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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
#19131659 - 11/13/13 03:00 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Imagine her shitting before you talk to her next time, won't take her as seriously then then ask her if you can watch her shit.
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: Repertoire89]
#19131664 - 11/13/13 03:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Talk to her, be yourself.
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#19131668 - 11/13/13 03:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sometimes before you talk to someone you will want to first talk to their doctor, or possibly talk to someone that can get you in touch with that doctor that recently quit medicine and became a basketball player. For indeed certain doctors may abandon their practice altogether and decide to retire. I know I haven't seen many doctors lately, but I've been searching around for one.
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: drkkenny]
#19131683 - 11/13/13 03:05 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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drkkenny said: Sometimes before you talk to someone you will want to first talk to their doctor, or possibly talk to someone that can get you in touch with that doctor that recently quit medicine and became a basketball player. For indeed certain doctors may abandon their practice altogether and decide to retire. I know I haven't seen many doctors lately, but I've been searching around for one.
Well their dentist is always a good substitute.
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: badchad]
#19131734 - 11/13/13 03:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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badchad said: I think you're over-thinking it. Approach her like any other girl and engage her in casual conversation. Sounds like you at least have a couple things in common: you're both in grad school, tutoring, go to the same uni, and are probably about the same age. Just walk up to her and ask her what she tutors, then go from there "Oh you teach chemistry, how interesting, I'm tutoring ______, holy cow, canyou believe the kids we get?, one time... (insert stupid joke here)".
If its important to you, I'd suggest your first course of action is figuring out how Americanized she is (or isn't). Personally, I like to drink and eat hamburgers, so someone adamantly against these things might not be the girl for me.
if she is hindu maybe leave out the holy cow bit
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#19132421 - 11/13/13 06:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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drkkenny said: Sometimes before you talk to someone you will want to first talk to their doctor, or possibly talk to someone that can get you in touch with that doctor that recently quit medicine and became a basketball player. For indeed certain doctors may abandon their practice altogether and decide to retire. I know I haven't seen many doctors lately, but I've been searching around for one.
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
#19132428 - 11/13/13 06:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Nobody said "DSHSB" yet.
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
#19132454 - 11/13/13 06:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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morrowasted said: So I work in a tutoring center at my uni. There is a girl who tutors chemistry that I have have become fond of. She is very quiet and shy. And she is Indian (not native American). I know how to approach most girls, but for some reason I am struggling with how to approach this girl. We are both in grad school but we tutor completely different subjects so I can't really approach her about shared subject matter. She looks at me from time to time like she admires me. Where would take this girl? What would we talk about? Should I lie about the "bad things" I have done so she won't be scared off? She seems like good wife material. I am getting older and am sick of playing the dating game, I want a serious relationship. What should I do 
If she is indian you must first approach her parents with a request to betrothe their daughter. They will tell you the price after you submit your bank records, 401k and stuff to determine if she is right for you. If she is of your approrpriate social class you may betrothe her until the wedding ceremony. Having citizenship in a desirable country helps with these arranged marriages too, it works in your favor.
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: Ellis Dee]
#19132469 - 11/13/13 06:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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morrowasted said: So I work in a tutoring center at my uni. There is a girl who tutors chemistry that I have have become fond of. She is very quiet and shy. And she is Indian (not native American). I know how to approach most girls, but for some reason I am struggling with how to approach this girl. We are both in grad school but we tutor completely different subjects so I can't really approach her about shared subject matter. She looks at me from time to time like she admires me. Where would take this girl? What would we talk about? Should I lie about the "bad things" I have done so she won't be scared off? She seems like good wife material. I am getting older and am sick of playing the dating game, I want a serious relationship. What should I do 
If she is indian you must first approach her parents with a request to betrothe their daughter. They will tell you the price after you submit your bank records, 401k and stuff to determine if she is right for you. If she is of your approrpriate social class you may betrothe her until the wedding ceremony. Having citizenship in a desirable country helps with these arranged marriages too, it works in your favor.
i think you're probably right tbh i dont have a 401k job, just the same one she does
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
#19132712 - 11/13/13 07:05 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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an arranged marriage is like a dating site hook up set up by your parents tbh
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: Konyap]
#19132729 - 11/13/13 07:08 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Give her a notecard saying simply "DSHSB?".
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
#19133065 - 11/13/13 08:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm half Indian, from my experience it seems if they grow up raised like a traditional Indian child (super super strict) they like intelligent confident mature men. If they are brought up the American way they turn out kind of slutty lol..
I don't find Indian woman attractive, I've actually only hooked up with one girl that wasn't white, she was Indian.
I've also noticed often that Indian people are VERY smart.
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: Chowder963]
#19134947 - 11/14/13 07:11 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Chowder963 said: I'm half Indian, from my experience it seems if they grow up raised like a traditional Indian child (super super strict) they like intelligent confident mature men. If they are brought up the American way they turn out kind of slutty lol..
I don't find Indian woman attractive, I've actually only hooked up with one girl that wasn't white, she was Indian.
I've also noticed often that Indian people are VERY smart.
well she is probably smart considering she is working towards a PhD in chemistry and she tutors organic and physical chemistry without getting flustered. I feel like I am intelligent. I come across as confident to older people. I am really in my element around adults; I feel at ease conversing with them, so when I meet the parents of my SOs it always goes really well (ironically). I'm less mature than I pretend to be though
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
#19135070 - 11/14/13 08:04 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I would recommend running away OP. The culture clash will be very difficult especially if her parents comes from India (not born in the US or UK or wherever the fuck you are)
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
#19135113 - 11/14/13 08:20 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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the same thing you would do if you were interested in any other girl?
i don't understand why it matters that she's indian?
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: yogabunny]
#19135144 - 11/14/13 08:34 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pika* said: the same thing you would do if you were interested in any other girl?
i don't understand why it matters that she's indian?
because people come from different cultures... I believe she is actually an immigrant.. indian culture has things like arranged marriage and they eat kinds of food that I am not accustomed to. the more i think about it the more it makes sense that it might appeal to this girl to be treated like any other american girl, but what I was thinking was that I wanted to be culturally sensitive to her needs/wishes...
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
#19135203 - 11/14/13 08:54 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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hmmm...ok, i assumed you meant indian-american.
i think it's sweet that you're already considering that, but...just ask her out! it sounds like you two have a lot in common, so find a way to strike up a conversation around your mutual interests, and then see if she wants to continue it over a drink or coffee.
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: yogabunny]
#19135213 - 11/14/13 08:57 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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thanks for your advice, it's more reassuring to hear it from a female. mark my words, i am going to take action tomorrow if she is working!
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
#19135537 - 11/14/13 10:14 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Pay her father with your fattest pig. I think that's how you take a wife over there
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
#19135550 - 11/14/13 10:18 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I married an Indian Girl. Best decision EVER. She is the bomb and her whole indian family and culture is awesome.
And her mom makes the best food in the world. Seriously west indian cuisine is
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