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Sea Cucumber



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my fetish is pain
#19113072 - 11/10/13 02:10 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I love pain A LOT. I'm not really sure when I first realized it but it feels so fucking good. It's gotten to the point where I ask every girl I'm with to just chomp down as hard as they can on my torso. They are like 19/20 times kind of weirded out by it but I just can't resist asking them to. Usually, I straight up ask them to bite down as hard as they can and they do; however, I would like to mitigate that "this dude is a weirdo" kind of thought. Is there a more smooth way to get them to comply with my desire? Any experiences with this kind of arena? I've never met anyone into pain during sex like me. It's like the confluence of sex hormones flooding my system + pain is the greatest thing ever, and it's hard for me to understand why everyone isn't into the same thing. Any other activities I should try? I was thinking one of those massage candles would be fun.
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ottax
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Wow, I'll give you my ex's number. She was retarded for pain. I would be fucking her and she would want me to bite her, and this one time I bit her so hard she was bleeding and she loved it. Bahaha. Find people that are into kink. It's actually pretty common.
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Sea Cucumber



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Re: my fetish is pain [Re: ottax]
#19113133 - 11/10/13 02:35 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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yea I think I should go to some fetlife events for this.
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Acidic_Sloth
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i can understand where you're coming from on the pain. i'm not so much in to giving it but i wouldn't think it weird if some guy asked me to inflict pain in a serious way nor would i think twice, really. then again, this could be why i don't see much action to begin with; you know you may have problems if you're inflicting pain on yourself because the other party isn't doing it right.
i don't know how to mitigate the "this guy is a weirdo" thought pattern though, i think my attraction toward it is probably received the same way. the only thing i can think of would be to try and find like-minded people; they're definitely out there. me, i've got some weird views on sex in general so i'm probably not the best person to ask in the first place.
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koraks
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So you're a masochist - cool! Go find a sadist.
And before you disqualify those terms offhandedly, please think again and understand that they come from somewhere.
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Sea Cucumber



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Re: my fetish is pain [Re: koraks]
#19119356 - 11/11/13 07:54 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I thought a sadist was more into the humiliation of it rather than the pain itself. Is that incorrect?
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Murzelpfrumpft
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I'd say sadism includes all kinds of torture.
But the problem is: it's not satisfying if the victim is not suffering.
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Beanhead
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Torture pain not so much, humiliation, yes why thank you!
though biting is nice and pain of strained limbs tied together
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koraks
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Sadism is specifically about inflicting pain AFAIK.
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Murzelpfrumpft
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Re: my fetish is pain [Re: koraks]
#19121831 - 11/11/13 05:09 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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This is true but not limited to physical pain.
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T-Funkadelic
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Lol my baby momma likes to get fucked from the back an donkey punched in the head as she calls it. I thought she was joking at first lol. I was like wtf you serious.. after a few months together I got use to punching her in the head it didn't turn me on but she loved it. Weird bitch...
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This Mormon girl in college would bite pretty hard while kissing. Hard enough I was scared and shed just say'"don't worry I've never drawn blood before. Turned me on. I wanted to tie that bitch up and do some naughty shit. Then my friend comes busting in her room and cock blocks thinking it's funny shit.
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