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: kneesocks]
#19136899 - 11/14/13 04:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dr. P. Silocybin said: well kinda I thought that was the whole point. I don't know, but I've always assumed that the vast majority of gay men enjoy giving, (and or ) receiving anal sex.
Having sex doesn't always mean having penetrative sex.
Yeah.. But just because anal penetration is not the only way for gay men to make love does not mean that they don't enjoy it. Could someone who is a part of the gay community comment on this? I refuse to accept that the majority of gay men don't like anal.
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: Dr. P. Silocybin]
#19137595 - 11/14/13 06:45 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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it doesnt make you anything..
to be honest, sometimes i prefer beautiful with woman with cock.
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: mpd]
#19139102 - 11/14/13 11:36 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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mpd said: Gayer than a pride parade through downtown Palm Springs.
Pretty much.
Why Palm Springs, and not SF?
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: yogabunny]
#19142265 - 11/15/13 07:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think if you crave the penis like normal men crave tits/vag, then you are gay.
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Dr. P. Silocybin
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: mentalpatient] 1
#19142541 - 11/15/13 08:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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who u calling normal?
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: Dr. P. Silocybin]
#19142556 - 11/15/13 08:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dr. P. Silocybin said: who u calling normal? 
Lmao, normal, aka non-gay dudes. I don't think men were genetically meant to be gay, you know :p.
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: mentalpatient]
#19144010 - 11/16/13 02:42 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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mentalpatient said:
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Dr. P. Silocybin said: who u calling normal? 
Lmao, normal, aka non-gay dudes. I don't think men were genetically meant to be gay, you know :p.
Well uh...if they were genetically predetermined to be gay, then yeah...they kind of are meant to be. Wait, what does "meant to be" even mean, anyway?
Where does this "meaning" come in? We are what we are.
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Re: If you fall in love with a Ladyboy, are you technically gay? [Re: Sleepwalker]
#19144053 - 11/16/13 03:05 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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