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BU4O
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question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated....
#19127365 - 11/12/13 04:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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So i start by telling how i started seeing this girl...When we met we were out with mutual friends smoked some weed and she wanted to go home by some time but she didnt tell that she is not feeling well but i saw that...she only hinted that she wants to go...but no one seems to care...so i told her i am gonna walk with you i have to go 2...so we started walking and she said to slow down because she is not feeling well and ask if its ok to hold my arm...I said of course...and wak her home get her number say good night...We started too see each other every day go out have fun and we ware friends but i had somthing for her from the 1 day i saw her...One night we ware out at a bar and she got tipsy and out of the bar in a park smoking some weed i started to get close to her until she is in my arms and we are cuddling...Then we started to cuddle evry time we are together,she started to sit on me and so on...no kissing so far...One time she spend a night in my home,in my bed she allows me to touch her everywhere i mean everywhere...i know where to touch and she seems to like that alot but in the meantime she will not let me do the move for the kiss...also no sex...On the next night same thing only in her bedroom...I started to get confused so i told her i love her and that i want to be with her,she said that she like's me but she dosent want to be my girl for now...she doesn't want a relationship right now...and that she needs to think about that...I said ok and go with the flow...Time pased she continue to see me evry day and to sleep over in each other house...cuddle,and touch...In the end i wanted more but she didnt even wet me kiss her,and say in the fucking fb she is sorry that she have to hurt my,because she does not want to be my gf.And that she does not want to lose me as a friend and that she cares about me...and she say that she doesent want me to leave her life because of what happened...And say pls dont hate me for that...and dont run away from my life...I am sorry for what happend... I told her the thing is i love her too much with all my heart and soul and that i loved only one girl before her so much in my life...i cannot never ever be only a friend...and to look her in the hands of another guy...told her goodbye for ever. So why did she wet me hug her,cuddle and touch her so intimately.Why does she watched me fall for her and never do enything to stop me from being too close to her...and why did she not cut me off the first time...I need time to think if i want to ever see her again,she hurt me and the thing is i love her too much... I want your view your opinion girls
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: BU4O]
#19127419 - 11/12/13 04:52 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I am sorry to hear that. What most likely happened was she thought she could have had feelings for you, but after spending time with you she maybe wasn't ready to be an committed relationship. It honestly happens all the time, and love is something you will be able to feel again. Just keep riding the flow, and you will feel a lot better with someone who will enjoy those things with you instead of resent them. Cheer up, bud(:
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: BU4O] 2
#19127444 - 11/12/13 04:56 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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BU4O said: ...I started to get confused so i told her i love her and that i want to be with her... ...I told her the thing is i love her too much with all my heart and soul...
Classic mistake. Telling a girl you love her before you've even kissed her tends to freak her out. If this chick wants you in her life, she knows where to find you right? You've made it abundantly clear how you feel about her, and if she doesn't share those feelings, you should move on to the next one.
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: Lynnch]
#19128908 - 11/12/13 10:10 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Why would you say you love her. Do you know what love is, how old are you?
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: Forestdie]
#19129962 - 11/13/13 04:01 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sure i know what love is...I am 26...she is 19...and i told her that i am inlove and that i have somthing for her...so i dont see why is that so bad for 2 of you...i dont hide nothing never...especially if i love and trust that person...and i never cheated in my life...
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: BU4O]
#19130006 - 11/13/13 04:35 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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She sounds young, immature and just not that into you. She's probably flattered by the attention she gets from you and curious when it comes to sexual exploration, but she's just not ready for it yet, or unwilling to walk that path with you.
Let her go and move on.
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: koraks]
#19130652 - 11/13/13 10:32 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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koraks said: She sounds young, immature and just not that into you. She's probably flattered by the attention she gets from you and curious when it comes to sexual exploration, but she's just not ready for it yet, or unwilling to walk that path with you.
Let her go and move on.
Good advice....she needs space and to grow. She probably is honest when she says that she has feelings for you.She is just not sure how far they go though. BTW....is that her in your signature?
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: Thayendanegea]
#19130722 - 11/13/13 10:57 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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No bro this girl is a model from Moldova...she is amazing...moust of East European girls are hot...thn guys and girls...it's now a bit more clear for me...
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: BU4O]
#19130945 - 11/13/13 12:07 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah, Eastern European girls certainly are often very beautiful. It's unclear what happens to them though; equally hot 40-year olds from the same area seem to be remarkably scarce
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: koraks]
#19131156 - 11/13/13 12:54 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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They...they get married to rich guys bro or worse you know what i mean...and never be seen again...
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: BU4O]
#19131455 - 11/13/13 02:01 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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BU4O said: They...they get married to rich guys bro or worse you know what i mean...and never be seen again...
That is real fucked up ....we are spoiled here in the USA compared to most other countries.
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: Thayendanegea]
#19131677 - 11/13/13 03:04 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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It was probably saying that you loved her that may have changed things. Maybe that was moving too fast for her?
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: Herbologist]
#19131788 - 11/13/13 03:24 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Maybe i was too direct with her,by teling how i feel and what is she to me...but i waited after telling that to see what is going to happend and she would still go in my arms evry time...i guess she is too afraid of somthing i dont know...i am confused 2...never had this difficulty to find out what a girl wants from me before...They cut me cold,or hit me hard you know...
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Edited by BU4O (11/13/13 03:26 PM)
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: BU4O]
#19131903 - 11/13/13 03:50 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Note this is my irrelevant interpetation..:
I think she has alot of pain in her, consciouss or not, and if you are to get together I would see that you recognize this and have you both share pain aswell as pleasure...
Not everyone is capable of feeling just love, or even love at all. I would suggest bonding over something else, which she feels more comfertable with.. be it humor, anger, sadness, playfullness ect... maybe a head-cracker?
But, I am just a guy, although a little feminine, so what do I know...
Edited by Icyus (11/13/13 03:53 PM)
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Re: question for the ladies,mostly...it's more complicated.... [Re: Icyus]
#19136309 - 11/14/13 02:06 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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She wants to see me this week...the question is am i ready to see her...i think not...
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