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brokentv

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talking and talking
#19111528 - 11/09/13 06:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I am just hoping for a little insight and even some tips on this. I've been talking to a girl through text for about 3 weeks now with the whole point being for us to meet up in person like people do. We have discussed intimate stuff so both of our interest is known, but it seems like were just text friends at this point. We talk every day and every so often I ask her to hang out, but for one reason or another it hasn't happened yet. I think she is nervous about it, which is understandable, but it's kind of getting frustrating. At this point my approach is going with the flow and we'll hang out when we do, at the same time it has been getting to my head. Anyone been in a situation like this?
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Re: talking and talking [Re: brokentv]
#19111553 - 11/09/13 06:41 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Simply stop texting her and if she asks why you are giving her the cold shoulder, tell her its because you would rather see her in person than text her for another 3 weeks...
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3 Weeks? Jesus dude, if it doesn't happen after 3 days something is up. Okay, maybe not 3 days, but 3 trys anyway. People get busy sure, but if they're really interested, they'll make time. And if she really really hasn't had time to go on one date with you, then she doesn't have time for a relationship.
You don't have to be a dick about it, but if she bails again be honest- "Hey I really like talking to you but if we're not going to meet in person I don't want to waste any more time and energy."
Where did you meet this chick? Have you solidly invited her out like "Lets get coffee tomorrow" not just vague statements like "lets hang out some time" ? There are points when going with the flow just doesn't work, sometimes you have to make things happen.
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brokentv

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Re: talking and talking [Re: Lynnch]
#19111886 - 11/09/13 08:02 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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So right after making this post I invited her over to watch a movie with me and she agreed to come over in about an hour so we'll see. Thanks for the insight
Edited by brokentv (11/09/13 08:06 PM)
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Re: talking and talking [Re: brokentv]
#19111920 - 11/09/13 08:11 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Good luck OP
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Op, she has a dick bigger than mine
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brokentv

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Re: talking and talking [Re: Atrium]
#19115863 - 11/10/13 04:51 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Welp we didn't meet up last night. She confessed to me that she has pretty bad anxiety issues, which I can understand and relate to because I deal with them although I can usually manage mine. Any tips on helping somebody with bad anxiety to feel more comfortable?
Edited by brokentv (11/10/13 04:52 PM)
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Re: talking and talking [Re: brokentv]
#19118452 - 11/11/13 01:07 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Move on to the next one.
This girl is playing you. Nothing more.
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brokentv

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Re: talking and talking [Re: Enjoywho]
#19118505 - 11/11/13 01:23 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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You're right and I definitely realized that tonight especially. Last night the excuse was anxiety tonight it was that the cold messed her phone up . I'm going to take fruitoflife's advice.
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Re: talking and talking [Re: Enjoywho]
#19118506 - 11/11/13 01:23 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Enjoywho said: Move on to the next one.
This girl is playing you. Nothing more.
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