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Anonymous #1

what i want *DELETED*
    #19141772 - 11/15/13 05:20 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Re: what i want [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19141783 - 11/15/13 05:21 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

people suck you probably wont find all of those things


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Re: what i want [Re: lunarpiscean] * 1
    #19141802 - 11/15/13 05:26 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

If you don't settle you might find what you're looking for.


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Re: what i want [Re: Sagescruffy]
    #19141805 - 11/15/13 05:28 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

was just a writing i wrote


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Re: what i want [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19141969 - 11/15/13 06:06 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Too many demands. Time for the porn.


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Re: what i want [Re: Sagescruffy]
    #19142065 - 11/15/13 06:27 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Sagescruffy said:
If you don't settle you might find what you're looking for.




Probably this one.


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Re: what i want [Re: Sagescruffy]
    #19142103 - 11/15/13 06:36 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Sagescruffy said:
If you don't settle you might find what you're looking for.




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Re: what i want [Re: Atrium]
    #19142758 - 11/15/13 08:53 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I just want to say...that I am also a hopeless romantic and can relate to every single thing on your list.

:sad:


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Re: what i want [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #19142796 - 11/15/13 08:58 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

i wrote a list like that & vowed to never settle. i didn't (for 4 years) and now they're here w/ me.



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Re: what i want [Re: yogabunny]
    #19142859 - 11/15/13 09:09 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

lucky :sun:


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Re: what i want [Re: yogabunny] * 1
    #19142894 - 11/15/13 09:15 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Ballerium said:
I just want to say...that I am also a hopeless romantic and can relate to every single thing on your list.

:sad:




I think everyone desires these things deep down from a partner. The problem is people settle for less, due to many reasons, but the main one is fear of being alone.  Unfortunately by settling they sell themselves short, and decide they don't deserve the future they desire.

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pika* said:
i wrote a list like that & vowed to never settle. i didn't (for 4 years) and now they're here w/ me.



:sunny::bliss::yinyang2:




This. This. This. The best advice I can give is never ever settle. I understand the fear of being alone but that fear can be overcome. Learning to love yourself is paramount to overcoming that fear, and to finding that special someone who is everything that is listed in the OP piece.


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Have you ever had a dream that you were so sure was real? What if you were unable to awake from that dream? How would you know the difference between that dream world and the real world?


There is NOTHING better than feeling that warm dissociative fuzz creeping up your body from IM K
Something abut that anaesthetic rush... :inlove:

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Re: what i want [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #19145324 - 11/16/13 01:30 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

It's been tough for me. The entire time I've been in relationships with guys I always have become emotionally dependent on them (even though they aren't treating me the way I should be treated) and then I feel too worried to break up with them or I'm afraid to hurt them in the process. But I've gotten to a point where I just can't take it anymore.


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Re: what i want [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #19145586 - 11/16/13 02:27 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
It's been tough for me. The entire time I've been in relationships with guys I always have become emotionally dependent on them (even though they aren't treating me the way I should be treated) and then I feel too worried to break up with them or I'm afraid to hurt them in the process. But I've gotten to a point where I just can't take it anymore.




Don't take it anymore.
Seriously - take it from me. I was there once. So have many other people. But once you break free and learn to love yourself and get rid of your fear of being alone, your next real relationship will be like heaven.

With my partner of 3+ years we never fight (and live together) (besides a few times I can count on my hands from silly tiny arguments), absolutely no jealousy or controlling behaviour (trust is so key), compromise, know how to take care of the other person in the relationship and listen to them just because of love - and not because of an expectation of sex or favors in return. I am very romantic, my partner is not, yet we still work because we know each others love languages.

Once you realize that a relationship really can be everything you wrote in the OP - then you can make the decision not to settle and find that special someone who treats you how you deserve to be treated. The thing is, you have to fix whats wrong with you first (without knowing too much specifics I can't say, but could be codependency because of the fear of being alone). A psychologist will do WONDERS for helping you overcome these issues.
Looking back at myself 5 years ago I can't believe what a different person I am. You owe it to yourself to get out of a relationship that isn't making you happy. A relationship should be the icing on the cake of life - anything less and it's not healthy.

It really breaks my heart seeing so many people posting similar things in the S&R forum, settling for those that are not worthy of them for fear of being alone / breaking up, especially since I was there once, and I also see it around me - my best friend is in a similar relationship and so unhappy, two of my siblings - the same story.


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Have you ever had a dream that you were so sure was real? What if you were unable to awake from that dream? How would you know the difference between that dream world and the real world?


There is NOTHING better than feeling that warm dissociative fuzz creeping up your body from IM K
Something abut that anaesthetic rush... :inlove:

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Re: what i want [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #19145841 - 11/16/13 03:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

i think what also has kept us together over the years is just pure jealousy and selfishness of not wanting each other making someone else happy. or someone else reaping the benefit of them and being with them. superficial reasons.. that i think has been one of the harder ones for me unfortunately. and i'm sure for him. it's been a long time coming....a few days/weeks we are fine then it's a 360 and we can't even stand each other. but always gritted our teeth and bared it.


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Re: what i want [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19146182 - 11/16/13 05:10 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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i think what also has kept us together over the years is just pure jealousy and selfishness of not wanting each other making someone else happy. or someone else reaping the benefit of them and being with them. superficial reasons.. that i think has been one of the harder ones for me unfortunately. and i'm sure for him. it's been a long time coming....a few days/weeks we are fine then it's a 360 and we can't even stand each other. but always gritted our teeth and bared it.




Codependency.. It is horrible, I used to be VERY codependent and my relationships were exactly like you mentioned. Overcoming that was key to being enabled to not settle and to find that special someone for me.
I would make an appointment with a counsellor, they can really help you overcome it. You deserve a better life. Don't be like my best friend, brother, and sister, who all settled and are in unhappy relationships.


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Have you ever had a dream that you were so sure was real? What if you were unable to awake from that dream? How would you know the difference between that dream world and the real world?


There is NOTHING better than feeling that warm dissociative fuzz creeping up your body from IM K
Something abut that anaesthetic rush... :inlove:

Qualitative Research Chemical Effects and Experiences
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Re: what i want [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #19147555 - 11/16/13 10:09 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

OP just hang in there. You have to have faith that your dream partner will come. Work on yourself everyday, don't focus on negativity and don't settle for nothing but what your heart tells you is perfect. You will find it...and all those years you spent longing for that love will feel like seconds compared to the eternity of your lover's embrace. Stay strong


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Re: what i want [Re: Black_Sunset]
    #19152543 - 11/18/13 12:12 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Threads like these give me hope for my future. Not settling is a tough, hard path.


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Re: what i want [Re: Giggle_Grower]
    #19152680 - 11/18/13 01:28 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Giggle_Grower said:
Threads like these give me hope for my future. Not settling is a tough, hard path.




Mmm the way i see it, it can only make your self stronger.

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Re: what i want [Re: Legend]
    #19152721 - 11/18/13 01:59 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Very true. Stills sucks in the meantime. Lol


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Re: what i want [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19162660 - 11/19/13 10:32 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

lol i've been singlfor years. fuck co dependency. it's only ever got me screwed. now a harmonious relationship. that i'd gladly work towards.


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