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Anonymous #1
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What Is Real?
#19131445 - 11/13/13 01:59 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I have tried countless times to be socially active and participate in different conversations. Yet, I am not to even be heard by anyone. They look at me, in my eyes, I am speaking. Nothing brings them to interact with me. Perhaps I am not interesting, perhaps what I offer to the table is a buzz kill, and everyone is just out for that good time. Perhaps, what I actually offer, is reality. I am real, I speak truth from my heart, not from the people that surround me. The hardest part is that I can't find anyone in this world to talk to because to them, I am not real. This is not real, why has everyone lost their fucking minds? What is real? Well, I know I am.
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Anonymous #2
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You are overthinking things and this is affecting you're behaviour when you are out with people. If you've developed a reputation as the quiet, awkward one don't be surprised if people pay less attention to you, afterall that is what you've conditioned them to do overtime.
If you speak anything like you type then I could see why you might provoke an unusual response. Of course people are out for a good time, why else would they or yourself be out? If your looking deep meaningful conversation, join a philosophy class or a group of like minded people.
You say you offer 'reality'. But from your perspective 'reality' is a place where everyone else is wrong. YOU aren't the problem, it must be them. You're the only one who speaks the truth, who opens their heart.
It could be misinterpreted as quite pretentious coming from someone who still has grown comfortable with being themselves and accepting what's going on around them. If you're reffering to trying to strike up conversation whilst drinking, don't talk about heavy, depressing subjects. Keep it light, keep it fun.
There are multiple potential explanations as to why you're struggling socially. There is no massive conspiracy to make you feel bad, you've just got stuck on an awkward path.
Do you prefer my lecture about how you are wrong and I am right or would you now prefer to discuss how epic the last ep. of Breaking Bad was? Joe Public prefers the latter too. Unless the other person initiates a heavier topic of discussion, keep it upbeat dude.
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Anonymous #3
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stop being a condescending prick op
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Anonymous #1
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Thanks, I appreciate the honesty anon#2
And for anon#3, I wouldn't really call myself condescending, but rather passive aggressive.
Equally disruptive behavior anyways.
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Anonymous #4
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I feel like this too, and I really liked Anon2's response
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Anonymous #1
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I am glad that I am not the only one that feels like this, and after over thinking this post I decided that there's a reason why I live like a hermit, and its this stupid town I live in. Its hard to talk to inbred hillbillies. Not much moves around up there ya know what I am saying :P
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Anonymous #5
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Anonymous #6
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real is imagined acting.
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Anonymous #7
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Drink a beer first.
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