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ch1ck3n.s0up
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Questions before asking a girl out on a date...
#19117141 - 11/10/13 08:36 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Before asking a girl on a date, what should a guy find out about her?
Should he ask if she's married? If she has a boyfriend? If she's looking for a relationship? These questions seem a little creepy to me.
Typical scenario: boy meets girl. Boy and girl have a nice little chat and seem to hit it off. Boy and girl start texting/chatting/FB'ing/whatevering over the interwebs. Boy wants to ask girl out...
What should boy do? Ask these prophylactic questions before asking her out? Casually bring them up first?
-------------------- "Inspiration ~ Move me brightly ~ light the song with sense and color ~ hold away despair ~ more than this I will not ask ~ faced with mysteries dark and vast ~ statements just seem vain at last" --Jerry Garcia, Terrapin Station "Officer, I'm going to remain silent, and I would like to speak with a lawyer. I'm not resisting, but I don't consent to any searches.
Edited by ch1ck3n.s0up (11/10/13 08:37 PM)
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Re: Questions before asking a girl out on a date... [Re: ch1ck3n.s0up]
#19117437 - 11/10/13 09:34 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'll go first. Her name.
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Re: Questions before asking a girl out on a date... [Re: ch1ck3n.s0up]
#19117455 - 11/10/13 09:37 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I always used dates themselves as the time to ask questions, other than anything that would just pop up in superficial flirting.
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ch1ck3n.s0up
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Re: Questions before asking a girl out on a date... [Re: Mr. Bojangles]
#19117596 - 11/10/13 10:04 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I mean, if SWIM asks a cutie out, and she has a spouse/fianceƩ/bf/SO, is it:
A. Woman's responsibility to say, "Sorry... I'd love to, but I have a spouse/fianceƩ/bf/SO, or B. SWIM's responsibility to find out before asking in the first place?
Assuming, of course, that SWIM wants to respect cutie's relationship... irrespective of whether or not cutie wants to respect it...
-------------------- "Inspiration ~ Move me brightly ~ light the song with sense and color ~ hold away despair ~ more than this I will not ask ~ faced with mysteries dark and vast ~ statements just seem vain at last" --Jerry Garcia, Terrapin Station "Officer, I'm going to remain silent, and I would like to speak with a lawyer. I'm not resisting, but I don't consent to any searches.
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Re: Questions before asking a girl out on a date... [Re: ch1ck3n.s0up]
#19118062 - 11/10/13 11:40 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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its the women's responsibility. If she's in a committed relationship she needs to tell people to back off. If she flirts back or accepts your advances its assumed she's available.
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Re: Questions before asking a girl out on a date... [Re: psyconaught]
#19125174 - 11/12/13 06:37 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
psyconaught said: its the women's responsibility. If she's in a committed relationship she needs to tell people to back off. If she flirts back or accepts your advances its assumed she's available.
Agreed. If she shows interest she must be available or at least willing.
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