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Oh god the lusts.
#19119096 - 11/11/13 05:32 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Hello Shroomery
I've been in a relationship with the first girl I ever loved for 6 years, she was my first and I was her. I'm 21 years old and even though I'm young I can see a future with her.
But hot damn there is this chick that works at a place downtown that I can't keep my eyes off! Worth noting is that I've had my eyes on this girl for about a year. She's so stunning and I just want to take her on a trip and fuck like there's nothing else than us in the world. Even though I don't want to admit it I can see myself in a relationship with this girl, and this is the first time I ever felt that since I met my girl.
Tell me what to do Shroomery, I don't know if I should take this as a sign to move on or if it's just a temporary lust that will dissipate over time.
/Fucking horny guy
Edited by Anonymous (11/11/13 05:36 AM)
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Anonymous #2
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Have you ever thought trying to talk you're gf into having a open relationship, or provoke her into cheating on you so that you can cheat with out any consequences.
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i like cow poo
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just because someones attractive doesnt make them psychologically compatable
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Tripsurfer
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If you never sleep with other girls this is going to be a recurring issue for the rest of your life.
-------------------- Ach en wee ben ik de klos, met mijn boog schoot ik een albatros... A philosopher is a person who knows less and less about more and more, until he knows nothing about everything.

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Murzelpfrumpft
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Tripsurfer said: If you never sleep with other girls this is going to be a recurring issue for the rest of your life.
I feel like that, too.
I have a very similar story to tell and I actually solved the problem via "talking her into" an open relationship.
It's actually rewarding to see lots of our friends' long-term relationships fail due to their sexual exclusivity. This happens around year 5-7. Recently, I've seen 3 relationships ranging from 5 to 7 years fail and I've seen it coming every single time. Then me and my gf are always like: "see, that will never happen to us."
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Quote:
Anonymous said: Have you ever thought trying to talk you're gf into having a open relationship, or provoke her into cheating on you so that you can cheat with out any consequences.
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Magenta
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Anonymous said: Even though I don't want to admit it I can see myself in a relationship with this girl
This girl, you don't even talk to (properly); how the fuck can you see your self in a relationship. Stop doing this with people you don't know, and you will have a better chance with people you don't know.
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Re: Oh god the lusts. [Re: Magenta]
#19129677 - 11/13/13 01:25 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah well I guess I just want to fuck her. I've been kinda depressed lately which probably messed up my logical thinking. Feels like my mood swings greatly even from morning to evening. Which makes it hard to recognize which feelings are mine and which are "my desperate self".
I really don't want an open relationship, even though my girl probably would want to have a threesome with the right girl I could never share her with a man.
I feel that I don't want to trade 100 one night stands for my girl, it's just that I want to fuck a very small scale of other people. But perhaps that's better left alone until we're ready for a threesome or that it settles.
I'm probably messed up.
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Yep dude...speaking from experience....that 5 seconds of ahhhhh!!!! when you cum, is over in.... um....5 seconds. Then you are left with reality ..the rest of your life...things have changed....could be guilt, remorse or maybe even thinking of a new relationship with that girl under you. IDK....to me, at my age, peace of mind is the most important thing that I have and there can be none of that if I give into that stupid urge. M
-------------------- Look Deep Into Nature,and Then You Will Understand Everything Better. Albert Einstein
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