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volcomstoner
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19134314 - 11/14/13 01:19 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fuck no that wouldn't be weird, you better get that shit if she's gonna dumo you right when you expected getting a kiss. I'd have been pissed
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#19134319 - 11/14/13 01:20 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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should i just put you on ignore? You're certainly not a very interesting poster 
Yes I am so!!!! Sometimes I just like to be a dick for no reason. Deal with it.
Regarding your girl, it sounds like she has issues she needs to work out before she is willing to commit to a relationship, and you should respect that. If you really like her, the last thing you want to do is badger her into a relationship and then have it go south because she wasn't ready for it. Wait till she gets her shit together or find someone else.
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: volcomstoner]
#19134325 - 11/14/13 01:21 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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maybe she'd even be down to just be casual fuckbuddies while shes getting her life together
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: Schmendrick]
#19134328 - 11/14/13 01:23 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I like all of what you said except waiting for her to get her shit together, no that's the worst thing you could do since your already so broken up about it. The last thing you need is to think there's still a chance with the relationship. Because there isn't, you've already broken up once, it's just not salvagable.
Plus do you really want to be back with her after she dumped you and started fucking other dudes?
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: volcomstoner]
#19134342 - 11/14/13 01:28 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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volcomstoner said: I like all of what you said except waiting for her to get her shit together, no that's the worst thing you could do since your already so broken up about it. The last thing you need is to think there's still a chance with the relationship. Because there isn't, you've already broken up once, it's just not salvagable.
Plus do you really want to be back with her after she dumped you and started fucking other dudes?
The only one around here fucking dudes is this guy ^^
If you like this girl, give her some time. If not, if all you really want is some poontang, then either find it somewhere else or slip the bitch some rufees.
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: volcomstoner] 1
#19134349 - 11/14/13 01:30 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think volcom is just being brutually honest
OP would definitely be better off just trying to not think about his ex and just move on...
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: TrentBoyett]
#19134372 - 11/14/13 01:36 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm being brutally honest, too. Rape happens, and this is how it happens sometimes. If OP is capable of rape, maybe it's time to play his cards.. on the other hand, perhaps he isn't a complete and total douchebag sociopath. Maybe, just maybe rape isn't the way to go here.
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19134384 - 11/14/13 01:40 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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volcomstoner said: I like all of what you said except waiting for her to get her shit together, no that's the worst thing you could do since your already so broken up about it. The last thing you need is to think there's still a chance with the relationship. Because there isn't, you've already broken up once, it's just not salvagable.
Plus do you really want to be back with her after she dumped you and started fucking other dudes?
The only one around here fucking dudes is this guy ^^
If you like this girl, give her some time. If not, if all you really want is some poontang, then either find it somewhere else or slip the bitch some rufees.
dude, it's over, for whatever reason she doesn't want to be with him anymore. And if he thinks he still has a chance he is going to be constantly depressed just waiting for the opportunity to get back with her. He needs to move on and find a different girl, IDC if it sounds like I'm being a dick but it honestly seems like I'm the only one looking out for the OP's best interest.
How often do you a couple breakup and get back together, actually stay together in a happy relationship?
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IMO that's a bad idea, you obviously like her a lot and it's best just to cut her out of your life completely.
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: volcomstoner]
#19134392 - 11/14/13 01:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Schmendrick said:
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volcomstoner said: I like all of what you said except waiting for her to get her shit together, no that's the worst thing you could do since your already so broken up about it. The last thing you need is to think there's still a chance with the relationship. Because there isn't, you've already broken up once, it's just not salvagable.
Plus do you really want to be back with her after she dumped you and started fucking other dudes?
The only one around here fucking dudes is this guy ^^
If you like this girl, give her some time. If not, if all you really want is some poontang, then either find it somewhere else or slip the bitch some rufees.
dude, it's over, for whatever reason she doesn't want to be with him anymore. And if he thinks he still has a chance he is going to be constantly depressed just waiting for the opportunity to get back with her. He needs to move on and find a different girl, IDC if it sounds like I'm being a dick but it honestly seems like I'm the only one looking out for the OP's best interest.
How often do you a couple breakup and get back together, actually stay together in a happy relationship?
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rbalzer said: maybe she'd even be down to just be casual fuckbuddies while shes getting her life together 
IMO that's a bad idea, you obviously like her a lot and it's best just to cut her out of your life completely.
Apparently volcom knows whats best for me based on the paragraph i wrote.
thanks for the advice, but jeez dude
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19134397 - 11/14/13 01:45 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've seen this situation play out over and over again, if someone hangs on they ALWAYS end up getting hurt again.
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: volcomstoner]
#19134398 - 11/14/13 01:45 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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How often do you a couple breakup and get back together, actually stay together in a happy relationship?
Dunno. My sister and her husband have been 'broken up' a few times. I have no idea how happy they really are though. Maybe I am just a sappy optimist, but I don't usually cut people off quite as quickly as you are suggesting OP do.
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19134402 - 11/14/13 01:46 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dude, you were crying over a month long relationship Are you fucking kidding me? It doesn't take a genius to realize you should move on to something that will actually work
Have fun being hung up on a chick that won't even date you
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: volcomstoner]
#19134407 - 11/14/13 01:48 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Have fun being hung up on a chick that won't even date you
Am I missing something here? Let me re-read the original post. I thought they had been dating already. If not... if this was the first time, then volcomstoner is right.
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: volcomstoner]
#19134408 - 11/14/13 01:48 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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OP how old are you? How many relationships have you been in? How many of them were serious?
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: Schmendrick]
#19134412 - 11/14/13 01:49 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Have fun being hung up on a chick that won't even date you
Am I missing something here? Let me re-read the original post. I thought they had been dating already. If not... if this was the first time, then volcomstoner is right.
She broke up with him though, and he obviously cares about her more than she cares about him.
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: volcomstoner]
#19134414 - 11/14/13 01:50 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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OP makes it sound like they had been dating already. He needs to clarify, cuz if this girl was not a serious girlfriend already, then I retract everything I have said here.
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: volcomstoner] 1
#19134418 - 11/14/13 01:51 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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volcomstoner said: Dude, you were crying over a month long relationship Are you fucking kidding me? It doesn't take a genius to realize you should move on to something that will actually work
Have fun being hung up on a chick that won't even date you
^ He is kinda being brutally honest, but it's all true Just keep moving man, get up, go to work/school, better yourself Shit happens, just keep moving Time heals,, Cheers
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: Schmendrick]
#19134421 - 11/14/13 01:52 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Schmendrick said: OP makes it sound like they had been dating already. He needs to clarify, cuz if this girl was not a serious girlfriend already, then I retract everything I have said here.
they were dating for a month, definitely not a "serious" relationship
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: volcomstoner]
#19134426 - 11/14/13 01:53 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Alright then, volcomstoner is ACTUALLY right for once. Do as he says, whippersnapper. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
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Re: girl just broke up with mee [Re: volcomstoner]
#19134429 - 11/14/13 01:54 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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volcomstoner said: Dude, you were crying over a month long relationship Are you fucking kidding me? It doesn't take a genius to realize you should move on to something that will actually work
Have fun being hung up on a chick that won't even date you
tell me my future bro. since you obviously know it
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