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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19093750 - 11/06/13 02:09 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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tl;dr
fight him.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: TrentBoyett] 2
#19093753 - 11/06/13 02:11 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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not reading all that.
3 short paragraph maximum.
learn the unwritten rules of the shroomery.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan] 1
#19093754 - 11/06/13 02:11 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Stop being so paranoid. Quit smoking weed if it makes you think this way.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: evileye001]
#19093766 - 11/06/13 02:14 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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evileye001 said: not reading all that.
3 short paragraph maximum.
learn the unwritten rules of the shroomery.
Right? even if a regular came in here with a wall of text like that I probably would not read it, definitely not going to read it for a noob.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: TrentBoyett]
#19093771 - 11/06/13 02:15 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan] 1
#19093784 - 11/06/13 02:21 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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you guys were high as fuck and rapey john was fucking with ur heads. typical egotistical douche. he knew u guys were high and vulnerable and he took advantage of the situation.. it happens man, sometimes when ur high as shit things seem so odd and out of touch and if people fuck with you like telling u to unplug shit you wont know what the fuck is going on. im sure he thought hed be able to get B into bed too because she was high and vulnerable. next time don't smoke with people u dont really know.
i wouldn't doubt if the dude was high as shit too
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: TrentBoyett]
#19093787 - 11/06/13 02:22 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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evileye001 said: not reading all that.
3 short paragraph maximum.
learn the unwritten rules of the shroomery.
Right? even if a regular came in here with a wall of text like that I probably would not read it, definitely not going to read it for a noob.
or would have to be a mod or at least a epic member and even then it would be much more visibly pleasurable.
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reedit and i might have some input for you. no bodys gana punish you for posting the same thing twice. just revise it.
add small details later if needed.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#19093793 - 11/06/13 02:24 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Trust your gut. If you're cut off from your gut feelings, find a way to reconnect to them.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#19093802 - 11/06/13 02:29 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm guessing he was bringing up the point that he trimmed his pubes and was asking if you all were horny, as well as high.
Holy paranoia.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Mush4Brains]
#19093810 - 11/06/13 02:31 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I also really hate when people use letters for names.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Mush4Brains]
#19093813 - 11/06/13 02:33 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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use ur imagination, i was reading B as brosephina
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Mush4Brains]
#19093814 - 11/06/13 02:33 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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3vi13y3
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19093816 - 11/06/13 02:34 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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you are the worst wingman
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: evileye001] 1
#19093824 - 11/06/13 02:39 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: zZZz]
#19093829 - 11/06/13 02:41 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I don't know why, but I read the whole thing. Some people just get really open and that often means being aggressive when they are drunk. Rapey-John has feelings for this girl and they came out when he got drunk. If Rapey-John actually wasn't drinking, then this whole thing is fucked up and you should avoid direct conversation with him.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19093844 - 11/06/13 02:47 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Oh man, what a dive that story was.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: TrentBoyett]
#19093847 - 11/06/13 02:47 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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1ik3 tha7?
letters for names... not numbers for letters.
damn you!
im drunk and only have half my brain right now!!!
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: evileye001]
#19093849 - 11/06/13 02:48 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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evileye001 said:
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damn you!
im drunk and only have half my brain right now!!!
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: TrentBoyett]
#19093867 - 11/06/13 02:57 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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1ik3 tha7?
letters for names... not numbers for letters.
damn you!
im drunk and only have half my brain right now!!!


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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: TrentBoyett] 2
#19093917 - 11/06/13 03:27 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I read the whole story solely on the name Rapey-John.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: TrentBoyett] 2
#19093973 - 11/06/13 04:06 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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evileye001 said: not reading all that.
3 short paragraph maximum.
learn the unwritten rules of the shroomery.
Right? even if a regular came in here with a wall of text like that I probably would not read it, definitely not going to read it for a noob.
Dude, as far as I can tell, you are involved in every thread on the shroomery. I'm sure you could find the time to read something a little more detailed than usual.
OP. I don't think we can tell you what was happening. Ya'll were fucked up. Maybe rapey John thinks you guys were really obsessed with his hair trimmer.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: koods]
#19094134 - 11/06/13 05:54 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Nah. He wanted your partner to stay. He wanted alone time with your partner. Why else would he want that? Did she want that?
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: healing]
#19094315 - 11/06/13 08:12 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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He was probably asking if you were just high because of how ridiculously fucked up you must've seemed. Most people don't get that fucked from weed, but it can happen if you haven't smoked in a long time.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: NetDiver]
#19094411 - 11/06/13 08:51 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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It doesn't seem like the majority of you think he's a creep so ill just drop it. We tried to talk to him about it but he's playing the "I can't remember anything card" which I think is at least slightly BS.. It's not like we were on benzos.
Someone said he wanted her to stay, which was obviously the case. Why he didn't arrange that with her and tried to with me I don't understand. Like when we were leaving if he would have told her to stay and she was cool with it, I would have bounced and let them be alone.. I think he had a solid chance with her but he kinda freaked her out by cornering us into the bathroom...
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: T-Rex]
#19094710 - 11/06/13 10:17 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan] 1
#19094742 - 11/06/13 10:28 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Just sounds like you were really stoned and he was fucking with you. To be safe though, I'd avoid being alone with him, or your friend or whatever.
My reasoning is that if you had been slipped some date rape type drug, you'd think you wouldn't of remembered the night in such detail or been able to make it home on your own.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Shroomslip]
#19094818 - 11/06/13 10:55 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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OP, I read your post and I, for one do believe you did the right thing. You trusted your instincts....IME that is your right answer....Bottom line....you don't know the guy and you now have a chance to get to know him sober if you like. M
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Thayendanegea]
#19094828 - 11/06/13 10:58 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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yea i dont see much danger in still talking to him and stuff just dont get high with him ever again
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19094872 - 11/06/13 11:10 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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That was one strange story. "Let me give you a tour of my studio apartment/ And here's the bathroom, that completes the tour. Now would you please admire my electric clippers, and while you're at it, unplug them. Wasn't that fascinating? Are you enjoying the PCP I laced my weed with? Oh, you didn't notice? Please GTFO, but leave your friend here so I may take advantage of her now with my PCP gifted super human strength"
Or something like that. Definitely creepy.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19094941 - 11/06/13 11:32 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Irfan said: It doesn't seem like the majority of you think he's a creep so ill just drop it. We tried to talk to him about it but he's playing the "I can't remember anything card" which I think is at least slightly BS.. It's not like we were on benzos.
Someone said he wanted her to stay, which was obviously the case. Why he didn't arrange that with her and tried to with me I don't understand. Like when we were leaving if he would have told her to stay and she was cool with it, I would have bounced and let them be alone.. I think he had a solid chance with her but he kinda freaked her out by cornering us into the bathroom...
You said that he had already arranged for her to stay. How long have you been calling him "rapey John"? It sounds like you have preconceived notions, possibly even jealousy issues regarding him, which were inflamed by the paranoia typical of some good weed. 
Sorry to be unsympathetic, but I just don't see the part of the story where you give a better explanation for thinking somebody you don't know anything about and who never actually did anything coercive is "rapey". I'm sorry you had a bad experience, anyway. Maybe think twice about smoking weed in the future? (seriously)
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
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I dont get the 'rapey' part either. And as fucked up as you say you guys were, it's pretty hard to even understand what the situation was or wasnt. BTW, getting completely blitzed with someone you barely know is pretty stupid.. what would you really have done if things had actually turned out bad?
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#19094959 - 11/06/13 11:38 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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dude he was fucking with their heads, op is not the one to blame here, at least not by much..
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: zZZz]
#19094971 - 11/06/13 11:41 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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zZZz said: dude he was fucking with their heads, op is not the one to blame here, at least not by much..
It honestly does sound like he was horny and trying to do a clumsy come-on while high, but that's not "rapey" unless it's backed up with the threat of coercion. I like how OP said she told him "you're going to let her come with me" as if his expressing his desire that she stay represented a threat of some kind. Serious, jealousy issues.
If she has to drop out of school because she feels too awkward hanging around this guy anymore it's her own fault.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
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he was blitz and sounds like he was just looking out for his friend. i didn't get any jealousy vibes in his story, just fear and confusion.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: koods]
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evileye001 said: not reading all that.
3 short paragraph maximum.
learn the unwritten rules of the shroomery.
Right? even if a regular came in here with a wall of text like that I probably would not read it, definitely not going to read it for a noob.
Dude, as far as I can tell, you are involved in every thread on the shroomery. I'm sure you could find the time to read something a little more detailed than usual.
Don't you think "involved" is a little too strong a word? Where's rule 4 when you need it? Honest to God.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
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should we start a petition to get mjmihalov off the forums? jk mjmihalov, u kool.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: zZZz] 1
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zZZz said: he was blitz and sounds like he was just looking out for his friend. i didn't get any jealousy vibes in his story, just fear and confusion.
The first paragraph is about how irfan and "B" have been secretly sleeping together. OP also discusses routinely becoming paranoid and anxious when smoking weed before.
I'm just connecting dots here, I could have totally the wrong take, but it looks like some unconscious jealousy (exacerbated by drink and smoke) colored the whole situation. It sucks that he made them uncomfortable but I also think drugging and intent to rape are horrendous accusations to lob around without good cause, which I just don't see here.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
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Irfan said: It doesn't seem like the majority of you think he's a creep so ill just drop it. We tried to talk to him about it but he's playing the "I can't remember anything card" which I think is at least slightly BS.. It's not like we were on benzos.
Someone said he wanted her to stay, which was obviously the case. Why he didn't arrange that with her and tried to with me I don't understand. Like when we were leaving if he would have told her to stay and she was cool with it, I would have bounced and let them be alone.. I think he had a solid chance with her but he kinda freaked her out by cornering us into the bathroom...
You said that he had already arranged for her to stay. How long have you been calling him "rapey John"? It sounds like you have preconceived notions, possibly even jealousy issues regarding him, which were inflamed by the paranoia typical of some good weed. 
Sorry to be unsympathetic, but I just don't see the part of the story where you give a better explanation for thinking somebody you don't know anything about and who never actually did anything coercive is "rapey". I'm sorry you had a bad experience, anyway. Maybe think twice about smoking weed in the future? (seriously)
I'm not sure you understood me right.
He may have arranged for her to stay but it was all in his head, without her knowledge or approval. Hence the rapey feel which by the way encompasses a hint of sarcasm. Do I think he was about to hold her down and force himself on her? No. Was he trying to get her blitzed, alone, and into bed, possibly... With that said let’s not call it an accusation, as im not calling him out on this amongst our friends or anything.. I meant it with a hint of sarcasm to begin with...
When he whispered to me that he wanted her to stay I felt cornered and protective. It was hard not to considering that directly preceding this comment he was suggesting that we had done more substances than we had signed on to do (or at least that was our interpretation)... I recognize that I was super high and paranoid. I suddenly felt protective and that’s just how it went down... I asked B if I was in the wrong and she said she wasn't giving him any signals and had no arrangements with him, and she would have no reason lie about that. She’s really happy I got her out of there. Jealousy plays no role in our friendship; she hooks up with other dudes regularly. I have an open relationship with my SO, if jealousy had any place in my life I would chose not to have the lifestyle that I currently have.
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I agree the accusation of drugging us is a big one. Hence why im venting on here and not calling him out in public about it. He’s the one that brought it up, and now he conveniently doesn’t remember anything so we can’t talk it out… I’m stuck man. At this point if he wants to pretend it never happened I will play along, I don’t really have a choice.. I said from the beginning I don’t think we were really drugged, but that’s based on my own past experiences with drugs. He is the one that tried to plant the thought in our head.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
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"Calling him out on" what, exactly? His generosity with some legit kron? So graciously rewarded with paranoid suspicion that he's doing you a favor by pretending not to remember? Y'a'ight.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#19095406 - 11/06/13 01:28 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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are you seriously ignoring the fact that he was fucking with him telling him to unplug shit knowing he was blitz and confused, for his own entertainment and posible flexing his ego so he can make him look like a bitch in front of his friend so he can get in her pants?..
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#19095411 - 11/06/13 01:29 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Frankly hes not doing anyone any favors by pretending he doesn't remember freaking a chick out and suggesting she was drugged.. You don't really know how female social circles work do you? Id be the first person to laugh with him about my own stupidity if he had a reasonable story and gave me the chance to listen to it.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: zZZz]
#19095646 - 11/06/13 02:23 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Irfan said: So we invited him out drinking with our group of friends and hit him up for some bud. The night goes by and we are all really shitty drunk.
Maybe he wasn't implying that he drugged you at all. Maybe he meant "is that all" when you said you were really high because you were also really drunk. 
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zZZz said: are you seriously ignoring the fact that he was fucking with him telling him to unplug shit knowing he was blitz and confused, for his own entertainment and posible flexing his ego so he can make him look like a bitch in front of his friend so he can get in her pants?..
I agree that trying to make him unplug the trimmer for no reason was just to try and "establish dominance" to make him look more attractive to his friend.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: MrBlueYoMind]
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I hadn't thought of that, i mean we were drinking together the whole night so i figured the liquor went without saying but maybe that's what he meant.
The dominance thing is so weird to me.. Does that shit actually work? Being an asshole to some other dude seems like a backwards way to try and get laid... But then again I'm really bad at the male ego thing, I tend to do pretty well without it.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19095720 - 11/06/13 02:39 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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This thread is full of
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19095744 - 11/06/13 02:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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yea it works, he got her to laugh didn't he?. that's how they get their strength, they smell weakness and use it to their advantage to feel more dominant
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19095815 - 11/06/13 02:58 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sounds like a creep to me, or at least a dime a dozen asshat.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19095844 - 11/06/13 03:04 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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The whole episode is too weird by half, OP. I would have split too. If nothing else the guy is quite a character, but if he won't talk about last night then you got to play along. I would allow for a gradual separation instead of shunning him immediately.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: 245willow19]
#19095849 - 11/06/13 03:04 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Whole thing feels weird and rapey to me. Id stay away from him
BS stop sticking up for rapey john plz.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: mpd]
#19095855 - 11/06/13 03:05 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Remind me not to party with you chicks.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: TheMovement]
#19096005 - 11/06/13 03:34 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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TheMovement said: Whole thing feels weird and rapey to me. Id stay away from him
BS stop sticking up for rapey john plz.
his real name is misunderstood john.
with names like these, the guy could run an African nation... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Goodluck_Jonathan
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: koods]
#19096055 - 11/06/13 03:45 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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evileye001 said: not reading all that.
3 short paragraph maximum.
learn the unwritten rules of the shroomery.
Right? even if a regular came in here with a wall of text like that I probably would not read it, definitely not going to read it for a noob.
Dude, as far as I can tell, you are involved in every thread on the shroomery. I'm sure you could find the time to read something a little more detailed than usual.
OP. I don't think we can tell you what was happening. Ya'll were fucked up. Maybe rapey John thinks you guys were really obsessed with his hair trimmer.
It's not about time, I have all the time in the world.
I didn't read it because it's giant blocks of text, I don't even know this person, story seemed stupid, let me guess they used drugs, got fucked up, there was a male around, he tried to have sex with one of the fucked up people, they now call him rapey-john?
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: TrentBoyett]
#19096064 - 11/06/13 03:47 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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rapey john im imagining a funny looking dude with an evil smirk
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: zZZz]
#19096070 - 11/06/13 03:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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ah yes, here he is. rapey john debunked
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: zZZz] 1
#19096071 - 11/06/13 03:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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honestly, rapey john sounds like a guy you would charter a boat from somewhere in the Caribbean.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: koods]
#19096295 - 11/06/13 04:40 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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koods said: honestly, rapey john sounds like a guy you would charter a boat from somewhere in the Caribbean.

wtf
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan] 2
#19096741 - 11/06/13 05:58 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Regardless of what his actual intentions were or weren't, the situation certainly comes off as sketchy and you did the right thing OP, good job looking out for your friend.
@everyone posting just to say they didn't read Congratufuckinglations. If you don't want to read it then hit the back button on your browser. I read it, and will read lots of long posts if they're spaced decently and have a point to them. Only thing I don't want to read are your bullshit pointless posts about how you didn't read the OP.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: daiy]
#19096774 - 11/06/13 06:05 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I did not read the OP, nor will I ever!
pointless post #3,361!
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: TrentBoyett]
#19096837 - 11/06/13 06:17 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Did you accept any drinks at his house, where he might have slipped you something? If not, maybe he spiked the weed with a pure dose of synthetic THC. He seemed very keen to know how about how stoned you were.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: barong]
#19097011 - 11/06/13 06:54 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I was slamming a mostly empty bottle of tequila at his place and my friend was drinking crown... I don't remember if he was drinking or not.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19097092 - 11/06/13 07:15 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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i think OP should be called "smoked weed and now is super paranoid OP"
I'm never inviting you over to smoke weed with me OP.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: teamkiller]
#19097103 - 11/06/13 07:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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teamkiller said: i think OP should be called "smoked weed and now is super paranoid OP"
If that's as clever as you get im not missing much...
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19097112 - 11/06/13 07:17 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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if ur vibe meter is that broke i don't have time to click on any other of your alarmist stories about spooky vibes.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: teamkiller]
#19097119 - 11/06/13 07:20 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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im getting angry vibes from u
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: zZZz]
#19097141 - 11/06/13 07:23 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Odd, my vibe-o-meter was reading butthurt
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: NotTheDevil]
#19097173 - 11/06/13 07:30 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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This thread is full of lolz. I think "rapey john" (I fucking laugh everytime I say that name) is an interesting character, probably a little sly and not the most admirable, but a rapist? I don't think so.
OP, it sounds like you just got really fucking stoned and "rapey john" ( ) picked up on that.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: deadwk]
#19097268 - 11/06/13 07:46 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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saying you've been druged and someone is a rapist is pretty fucking rude shit to say about someone, especially a friend.
I think OP was fried and is a drama queen.
imagine a friend you have in real life and thinking they're narcotic rapists, thats some pretty evil thoughts if its not true.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19097273 - 11/06/13 07:46 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Irfan said: Frankly hes not doing anyone any favors by pretending he doesn't remember freaking a chick out and suggesting she was drugged.. You don't really know how female social circles work do you? Id be the first person to laugh with him about my own stupidity if he had a reasonable story and gave me the chance to listen to it.
I don't think he was suggesting he'd drugged you. It's any one's guess what he did mean, but I have two theories: one, he was asking if you guys were horny, since you clearly are a swinger and probably give off the signals; two, he was stoned, feeling awkward around new people, and trying to be cool about asking how drunk you were. (Apparently, very.)
Now that's what I call the benefit of the doubt. But crying "rape" is quantitatively worse than crying "wolf" and you should ask yourself why that's the first place your mind went.
And what does my familiarity with "female social circles" have to do with anything? Do all of your girl friends use the word "rapey" to describe uncomfortable or confusing social situations regardless to the absence of any material threat of rape?
Edited by Sophistic Radiance (11/06/13 07:54 PM)
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: evileye001]
#19097299 - 11/06/13 07:50 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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YES! The only ones that matter, haha.
Seriously though, just don't hang with him no more.
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#19097504 - 11/06/13 08:18 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Like I already said, rapey-john is just a sarcastic name i gave him for the thread, what's so difficult to understand about that? I'm not calling him that in real life. Nor am I using the term rape in any other part of this story..
Why did we think he dosed us on something? Because he asserted so and we were high as fuck. Miscommunication? Probable.. I think i mentioned we were high as fuck right?
Female social circles 101. Act like a creep and every woman in that social circle will hear about it and think your a creep. The dudes cred has already gone to shit and I had nothing to do with it.. He creeped out a chick, chicks talk. Like i said, by pretending he doesn't remember only does himself a disservice. She gave him the opportunity to justify the dosing thing, she directly asked him about it in private over text.. He dodged it..
It doesn't even matter what I think because like i said, if he wants to pretend it never happened ill play along. The chick is the one that is going to talk, and she gave him the opportunity to clear his name... He decided not to communicate further with her, that's his bad as far as im concerned...
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19097506 - 11/06/13 08:19 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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At this point, Rapey-John wants to give us a tour of his studio apartment
Lost it if only i had smoked before reading this… the joy would be immense
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Irfan]
#19097535 - 11/06/13 08:23 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Irfan said: Like I already said, rapey-john is just a sarcastic name i gave him for the thread, what's so difficult to understand about that? I'm not calling him that in real life. Nor am I using the term rape in any other part of this story..
Title. Of the fucking. Thread.
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Why did we think he dosed us on something? Because he asserted so
Unlike most here, I actually read the OP in its entirety. No, he didn't. You were being paranoid.
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and we were high as fuck. Miscommunication? Probable.. I think i mentioned we were high as fuck right?
I think I already mentioned that you probably shouldn't be smoking weed.
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Female social circles 101. Act like a creep and every woman in that social circle will hear about it and think your a creep. The dudes cred has already gone to shit and I had nothing to do with it.. He creeped out a chick, chicks talk. Like i said, by pretending he doesn't remember only does himself a disservice. She gave him the opportunity to justify the dosing thing, she directly asked him about it in private over text.. He dodged it..
It doesn't even matter what I think because like i said, if he wants to pretend it never happened ill play along. The chick is the one that is going to talk, and she gave him the opportunity to clear his name... He decided not to communicate further with her, that's his bad as far as im concerned...
It is not "Rapey John"'s responsibility to explain himself for you and your squeeze's collective inability to handle your shit. I'm sure he'll be going farther out of his way to avoid you guys than the other way around. I can't speak for "Rapey John", but when somebody hits me up demanding that I make excuses for their own delusions I generally bow out from their acquaintance as quickly as possible.
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Edited by Sophistic Radiance (11/06/13 08:49 PM)
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Re: Dude got all rapey on my friend. He may have drugged us, idk… [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#19097762 - 11/06/13 09:11 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sounds like you did the right thing.
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