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Schmendrick
Last of the Red Hot Swamis



Registered: 08/04/13
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Re: Fuck mushrooms [Re: Envix]
#19122892 - 11/11/13 08:01 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Envix said: being kind and friendly isn't a personality trait, it's an expression of an emotion of feeling gratitude and appreciative, thankful, and loving. there is nothing wrong about that, it is actually beneficial believe it or not
^^ sarcasm
Yeah, I know there is nothing wrong with it. I just have a hard time expressing it normally. I blame nothing on my upbringing, that is a total copout, but I have to admit that some things in my past have made it difficult for me to express appreciation and love. Even toward my own kids, and I intend to change that now that I have realized it. I am too hard on them most of the time.
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TrentBoyett
Aspiring Mycologist



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I have similar problems, but I don't have kids though.
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Envix
Avoidant Disorder



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as for "wanting to become a different person" per se, there's nothing wrong with that either. you should always explore what you feel most passionate about, whatever that may be. it will always lead to greater happiness. however, its also important to recognize between what is truly your passion and what you may want to do out of ego-driven intentions, desires or fears.
do you want to get away to run from something? or do you want to get away to explore new opportunities?
do you feel driven to change yourself to hide from who you are? or do you want to explore new ways of living?
this is all probly super obvious but its really important stuff to remember to consider imo
-------------------- smack a hoe out this dimension continue my ascension -bhad bhabie rip. todcasil, acid sloth, st1llnox, zappaisgod, big worm (sketch), tim b
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Schmendrick
Last of the Red Hot Swamis



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Re: Fuck mushrooms [Re: Envix]
#19123056 - 11/11/13 08:23 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Envix said: as for "wanting to become a different person" per se, there's nothing wrong with that either. you should always explore what you feel most passionate about, whatever that may be. it will always lead to greater happiness. however, its also important to recognize between what is truly your passion and what you may want to do out of ego-driven intentions, desires or fears.
do you want to get away to run from something? or do you want to get away to explore new opportunities?
do you feel driven to change yourself to hide from who you are? or do you want to explore new ways of living?
this is all probly super obvious but its really important stuff to remember to consider imo
More like discover who I should have been rather than the big, scary looking dickwad I am now. I built this persona over many years as a self defense mechanism. I no longer need it.
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morrowasted
Worldwide Stepper



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Re: Fuck mushrooms [Re: Envix]
#19123115 - 11/11/13 08:31 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Envix said: being kind and friendly isn't a personality trait, it's an expression of an emotion of feeling gratitude and appreciative, thankful, and loving. there is nothing wrong about that, it is actually beneficial believe it or not

have you read "The Passions: Emotions and the Meaning of Life"?
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