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I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do??
    #19131226 - 11/13/13 01:11 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

So I work in a tutoring center at my uni. There is a girl who tutors chemistry that I have have become fond of. She is very quiet and shy. And she is Indian (not native American). I know how to approach most girls, but for some reason I am struggling with how to approach this girl. We are both in grad school but we tutor completely different subjects so I can't really approach her about shared subject matter. She looks at me from time to time like she admires me. Where would take this girl? What would we talk about? Should I lie about the "bad things" I have done so she won't be scared off? She seems like good wife material. I am getting older and am sick of playing the dating game, I want a serious relationship. What should I do :sad:


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted] * 1
    #19131240 - 11/13/13 01:14 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Do what feels right and natural to you. If it is meant to be, then it will happen. Whatever feels natural for you, just keep in mind that you can't wear a mask forever.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: kneesocks]
    #19131260 - 11/13/13 01:16 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Do what feels right and natural to you. If it is meant to be, then it will happen. Whatever feels natural for you, just keep in mind that you can't wear a mask forever.



well I don't even do psychedelics anymore. I smoke at night but that is it. The whole drug lifestyle is way behind me, I never party or anything like that. But it is definitely part of my past that I can't hide forever. I doubt this girl has ever done any kind of drug in her life.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: kneesocks] * 4
    #19131261 - 11/13/13 01:16 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Learn to enjoy curry


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: ImFukNCLUELESS]
    #19131268 - 11/13/13 01:17 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Learn to enjoy curry



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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131298 - 11/13/13 01:23 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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kneesocks said:
Do what feels right and natural to you. If it is meant to be, then it will happen. Whatever feels natural for you, just keep in mind that you can't wear a mask forever.



well I don't even do psychedelics anymore. I smoke at night but that is it. The whole drug lifestyle is way behind me, I never party or anything like that. But it is definitely part of my past that I can't hide forever. I doubt this girl has ever done any kind of drug in her life.




You might be surprised, a lot of people in that part of the world smoke weed.

My impression is that a lot of Indian families really try to control who their kids get together with. If her family really isn't into the idea of her getting together with a guy who isn't Indian, there might be a problem. Who knows though.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131303 - 11/13/13 01:24 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I think you're over-thinking it.  Approach her like any other girl and engage her in casual conversation.  Sounds like you at least have a couple things in common:  you're both in grad school, tutoring, go to the same uni, and are probably about the same age.  Just walk up to her and ask her what she tutors, then go from there "Oh you teach chemistry, how interesting, I'm tutoring ______, holy cow, canyou believe the kids we get?, one time... (insert stupid joke here)".

If its important to you, I'd suggest your first course of action is figuring out how Americanized she is (or isn't).  Personally, I like to drink and eat hamburgers, so someone adamantly against these things might not be the girl for me.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: psi]
    #19131310 - 11/13/13 01:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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You might be surprised, a lot of people in that part of the world smoke weed.



yeah but not once they move to America, they become super serious :shrug:

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My impression is that a lot of Indian families really try to control who their kids get together with. If her family really isn't into the idea of her getting together with a guy who isn't Indian, there might be a problem. Who knows though.


I really hope not :sad:


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131315 - 11/13/13 01:28 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Dude just be straight up with her either it will work or it wont and if it dont move on


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: badchad]
    #19131328 - 11/13/13 01:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Personally, I like to drink and eat hamburgers, so someone adamantly against these things might not be the girl for me.



this is a good thought. I've been trying to get a feel for this. Problem is that she is so quiet and I never see her outside of work. I don't wanna just be like "so you do you prefer curry or pizza?" she has a medium-heavy accent which makes me think she is an immigrant but has been living here for a decent period of time. 

but you are right I am probably overthinking it. she seems to fancy me from a distance and I bet she would respond well to casual conversation. I guess I am just used to flirting with girls whose credentials I consider to be less than mine and for whatever reason that makes it easy for me to flirt with them but since this girl appears to be just as smart and successful as I am, I'm intimidated


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: ImFukNCLUELESS]
    #19131331 - 11/13/13 01:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Just start striking up random conversations about current events, use small talk to key in on a hobby or interest, then invite her out to coffee or lunch to further the discussion. Its intelligent, mature, and just the right amount of subtlety for an Indian grad student.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131371 - 11/13/13 01:45 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Just treat her like anyone else, brah.
You're over thinking this way too much.

I kinda got a thing with a cute Indian girl and all i did was be myself.:shrug:


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: thoughts]
    #19131386 - 11/13/13 01:48 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Just treat her like anyone else, brah.
You're over thinking this way too much.

I kinda got a thing with a cute Indian girl and all i did was be myself.:shrug:



but like, how indian is she? I've flirted with plenty of americanized foreign girls of all descents but I am pretty sure this girl is from another culture and is in the process of adapting to ours. it just feels different man. it feels different.

she just got free from tutoring. she is eating an apple. that is pretty american/normal. considering my approach now.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131427 - 11/13/13 01:56 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Yeah there's nothing American about my girl, i'm trying to have her visit the states, never even been here.:lol:
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: thoughts]
    #19131493 - 11/13/13 02:13 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

well I just went over and said hi to her and she she hi but then a student came in for chem tutoring and it was awkward and I just walked away goddammit I hate myself for being such a loser. this doesnt make any sense, I'm a pretty attractive guy with positive things in his life, I ought to be way more confident than some of the bozos I meet who are getting laid left and right at frat parties


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131510 - 11/13/13 02:18 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Be a baus, dawg.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: thoughts]
    #19131526 - 11/13/13 02:22 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

i just wanna nibble on her little indian earlobe and call her pet names and hold her hand while we walk around campus :sad: is that too much for a fella to ask


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131551 - 11/13/13 02:28 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Man, that ain't BAUS.:crankdre:


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: thoughts]
    #19131561 - 11/13/13 02:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

i know im just a guy who wants a companion :blush:


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: thoughts]
    #19131563 - 11/13/13 02:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Ask her about her opinion on all the gang rapes in India.

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