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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: silverstem]
#19126308 - 11/12/13 01:15 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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silverstem said: its not your job to help.. people change on their own. with his attitude i would stay away from him. since you do live there when he walks around in his underwear say "hey man put some pants on". sometimes people show thier true colors when they live together or something happened to your friend that made him realize the world is only here to serve him. he isnt going to change till rock bottom. either cope with it or move out.
I'm coping until able to move out..had to say something though holding all this in was gonna make me go crazy! haha
thanks for all the insight guys.
Wish he would stop being such an idiot and get back to his old self but nothing I can really do about it
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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: hTx] 4
#19126323 - 11/12/13 01:18 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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this man is dangerous to your living situation... talk to his parents. have an intervention lol. i had a buddy when he came over to my house he used the bathroom while he was taking a piss he had the door open and tried having a conversation with me.. this made me uncomfortable. i told him yo man close the door and dont talk to me when ur dicks in ur hand. he said "dude who cares" i told him to stfu and close the door. he listened. i was ready to kick him out. str8 up rude. you live there too u dont have to deal with it. maybe try to act like him.. maybe he will realize what an ass hes being.
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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: silverstem] 2
#19126344 - 11/12/13 01:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I have, and the way he talks to his mom is fucking horrible.
calls her a cunt and a bitch and a dumbshit to her face.
I don't get it, she helps him out with so much..he'd have nothing if not for her yet he treats her like utter dogshit.
Steals all her money/her phone/her car.
Fuck. Putting all this in writing is kind of putting things into perspective for me.
My friends a fucking douche-bag asshole of a person..
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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: hTx]
#19126386 - 11/12/13 01:32 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm surprised nobody has suggested an ego death yet.
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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: Ballerium]
#19126401 - 11/12/13 01:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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would probably help tremendously..
If I can get some shrooms here soon i'm going to make some tea and we're going to work out this ego problem.
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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: hTx]
#19126418 - 11/12/13 01:38 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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could be the lack of work if you say he's unemployed, I get pretty pissed not doing anything productive all day. If it went on too long I could see myself start raging about some dumb shit.
It also sounds like his mom is enabling the hell out of him, and he's a huge POS
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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: hTx]
#19126445 - 11/12/13 01:43 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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hTx said: In the past two months or so he started walking around the house in his underwear whilst trying to have a conversation with me which is just awkward.
This is normal behaviour.
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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: Pureless]
#19126447 - 11/12/13 01:43 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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She is..and has quite a few problems herself. She has been out of work too for a good year in a half now..she used to be a high-level executive and was making bank..got laid off and now she isn't really making an effort to do much of anything anymore. The result is her life which my friend depended upon to go about his ways has spiraled almost out of control, almost to the point of homelessness (she uses her dads money to survive now). I think a lot of the frustration from my friend is because of this as well.
There is like a subconscious blocking going on, of anything that will improve her life or my friends life.
Stuck in the ego-trip..
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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: hTx] 2
#19126745 - 11/12/13 02:36 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Hopefully the crazy isn't contagious OP!!!
Haha kidding, but I'm not sure mushrooms would be the best thing for this dude to consume.
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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: Legend]
#19127011 - 11/12/13 03:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Beserker viking stuff might happen.
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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: GoldenEye]
#19127222 - 11/12/13 04:14 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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GoldenEye said: Beserker viking stuff might happen.
He might go flow blown gay and try sucking Op's dick too, beware
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Re: My friend has gone insane (rant) [Re: hTx]
#19128182 - 11/12/13 07:11 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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silverstem said: i had a buddy when he came over to my house he used the bathroom while he was taking a piss he had the door open and tried having a conversation with me.. this made me uncomfortable. i told him yo man close the door and dont talk to me when ur dicks in ur hand. he said "dude who cares" i told him to stfu and close the door.
"Don't talk to me when you have your dick in your hand?"

I have to say, that is some of the straight-up silliest homophobic shit I've heard in a good minute. As a joke, funny. As a serious statement, way over the top. Okay, close the door, I don't want to see your dick / watch you piss... that I get. But..."don't talk to me when you have your dick in your hand?" Like if he does you're both going to magically catch a bad case of the gay or something? 
If it's simply because that idea makes you uncomfortable, I have to say: you're way, way way too uptight for your own good.
And on that note, I think a person should be able to walk around in their underwear, in their own apartment if they want to. To a degree, of course... with limitation and respect. Y'know... not when you have company over and shit. Room mates need to compromise and such. But I don't see it as being a huge reason to give a fuck, unless he's majorly unclean, or does it all the time, or bad times, etc.
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hTx said: would probably help tremendously..
If I can get some shrooms here soon i'm going to make some tea and we're going to work out this ego problem.
Do be careful with that. Some people need a pretty hefty dose to get to true "ego death" and some people don't handle higher doses too well. Regarding lower doses (sub ego death) psychedelics generally only bring out what is already inside of you. They can help shift your perspective, but if someone is just looking at it as "woo, pretty colors!" then they won't necessarily get there.
And IMO that can be a harder trip to have, in a group. Some of my most meaningful, deep experiences on a psychedelic were alone. That's not to say it can't be done with another... just that set and setting are massively important for that kind of trip, IMO, and there has to be time for reflection, and potentially the right catalyst.
My two cents....
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