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Mello Kitty
Beautiful Burnout



Registered: 12/04/08
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so how do you ..?
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learn to love yourself ..?
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g00ru
lit pants tit licker



Registered: 08/09/07
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Loc: georgia, us
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all the love you need is already in your own heart, you just have to look within :-)
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Sell Your Soul
Nutmeg shaman


Registered: 03/15/00
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Loc: Over there
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Mello Kitty said: learn to love yourself ..?
You have to respect yourself fist, and you have to appreciate what you already have.
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mindgnome
Wanderer


Registered: 10/30/13
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Loc: Somewhere
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You need to treat yourself well and know what is best for your mind. Smoking weed constantly made me feel dull and I didn't know what to think of myself....Now when I look in the mirror I think "I really care about this person". Once upon a time I did mushrooms and I looked in the mirror and the amount of care and love I had for myself was immense. That is how it has been ever since. Even though I am not healthiest person, I do care about myself. You have to find the reasons you are beautiful on the inside. Like are you creative, do you have empathy for other people, ect. Find the reasons why you are a good person. If you truly care about people that makes you a beautiful person. Empathy is a beautiful emotion even if it is overwhelming at times it is numero uno to understanding yourself and the world around you.
-------------------- "As I walk on through troubled times my spirit gets so downhearted sometimes so where are the strong and who are the trusted? And where is the harmony? Sweet harmony. Cause each time I feel it slippin' away, just makes me wanna cry. What's so funny 'bout peace love & understanding?" - Nick Lowe "Psychedelic drugs don't change you - they don't change your character - unless you want to be changed. They enable change; they can't impose it...” - Sasha Shulgin
Edited by mindgnome (11/14/13 12:08 PM)
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g00ru
lit pants tit licker



Registered: 08/09/07
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Loc: georgia, us
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Sell Your Soul said:
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Mello Kitty said: learn to love yourself ..?
You have to respect yourself fist, and you have to appreciate what you already have.
this too
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lessismore
Registered: 02/10/13
Posts: 6,268
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Sell Your Soul said:
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Mello Kitty said: learn to love yourself ..?
You have to respect yourself fist, and you have to appreciate what you already have.
Stop doing what makes you unhappy Start doing what makes you happy
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PsychedelicLife
Stranger
Registered: 11/14/13
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It's actually really simple. I had this issue once after doing psychedelics where I realized I was basically scum: I was cheating in school, lying to my parents, not being loyal to my friends, not caring about fellow human beings, putting my family under a ton of stress due to a few heroin incidents and so forth. This realization came to me like a curse because prior to it, I was ignorant of my wrong doings so I was in a blissful state of denial. Today I realize it has truly has been a blessing in disguise.
The best way to love yourself would be to partake in activities that benefit your fellow man. It sounds cheesy, I know, and it really is a lot of work but oh boy does it pay off. Help out at homeless shelters, buy meals for the homeless, volunteer for a good cause, try to establish a good relationship with your family and make sacrifices for them often, compliment your friends and make them feel good, kill your ego, do something selfless daily, give gifts to people you love often, call your grandparents often and tell them you love them (it's insane how lonely old people are and they truly do appreciate the love), and so forth. If you do this for a year or so, then smoke a bowl or go on a mushroom trip, something magical will happen. You will suddenly realize that wow, I'm actually a decent, loving, caring human being. Even though I may not be perfect, I've taken the opportunity and made the sacrifices to help out and benefit people other than myself. You will be filled with love because no matter what happens, you will know deep inside that YOU are responsible for the happiness of your fellow human beings. Human life is nothing but the constant, never-ending battle between the id (the selfish side of you that seeks quick pleasure no matter the cost or harm it may bring to you or those around you) and the super ego (the moral, "good" side of you that thinks about the long-term and allows you to be selfless). Your ego is constantly pulled and steered by these two forces but YOU, and only YOU, are the one who chooses which side to empower.
Don't dwell on the past, it's completely meaningless. I've made a lot of mistakes that I regret and they caused me years of depression. I realized I was actually depressed because I was playing the game of life incorrectly and making selfish choices rather than selfless ones.
The only way to love yourself is to PROVE to yourself that you are a valuable and caring human being. And all that takes is sacrifice
Edited by PsychedelicLife (11/14/13 12:21 PM)
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lessismore
Registered: 02/10/13
Posts: 6,268
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the greatest happiness is from seeing/making others happy
spread the love :-)
it is never regretted
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vinsue
Grand Old Fart



Registered: 02/17/04
Posts: 17,953
Loc: The Garden State(NJ)
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learn to love yourself ..?
Might be time to rethink this one.
Last we talked you were here, https://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/19085704 and I was here. https://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/19197337#19197337 I did my 28 day shortly after that. Figured you did your time and/or a program since then.
That threadQuote:
Kitty said: its not awful he's giving it to me for rent.. i dont need rent. so i can use it for what i want whats the big deal? lol stop being a buncha pussies ive done SOOOOO much worse this aint shit
got dumped after the flame fest, and before I could send my response.
Be careful Kitty, heroin kills every day. And don't deceive family for a fix. Your gramps is my age (probably younger) and would rather see you get well.
Yea, you're sick, you got this addiction disease thing, it's pretty common around here. I got it too. Please don't let the streets/drugs take what's left of your beauty, smarts and dignity, or your life.
And don't make me drive down there and spankknock some sense into you. I'm right up the Pike, Exit 18E, ya know.
If you're ready, let someone help.
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"All mushrooms are edible; but some only once." Croatian proverb. BTW ... Have You Rated Ythans Mom Yet ?? ... ... HERE'S HOW ... (be nice) . ...
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