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Anonymous #1

Good ol buddy o mine...
    #19129002 - 11/12/13 10:31 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

So ive had this good friend for quite a while now and for a bit i was starting to wonder if he was gay. Well at one point there were a few nights where he just hinted in on very obvious notes and vibes that he was gay and and that i was somebody hes wanted for a while, then one night him and a few other people were over at his and we were all in the backyard smoking then it got all intense and quiet for a second and then he said something to me some proposal or offer or something, i think he was asking me out or somekinda shit like that, then it like threww me sooo off i was blown away this time, i stood there like deer in the headlights man, then i realized he said something big to me but then i asked them something and the compltely disregaurded what i said which irritated me sooo bad, i dono how to describe it haha. but then it all stopped and went in and i just dont know if i should do anything with this kid. Ive never been gay really but shiit, hes been there for me like noone else, im a really open person which is why im thinking about taking up whatever offer it may have been, i wouldnt neccicearly find myself "attracted" to men though. what do i doo, ive never had such no clue.


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InvisibleSleepwalker
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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19129145 - 11/12/13 10:56 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Don't just go with it to try to please him because you like the guy...you will regret that.

However if you feel some sort of reciprocal attraction, why not try it out?


Also:  ASK HIM WHAT'S UP.  Don't let it be some weird undercurrent.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: Sleepwalker]
    #19130560 - 11/13/13 10:02 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

yea Its shitty because i know that men should be able to like n marry men same for women, but its not like that in this world and my body isnt attracted to men in that way, although i think ide do bout anything for this kid, i guess im looking at it as whats there to lose.


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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19130601 - 11/13/13 10:13 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

If you aren't attracted to him then you would just be leading him on.  Best bet is to tell him how you honestly feel and remain good friends.


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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: Sleepwalker]
    #19130741 - 11/13/13 11:06 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Yeah tell him you just want to be friends :grin:


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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: Black_Sunset]
    #19130843 - 11/13/13 11:36 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Yeah i think i should just talk to him about it and not be a bitch hah, but ive done things with another guy before  while i was surrounded by only guys for a long time. I kinda regretted it after the fact but that was a fear of judgement thing... i just think its the fact ive got close to this kid in such a different way over the years it seems so different.


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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: Sleepwalker]
    #19133292 - 11/13/13 08:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Sleepwalker said:
Don't just go with it to try to please him because you like the guy...you will regret that.

However if you feel some sort of reciprocal attraction, why not try it out?


Also:  ASK HIM WHAT'S UP.  Don't let it be some weird undercurrent.




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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: The Shape]
    #19133346 - 11/13/13 08:52 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Just think of it this way... Would you mind having his shit on your dick? Haha If not then go for it. Otherwise dont lead him on.


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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: The Shape] * 1
    #19133352 - 11/13/13 08:54 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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The Shape said:
Just think of it this way... Would you mind having his shit on your dick?



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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: The Shape]
    #19134880 - 11/14/13 06:12 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

The Shape said:
Just think of it this way... Would you mind having his shit on your dick? Haha If not then go for it. Otherwise dont lead him on.





uuuuhm gay people don't necessarily have anal sex at all. As far as I know the majority doesn't.
And if they do, they probably know how to avoid nasty residues, it's not that hard by the way.

That comment makes you look like a homophobic douche who's talking about sexual practices he has no clue about. Not cool.


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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: Murzelpfrumpft]
    #19135266 - 11/14/13 09:12 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Murzelpfrumpft said:
Quote:

The Shape said:
Just think of it this way... Would you mind having his shit on your dick? Haha If not then go for it. Otherwise dont lead him on.





uuuuhm gay people don't necessarily have anal sex at all. As far as I know the majority doesn't.
And if they do, they probably know how to avoid nasty residues, it's not that hard by the way.

That comment makes you look like a homophobic douche who's talking about sexual practices he has no clue about. Not cool.




Agreed.


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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #19135446 - 11/14/13 09:55 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

tymoteusz3 said:
Quote:

Murzelpfrumpft said:
Quote:

The Shape said:
Just think of it this way... Would you mind having his shit on your dick? Haha If not then go for it. Otherwise dont lead him on.





uuuuhm gay people don't necessarily have anal sex at all. As far as I know the majority doesn't.
And if they do, they probably know how to avoid nasty residues, it's not that hard by the way.

That comment makes you look like a homophobic douche who's talking about sexual practices he has no clue about. Not cool.




Agreed.




I'm not surprised to see that he's from the midwestern US.

Even straight sex doesn't automatically equate to penetrative or anal sex, and the same applies to male-male couples. If it did, then what kind of sex do female-female couples have? Why not mention that?

It was just a nonsensical and hateful attempt to generate negative publicity against LGBTs by humorously associating homosexual men with the most undesirable homosexual imagery he could think of. Quite sad, really.

I wonder when all the random LGBT bashing is going to stop.


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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19135457 - 11/14/13 09:56 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous said:
So ive had this good friend for quite a while now and for a bit i was starting to wonder if he was gay. Well at one point there were a few nights where he just hinted in on very obvious notes and vibes that he was gay and and that i was somebody hes wanted for a while, then one night him and a few other people were over at his and we were all in the backyard smoking then it got all intense and quiet for a second and then he said something to me some proposal or offer or something, i think he was asking me out or somekinda shit like that, then it like threww me sooo off i was blown away this time, i stood there like deer in the headlights man, then i realized he said something big to me but then i asked them something and the compltely disregaurded what i said which irritated me sooo bad, i dono how to describe it haha. but then it all stopped and went in and i just dont know if i should do anything with this kid. Ive never been gay really but shiit, hes been there for me like noone else, im a really open person which is why im thinking about taking up whatever offer it may have been, i wouldnt neccicearly find myself "attracted" to men though. what do i doo, ive never had such no clue.


If you don't have a clue, why not find out how you feel about it? = )


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A soul that harbors doubt has no joy, not in this world or the next."
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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: kneesocks]
    #19136045 - 11/14/13 12:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Im not a homophobe. I go to lgbt parade in nyc, an i dont have problems with gays and im not from the midwest. Dont be so hostile


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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: The Shape]
    #19136077 - 11/14/13 12:53 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

And ive been in the same position as OP


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Re: Good ol buddy o mine... [Re: The Shape]
    #19140980 - 11/15/13 01:26 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Yea, ive got nothing to lose... i just dont know how to bring it back up to him now after that situation;/


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