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I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do??
    #19131226 - 11/13/13 01:11 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

So I work in a tutoring center at my uni. There is a girl who tutors chemistry that I have have become fond of. She is very quiet and shy. And she is Indian (not native American). I know how to approach most girls, but for some reason I am struggling with how to approach this girl. We are both in grad school but we tutor completely different subjects so I can't really approach her about shared subject matter. She looks at me from time to time like she admires me. Where would take this girl? What would we talk about? Should I lie about the "bad things" I have done so she won't be scared off? She seems like good wife material. I am getting older and am sick of playing the dating game, I want a serious relationship. What should I do :sad:


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted] * 1
    #19131240 - 11/13/13 01:14 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Do what feels right and natural to you. If it is meant to be, then it will happen. Whatever feels natural for you, just keep in mind that you can't wear a mask forever.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: kneesocks]
    #19131260 - 11/13/13 01:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Do what feels right and natural to you. If it is meant to be, then it will happen. Whatever feels natural for you, just keep in mind that you can't wear a mask forever.



well I don't even do psychedelics anymore. I smoke at night but that is it. The whole drug lifestyle is way behind me, I never party or anything like that. But it is definitely part of my past that I can't hide forever. I doubt this girl has ever done any kind of drug in her life.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: kneesocks] * 4
    #19131261 - 11/13/13 01:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: ImFukNCLUELESS]
    #19131268 - 11/13/13 01:17 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131298 - 11/13/13 01:23 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Do what feels right and natural to you. If it is meant to be, then it will happen. Whatever feels natural for you, just keep in mind that you can't wear a mask forever.



well I don't even do psychedelics anymore. I smoke at night but that is it. The whole drug lifestyle is way behind me, I never party or anything like that. But it is definitely part of my past that I can't hide forever. I doubt this girl has ever done any kind of drug in her life.




You might be surprised, a lot of people in that part of the world smoke weed.

My impression is that a lot of Indian families really try to control who their kids get together with. If her family really isn't into the idea of her getting together with a guy who isn't Indian, there might be a problem. Who knows though.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131303 - 11/13/13 01:24 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I think you're over-thinking it.  Approach her like any other girl and engage her in casual conversation.  Sounds like you at least have a couple things in common:  you're both in grad school, tutoring, go to the same uni, and are probably about the same age.  Just walk up to her and ask her what she tutors, then go from there "Oh you teach chemistry, how interesting, I'm tutoring ______, holy cow, canyou believe the kids we get?, one time... (insert stupid joke here)".

If its important to you, I'd suggest your first course of action is figuring out how Americanized she is (or isn't).  Personally, I like to drink and eat hamburgers, so someone adamantly against these things might not be the girl for me.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: psi]
    #19131310 - 11/13/13 01:25 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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You might be surprised, a lot of people in that part of the world smoke weed.



yeah but not once they move to America, they become super serious :shrug:

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My impression is that a lot of Indian families really try to control who their kids get together with. If her family really isn't into the idea of her getting together with a guy who isn't Indian, there might be a problem. Who knows though.


I really hope not :sad:


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131315 - 11/13/13 01:28 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Dude just be straight up with her either it will work or it wont and if it dont move on


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: badchad]
    #19131328 - 11/13/13 01:31 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Personally, I like to drink and eat hamburgers, so someone adamantly against these things might not be the girl for me.



this is a good thought. I've been trying to get a feel for this. Problem is that she is so quiet and I never see her outside of work. I don't wanna just be like "so you do you prefer curry or pizza?" she has a medium-heavy accent which makes me think she is an immigrant but has been living here for a decent period of time. 

but you are right I am probably overthinking it. she seems to fancy me from a distance and I bet she would respond well to casual conversation. I guess I am just used to flirting with girls whose credentials I consider to be less than mine and for whatever reason that makes it easy for me to flirt with them but since this girl appears to be just as smart and successful as I am, I'm intimidated


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: ImFukNCLUELESS]
    #19131331 - 11/13/13 01:32 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Just start striking up random conversations about current events, use small talk to key in on a hobby or interest, then invite her out to coffee or lunch to further the discussion. Its intelligent, mature, and just the right amount of subtlety for an Indian grad student.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131371 - 11/13/13 01:45 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Just treat her like anyone else, brah.
You're over thinking this way too much.

I kinda got a thing with a cute Indian girl and all i did was be myself.:shrug:


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: thoughts]
    #19131386 - 11/13/13 01:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Just treat her like anyone else, brah.
You're over thinking this way too much.

I kinda got a thing with a cute Indian girl and all i did was be myself.:shrug:



but like, how indian is she? I've flirted with plenty of americanized foreign girls of all descents but I am pretty sure this girl is from another culture and is in the process of adapting to ours. it just feels different man. it feels different.

she just got free from tutoring. she is eating an apple. that is pretty american/normal. considering my approach now.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131427 - 11/13/13 01:56 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Yeah there's nothing American about my girl, i'm trying to have her visit the states, never even been here.:lol:
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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: thoughts]
    #19131493 - 11/13/13 02:13 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

well I just went over and said hi to her and she she hi but then a student came in for chem tutoring and it was awkward and I just walked away goddammit I hate myself for being such a loser. this doesnt make any sense, I'm a pretty attractive guy with positive things in his life, I ought to be way more confident than some of the bozos I meet who are getting laid left and right at frat parties


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131510 - 11/13/13 02:18 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Be a baus, dawg.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: thoughts]
    #19131526 - 11/13/13 02:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

i just wanna nibble on her little indian earlobe and call her pet names and hold her hand while we walk around campus :sad: is that too much for a fella to ask


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    #19131551 - 11/13/13 02:28 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Man, that ain't BAUS.:crankdre:


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    #19131561 - 11/13/13 02:32 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

i know im just a guy who wants a companion :blush:


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: thoughts]
    #19131563 - 11/13/13 02:33 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Ask her about her opinion on all the gang rapes in India.

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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19131659 - 11/13/13 03:00 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Imagine her shitting before you talk to her next time, won't take her as seriously then :shrug: then ask her if you can watch her shit.


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    #19131664 - 11/13/13 03:01 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Talk to her, be yourself.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted] * 4
    #19131668 - 11/13/13 03:02 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Sometimes before you talk to someone you will want to first talk to their doctor, or possibly talk to someone that can get you in touch with that doctor that recently quit medicine and became a basketball player. For indeed certain doctors may abandon their practice altogether and decide to retire. I know I haven't seen many doctors lately, but I've been searching around for one.


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    #19131683 - 11/13/13 03:05 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Sometimes before you talk to someone you will want to first talk to their doctor, or possibly talk to someone that can get you in touch with that doctor that recently quit medicine and became a basketball player. For indeed certain doctors may abandon their practice altogether and decide to retire. I know I haven't seen many doctors lately, but I've been searching around for one.




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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: badchad]
    #19131734 - 11/13/13 03:15 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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I think you're over-thinking it.  Approach her like any other girl and engage her in casual conversation.  Sounds like you at least have a couple things in common:  you're both in grad school, tutoring, go to the same uni, and are probably about the same age.  Just walk up to her and ask her what she tutors, then go from there "Oh you teach chemistry, how interesting, I'm tutoring ______, holy cow, canyou believe the kids we get?, one time... (insert stupid joke here)".

If its important to you, I'd suggest your first course of action is figuring out how Americanized she is (or isn't).  Personally, I like to drink and eat hamburgers, so someone adamantly against these things might not be the girl for me.





if she is hindu maybe leave out the holy cow bit :wink:


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    #19132421 - 11/13/13 06:02 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Sometimes before you talk to someone you will want to first talk to their doctor, or possibly talk to someone that can get you in touch with that doctor that recently quit medicine and became a basketball player. For indeed certain doctors may abandon their practice altogether and decide to retire. I know I haven't seen many doctors lately, but I've been searching around for one.





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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19132428 - 11/13/13 06:04 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Nobody said "DSHSB" yet.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19132454 - 11/13/13 06:09 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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So I work in a tutoring center at my uni. There is a girl who tutors chemistry that I have have become fond of. She is very quiet and shy. And she is Indian (not native American). I know how to approach most girls, but for some reason I am struggling with how to approach this girl. We are both in grad school but we tutor completely different subjects so I can't really approach her about shared subject matter. She looks at me from time to time like she admires me. Where would take this girl? What would we talk about? Should I lie about the "bad things" I have done so she won't be scared off? She seems like good wife material. I am getting older and am sick of playing the dating game, I want a serious relationship. What should I do :sad:



If she is indian you must first approach her parents with a request to betrothe their daughter. They will tell you the price after you submit your bank records, 401k and stuff to determine if she is right for you. If she is of your approrpriate social class you may betrothe her until the wedding ceremony. Having citizenship in a desirable country helps with these arranged marriages too, it works in your favor.


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    #19132469 - 11/13/13 06:12 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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So I work in a tutoring center at my uni. There is a girl who tutors chemistry that I have have become fond of. She is very quiet and shy. And she is Indian (not native American). I know how to approach most girls, but for some reason I am struggling with how to approach this girl. We are both in grad school but we tutor completely different subjects so I can't really approach her about shared subject matter. She looks at me from time to time like she admires me. Where would take this girl? What would we talk about? Should I lie about the "bad things" I have done so she won't be scared off? She seems like good wife material. I am getting older and am sick of playing the dating game, I want a serious relationship. What should I do :sad:



If she is indian you must first approach her parents with a request to betrothe their daughter. They will tell you the price after you submit your bank records, 401k and stuff to determine if she is right for you. If she is of your approrpriate social class you may betrothe her until the wedding ceremony. Having citizenship in a desirable country helps with these arranged marriages too, it works in your favor.



i think you're probably right tbh :sad: i dont have a 401k job, just the same one she does


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19132712 - 11/13/13 07:05 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

an arranged marriage is like a dating site hook up set up by your parents tbh


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    #19132729 - 11/13/13 07:08 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Give her a notecard saying simply "DSHSB?".


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19133065 - 11/13/13 08:01 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I'm half Indian, from my experience it seems if they grow up raised like a traditional Indian child (super super strict) they like intelligent confident mature men. If they are brought up the American way they turn out kind of slutty lol..

I don't find Indian woman attractive, I've actually only hooked up with one girl that wasn't white, she was Indian.

I've also noticed often that Indian people are VERY smart.


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    #19134947 - 11/14/13 07:11 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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I'm half Indian, from my experience it seems if they grow up raised like a traditional Indian child (super super strict) they like intelligent confident mature men. If they are brought up the American way they turn out kind of slutty lol..

I don't find Indian woman attractive, I've actually only hooked up with one girl that wasn't white, she was Indian.

I've also noticed often that Indian people are VERY smart.



well she is probably smart considering she is working towards a PhD in chemistry and she tutors organic and physical chemistry without getting flustered. I feel like I am intelligent. I come across as confident to older people. I am really in my element around adults; I feel at ease conversing with them, so when I meet the parents of my SOs it always goes really well (ironically). I'm less mature than I pretend to be though


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19135070 - 11/14/13 08:04 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I would recommend running away OP. The culture clash will be very difficult especially if her parents comes from India (not born in the US or UK or wherever the fuck you are)


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19135113 - 11/14/13 08:20 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

the same thing you would do if you were interested in any other girl?

i don't understand why it matters that she's indian?


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    #19135144 - 11/14/13 08:34 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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the same thing you would do if you were interested in any other girl?

i don't understand why it matters that she's indian?



because people come from different cultures... I believe she is actually an immigrant.. indian culture has things like arranged marriage and they eat kinds of food that I am not accustomed to. the more i think about it the more it makes sense that it might appeal to this girl to be treated like any other american girl, but what I was thinking was that I wanted to be culturally sensitive to her needs/wishes...


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19135203 - 11/14/13 08:54 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

hmmm...ok, i assumed you meant indian-american.

i think it's sweet that you're already considering that, but...just ask her out! it sounds like you two have a lot in common, so find a way to strike up a conversation around your mutual interests, and then see if she wants to continue it over a drink or coffee.

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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: yogabunny]
    #19135213 - 11/14/13 08:57 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

thanks for your advice, it's more reassuring to hear it from a female. mark my words, i am going to take action tomorrow if she is working!


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    #19135537 - 11/14/13 10:14 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Pay her father with your fattest pig. I think that's how you take a wife over there


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19135550 - 11/14/13 10:18 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I married an Indian Girl. Best decision EVER. She is the bomb and her whole indian family and culture is awesome.

And her mom makes the best food in the world. Seriously west indian cuisine is  :hellyeah:


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    #19135615 - 11/14/13 10:40 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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I married an Indian Girl. Best decision EVER. She is the bomb and her whole indian family and culture is awesome.

And her mom makes the best food in the world. Seriously west indian cuisine is  :hellyeah:



what if I dont really like spicy food or veggies that much?  Do they like red heads? What would our offspring look like?

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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19135626 - 11/14/13 10:45 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

morrow you have to eat your spicy veggies, bro

also talking about babies now might be moving a little fast. :lol:


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    #19135634 - 11/14/13 10:47 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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morrow you have to eat your spicy veggies, bro

also talking about babies now might be moving a little fast. :lol:



im just curious. i always think about this. i had a black girlfriend for a while and I always wondered what our offspring would look like. I definitely want kids in about 6-10 years.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19135645 - 11/14/13 10:50 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I didn't read any of the thread, but wat do is obvious. Just talk to her, ask her to go out and do something it doesn't matter what. If she's interested she'll say yes.

Then tell her you need babies asap


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19135723 - 11/14/13 11:14 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

She could be my wife's sister!


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    #19135736 - 11/14/13 11:17 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

You really shouldn't be posting pictures of people without their consent.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19135780 - 11/14/13 11:28 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

She's fucking someone else bro.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: dontknow]
    #19135802 - 11/14/13 11:33 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Pay her father with your fattest pig. I think that's how you take a wife over there




So now he has to buy a pig so he can get the cow?

It seems like an awful lot of farm animals involved


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: Repertoire89]
    #19136385 - 11/14/13 02:31 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Just ask her out.

But find something 'intelligent' to do, like go to an art exposition or one of those special classes visiting professors/experts give.

That way in case her folks are super strict, she doesn't need to lie to them and you can have a drink after.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: Tripsurfer]
    #19136701 - 11/14/13 03:32 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Just ask her out.

But find something 'intelligent' to do, like go to an art exposition or one of those special classes visiting professors/experts give.



:loldongs:  sounds like a hoot, i'd love for someone to ask me to go visit an expert : :ohyeahdefinitely:


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: dontknow]
    #19136790 - 11/14/13 03:52 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I want to eat Jennifer Lawrence's pussy.


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Re: I have a crush on an Indian girl.... wat do?? [Re: morrowasted]
    #19136989 - 11/14/13 04:36 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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well I just went over and said hi to her and she she hi but then a student came in for chem tutoring and it was awkward and I just walked away goddammit I hate myself for being such a loser. this doesnt make any sense, I'm a pretty attractive guy with positive things in his life, I ought to be way more confident than some of the bozos I meet who are getting laid left and right at frat parties




OK well, first of all you are totally falling victim to the asian chick mind fuck aura.  don't ever say that to them.  i went to an engineering school that was well over half chinese and indian chicks.  i know first hand, asian chicks somehow mind control white dudes to make themselves feel like pussies.

here is the other thing that i know.  asian chicks fucking like TESTOSTERONE.  it may seem contrary, u know since indian and asian dudes tend to be skinny and nerdy, but asian chicks love a dude with a big fat fucking ego.  it's like, instinct to hunt this shit down so their progeny can attract luxury and get everyone to treat them like a princess.

if ur the kind of guy that get paranoid and self conscious from smokin' weed, i would try to cut back or quit.  if u already have enough confidence to just walk up to the chick and say whatever comes to ur mind without crying or ur legs turning to jello, DO IT.  even if u fail, FAIL!  FAIL AND FAIL AGAIN!!  it's like training, i swear to fucking god that shit is like karate.  just try again and again til u get better/used to her mindfuck powers.  u'll get better at it i promise.

also, try jerking off less.  the goal is to get it so all you have to do is like, say something funny and it causes a laugh-gasm.  if ur spent all the time ur gonna miss.

so remember, train ur spine/testosterone.  asian chicks like MALES.  dun worry if u fail.  just keep at it til u start gettn it right.  u'll get better/used to it with time/practice.  and use humor - conserve ur chi for this, it helps.

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    #19137217 - 11/14/13 05:19 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

please edit your post dontknow.


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