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Thinking about going celibate.
    #19107237 - 11/08/13 07:16 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

A long time ago in a far away place I was in the best relationship. We were best friends and lovers.

Now that was a few years ago and I have been single ever since. I am almost 26 and I can not find a woman of her quality again.

It is either reciprocity or they are just trying to use me.

If they are not after something from me it is because they are just not attractive.

I just want to find another woman who is pretty, kind, nice, fun and a freak in the sack, who wont be hovering over my shoulder judging me about stupid shit all the time.

When I am in a good relationship my focus in life is just me and my female companion. Every decision I make is to benefit us and make our life's nice.

I just do not understand why it has been so difficult. My ex practically worshiped my appearance so I know women can find me attractive.

So I have hit this brick wall here and I just am gonna give up, that is how I feel now. I met my soul mate and now she is gone and that was my one shot I guess but it got all fucked up.

What is a guy to do, and what is the secret to finding quality women?

Or should I just watch porn and just forget about real life women. I feel like not caring about real life female's would make me feel better. I go to bars on rare occasions and I see some pretty girls with some fuggly / fat dudes and it blows me away and just makes me either angry or feel inadequate.

But if I just went around not caring and if I could just try focusing on just making my life awesome and just learn to sleep easy at night knowing that one side of my bed is empty.

That is another thing, that empty side of the bed gets to me.

I might just start trying this meditation thing and try to get some sort of self enlightenment were I am just at peace with my self cause this being lonely shit is not cutting it for me.

What do you guys think I should do?


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: budmanman]
    #19107984 - 11/08/13 09:52 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Try it my man. Once you go celibate, you'll fuck any girl for the hell of it!


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: Atrium] * 1
    #19109372 - 11/09/13 07:57 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Jamesdnh said:
Try it my man. Once you go celibate, you'll fuck any girl for the hell of it!




I don't think you're grasping the concept of celibacy.


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: koods]
    #19109777 - 11/09/13 10:10 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Jamesdnh said:
Try it my man. Once you go celibate, you'll fuck any girl for the hell of it!




I don't think you're grasping the concept of celibacy.



No I'm just saying going celibate for short times will lower standards and make sexual ideas more prevalent. Once after the few weeks have "needed". Still, it's like jumping in a jacuzzi before jumping in the cold ass pool.


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: Atrium] * 1
    #19109802 - 11/09/13 10:18 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Jamesdnh said:
Try it my man. Once you go celibate, you'll fuck any girl for the hell of it!




I don't think you're grasping the concept of celibacy.



No I'm just saying going celibate for short times will lower standards and make sexual ideas more prevalent. Once after the few weeks have "needed". Still, it's like jumping in a jacuzzi before jumping in the cold ass pool.




You are talking about abstinence. Celibacy isn't something you do for short periods of time.


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“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: koods]
    #19109919 - 11/09/13 11:00 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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koods said:
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Jamesdnh said:
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koods said:
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Jamesdnh said:
Try it my man. Once you go celibate, you'll fuck any girl for the hell of it!




I don't think you're grasping the concept of celibacy.



No I'm just saying going celibate for short times will lower standards and make sexual ideas more prevalent. Once after the few weeks have "needed". Still, it's like jumping in a jacuzzi before jumping in the cold ass pool.




You are talking about abstinence. Celibacy isn't something you do for short periods of time.



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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #19110148 - 11/09/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I see what you mean, but as celibacy is an infinite commitment, would one slip up 30 years down the road now make the commitment to celibacy, a very long time of abstinence? Where is the line drawn? If, halfway through your life, you commit to celibacy then suddenly life changes, would the term of celibacy then become moot?

I just think it's a thing where the line is drawn by the individual where celibacy is, for the foreseeable future you will not act on urges; abstinence, only until you have the chance again.


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: Atrium]
    #19110309 - 11/09/13 01:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I think it's the goal, not the outcome that matters.


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: koods] * 1
    #19111928 - 11/09/13 08:14 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

EVERYONE wants something from their lovers and friends.  That's how the world works.  Whether it's sex, money, drugs, fame, looks, status, adventure, whatever.  Sounds like you should focus your attention on bettering yourself to attract more quality women.  Along the way, you will meet chicks.  I don't get why the emptiness of "the other side of your bed" gets to you so much.  Care to elaborate?  Maybe that will reveal the source of your issue.


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: All We Perceive]
    #19111981 - 11/09/13 08:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I just miss having my ex there next to me. Now it is just a empty side of my bed. I could, well I thought I could trust her completely. For the longest time I could. We had a intense and amazing friendship / relationship. She was my best friend. We were hardly ever apart.

Like before her I did not even think love was real but now that I experienced true unconditional love for someone, now that I do not have it I just feel like crap all the time.

It feels like I had the greatest thing life had to offer, and now that I do not have it but know what it is like. I am just miserable. Trying to date is a joke. Women just ignore you, 2nd dates are hard to acquire. Fuck getting one date is hard enough.

How are you even suppose to find someone you actually like if it is just a huge task meeting women.

Large women I mean are easy to meet but I have to be attracted to someone to have a intimate relationship with them.

I am a tall slender male, and I am physically active a lot. I need a partner to share my life and activities with. Not a large woman who can not keep up.


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Everything I have ever said is total bogus bs I am full of crud therefore everything I say should never be taken literal.

And I am mentally unstable.


Edited by budmanman (11/09/13 08:35 PM)


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: budmanman]
    #19112038 - 11/09/13 08:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Why is it such a hard task meeting women?  Do you live in rural Iowa?  If you really are so attractive and are so physically active, women should be lining up for you.  However, they are not.  The fact that they have such common patterns of non-attraction suggests to me that you are the problem and not them.


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: All We Perceive]
    #19112123 - 11/09/13 09:07 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Well I do have eyebrows that kinda make me look angry all the time.

I got women who have weight issues lining up for me lol.


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And I am mentally unstable.


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: budmanman]
    #19112163 - 11/09/13 09:16 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

is that what people say to you or is that how you see them?  ahahaha, me too bro; me too.  it's cool though... the attention is flattering.  I had a dry spell a few years ago and fucked a larger chick for a while.  It was fun but I don't intend to do that again.


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: budmanman]
    #19112236 - 11/09/13 09:30 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

True that lol. I had this one girl who was sorta cute but she was just a outrageous liar and then it turned out she was on house arrest lol.

Oh and some people have said it to me. That I look angry when I am not.

Every now and then though there is a girl that really likes them.

I also remind people of spock because of them.


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Everything I have ever said is total bogus bs I am full of crud therefore everything I say should never be taken literal.

And I am mentally unstable.


Edited by budmanman (11/09/13 09:33 PM)


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: budmanman]
    #19112313 - 11/09/13 09:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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is that what people say to you or is that how you see them?  ahahaha, me too bro; me too.  it's cool though... the attention is flattering.  I had a dry spell a few years ago and fucked a larger chick for a while.  It was fun but I don't intend to do that again.



we call that more cushion for the push'in around these parts lol. but it happens to all of us at one point in our lives.


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: budmanman]
    #19112967 - 11/10/13 01:28 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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is that what people say to you or is that how you see them?  ahahaha, me too bro; me too.  it's cool though... the attention is flattering.  I had a dry spell a few years ago and fucked a larger chick for a while.  It was fun but I don't intend to do that again.



we call that more cushion for the push'in around these parts lol. but it happens to all of us at one point in our lives.




Yea.  I was pretty inexperienced and she was down for anything.  Made it good to experiment to find what I liked in bed.  She found out she LOVED anal.  I found out I love pain.  Good stuff.

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True that lol. I had this one girl who was sorta cute but she was just a outrageous liar and then it turned out she was on house arrest lol.

Oh and some people have said it to me. That I look angry when I am not.

Every now and then though there is a girl that really likes them.

I also remind people of spock because of them.




So what do you think causes your passes at chicks to go south?


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: All We Perceive]
    #19112981 - 11/10/13 01:39 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

It was mostly just one past chick.

She just had a lot of insecurities and then cheated on me.

The girl before her I just did not love and left her for this girl.


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Everything I have ever said is total bogus bs I am full of crud therefore everything I say should never be taken literal.

And I am mentally unstable.


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: budmanman]
    #19112993 - 11/10/13 01:45 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

you didn't really answer the question.  :rave:


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: budmanman]
    #19113011 - 11/10/13 01:53 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Well my ex and I got addicted to opiates together and then when we got sober she cheated on me. We got along fine but she found porn on my computer and was like my tits rnt as big etc and got really insecure and ever since that  moment our relationship was not the same. I loved her though but she got jealous of porn starts n shit.

Then she always accused me of cheating all the time and eventually she cheated.
I do not understand the female mind.


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Everything I have ever said is total bogus bs I am full of crud therefore everything I say should never be taken literal.

And I am mentally unstable.


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Re: Thinking about going celibate. [Re: budmanman]
    #19113024 - 11/10/13 01:55 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I see.  So what are you doing in life these days?


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