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How to get noticed online?
    #19092377 - 11/05/13 08:33 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Im on a couple non pay sites to meet people , but I really dont get any responses.


Any tips to help get noticed or help keep girls from skipping over me


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Kalypto]
    #19092470 - 11/05/13 08:55 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Say you have a BC?


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: TrentBoyett]
    #19092478 - 11/05/13 08:56 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

get off the internet?


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: hgmstl]
    #19092481 - 11/05/13 08:57 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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hgmstl said:
get off the internet?





Im trying but I have social anxiety and no way to get medicine

Also pretty broke and not 21 so its hard to just go out and meet people


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Kalypto] * 1
    #19092522 - 11/05/13 09:04 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

You're under 21 and you're worried about this?

Go live life, seriously.

The world does not revolve around the opposite sex.

Just get out and do stuff.


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: TrentBoyett]
    #19092524 - 11/05/13 09:05 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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mjmihalov said:
You're under 21 and you're worried about this?

Go live life, seriously.

The world does not revolve around the opposite sex.

Just get out and do stuff.





Mine does , I have a psychological need of having an SO to be happy

Most of my free thought goes to finding a girl or how to improve myself to get one


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Kalypto] * 1
    #19093304 - 11/05/13 11:40 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Kalypto said:
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mjmihalov said:
You're under 21 and you're worried about this?

Go live life, seriously.

The world does not revolve around the opposite sex.

Just get out and do stuff.





Mine does , I have a psychological need of having an SO to be happy

Most of my free thought goes to finding a girl or how to improve myself to get one



Read that to yourself.

Do you really want to be that person for your entire life?

As long as you tell yourself that you need a significant other to be happy, you find it very difficult to love yourself.

If you do not know how to love yourself, you will be incapable of loving somebody else for you will not truly understand love.


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: empty space]
    #19093933 - 11/06/13 03:41 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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how to improve myself to get one




There were many suggestions towards that end in this thread already.


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: empty space] * 1
    #19094154 - 11/06/13 06:11 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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empty space said:
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Kalypto said:
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mjmihalov said:
You're under 21 and you're worried about this?

Go live life, seriously.

The world does not revolve around the opposite sex.

Just get out and do stuff.





Mine does , I have a psychological need of having an SO to be happy

Most of my free thought goes to finding a girl or how to improve myself to get one



Read that to yourself.

Do you really want to be that person for your entire life?

As long as you tell yourself that you need a significant other to be happy, you find it very difficult to love yourself.

If you do not know how to love yourself, you will be incapable of loving somebody else for you will not truly understand love.



This. OP a relationship is not what you need right now and you will find yourself in a co-dependent relationship, that ends in hurt or misery. Work on loving yourself and being confident and happy with yourself - not needing anyone else to be happy. A counsellor can help with this.


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #19094370 - 11/06/13 08:36 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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empty space said:
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Kalypto said:
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mjmihalov said:
You're under 21 and you're worried about this?

Go live life, seriously.

The world does not revolve around the opposite sex.

Just get out and do stuff.





Mine does , I have a psychological need of having an SO to be happy

Most of my free thought goes to finding a girl or how to improve myself to get one



Read that to yourself.

Do you really want to be that person for your entire life?

As long as you tell yourself that you need a significant other to be happy, you find it very difficult to love yourself.

If you do not know how to love yourself, you will be incapable of loving somebody else for you will not truly understand love.





I guess I dont want to need to be that person , but I have always loved having an SO around all time , it has been the greatest times of my life.


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tymoteusz3 said:

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empty space said:
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Kalypto said:
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mjmihalov said:
You're under 21 and you're worried about this?

Go live life, seriously.

The world does not revolve around the opposite sex.

Just get out and do stuff.





Mine does , I have a psychological need of having an SO to be happy

Most of my free thought goes to finding a girl or how to improve myself to get one



Read that to yourself.

Do you really want to be that person for your entire life?

As long as you tell yourself that you need a significant other to be happy, you find it very difficult to love yourself.

If you do not know how to love yourself, you will be incapable of loving somebody else for you will not truly understand love.



This. OP a relationship is not what you need right now and you will find yourself in a co-dependent relationship, that ends in hurt or misery. Work on loving yourself and being confident and happy with yourself - not needing anyone else to be happy. A counsellor can help with this.



I guess Im just trying to take a shortcut


Ive seen those charts about needing to love yourself first , and thought they were bs but i guess not

I like myself but I dont love myself I think because I have always been the outlier


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Kalypto]
    #19094658 - 11/06/13 10:04 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

OP, at the risk of raising a few eyebrows here and there, I will recommend that you smoke some salvia a few times, before you make your online messages towards online girls.

Might seem irrelevant and unrelated, but it's totally not. Hear me out on this one.

I too had my days of trying to land some pussy online, on various sites. Hi5 and that crap, whatever was on a while ago. Like you, I noticed minimal to no responses. Then I smoked some sally, and I started coming up with the most fascinating shit to write to people.

You should know that most people on these sites, like you, are quite unsure of what to do, unenthusiastic and unimaginative, or if they are imaginative they don't have the balls to show it when writing. They may write boring shit like hey baby you so fine etc etc. The girls will have seen that message a thousand times and be completely unimpressed with it, leaving you to your loneliness and pr0n collection. Total downer.

Enter Salvia. You will find that days and weeks after a good sally experience, your mind is so fresh and wonderful, teaming with ideas and gnomes and wobbling jellyfish, that you'll be writing in wonderful Shakespearean manner and rhyming in pentameter and stopping these bored apathetic girls dead in their tracks when they open one of your messages. Not all of them mind you, those that are indeed too stupid to read anything with long words inside, will just not get it. But the decent ones will thoroughly enjoy the fresh energy you bring to the table.
A little PUA training and some Salvia, and you'll have sweet sweet :boobs: in your face in no time.


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Spacerific]
    #19095283 - 11/06/13 01:00 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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OP, at the risk of raising a few eyebrows here and there, I will recommend that you smoke some salvia a few times, before you make your online messages towards online girls.

Might seem irrelevant and unrelated, but it's totally not. Hear me out on this one.

I too had my days of trying to land some pussy online, on various sites. Hi5 and that crap, whatever was on a while ago. Like you, I noticed minimal to no responses. Then I smoked some sally, and I started coming up with the most fascinating shit to write to people.

You should know that most people on these sites, like you, are quite unsure of what to do, unenthusiastic and unimaginative, or if they are imaginative they don't have the balls to show it when writing. They may write boring shit like hey baby you so fine etc etc. The girls will have seen that message a thousand times and be completely unimpressed with it, leaving you to your loneliness and pr0n collection. Total downer.

Enter Salvia. You will find that days and weeks after a good sally experience, your mind is so fresh and wonderful, teaming with ideas and gnomes and wobbling jellyfish, that you'll be writing in wonderful Shakespearean manner and rhyming in pentameter and stopping these bored apathetic girls dead in their tracks when they open one of your messages. Not all of them mind you, those that are indeed too stupid to read anything with long words inside, will just not get it. But the decent ones will thoroughly enjoy the fresh energy you bring to the table.
A little PUA training and some Salvia, and you'll have sweet sweet :boobs: in your face in no time.




I ended up just deleting my online profiles, there are too many pathetic guys there putting girls on super high horses , Ive had better luck with girls before I had social anxiety in person , Which  I think I will try again once I get my life in a better place

I will not do salvia . Heard way way to many bad stories and only a couple good ones .

As for the PUA stuff I have spent lots of time reading it , but Im not going after HBs at clubs ( that I cant even get in) , I have the knowledge of how people work kinda , but I have no desire to further it and build a routine , I want to be able to be me , I studder sometimes and say wierd off topic shit , Id rather not be fake and not show that then end up that way who I really am and get left


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Kalypto]
    #19095774 - 11/06/13 02:50 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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I will not do salvia . Heard way way to many bad stories and only a couple good ones .



Read the guide that I linked to, read the thread and you'll see there are good stories. IMO 90% or more of the people with shitty salvia stories are doing it in very very very retarded ways. Read the guide and ask, or just ponder how many of those guidelines got completely ignored, or weren't considered in the first place. Anyway makes no difference to me, Salvia got me into psychedelics, painting, and made a huge impact on my life, so if other people can't follow simple rules what can I do :shrug:

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As for the PUA stuff I have spent lots of time reading it , but Im not going after HBs at clubs ( that I cant even get in) , I have the knowledge of how people work kinda , but I have no desire to further it and build a routine , I want to be able to be me , I studder sometimes and say wierd off topic shit , Id rather not be fake and not show that then end up that way who I really am and get left



Who said anything about HBs and clubs?

You have knowledge kinda? PUA means getting knowledge for real, and much more importantly learning to apply it with some level of consistency. Most nerds know in theory that body language is important. They still have shitty eye contact, idiot grins or fidgety movements that give away tons of anxiety and ruin the day for all involved.

You have no desire to build a routine? Mkay, you seemed to have plenty of desire to build routines for writing, walking, eating, cooking, driving a car, playing an instrument or learning the rules of grammar and punctuation. Are any of those covering up your personality and not allowing you to be yourself? Is grammar getting in the way of you expressing yourself, or on the contrary enabling you to do so even more clearly?

I say off topic shit all the time, the only difference is that with some PUA skills, the vibes of the off topic shit are much much better. The whole point of the exercise is so that you can say your off topic shit with full flamboyant confidence. Nobody will "find out who you really are" because practicing the stuff will actually improve who you are. It's not a surface mask you wear for 5 minutes. You learn some good habits and as you use them they become second nature. They become you.

If you learn to drive for instance, do you then spend every moment on the road fearing the day when someone will "find out who you really are" namely still a non-driver? :lol:


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Spacerific]
    #19095821 - 11/06/13 03:00 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Spacerific said:
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I will not do salvia . Heard way way to many bad stories and only a couple good ones .



Read the guide that I linked to, read the thread and you'll see there are good stories. IMO 90% or more of the people with shitty salvia stories are doing it in very very very retarded ways. Read the guide and ask, or just ponder how many of those guidelines got completely ignored, or weren't considered in the first place. Anyway makes no difference to me, Salvia got me into psychedelics, painting, and made a huge impact on my life, so if other people can't follow simple rules what can I do :shrug:

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As for the PUA stuff I have spent lots of time reading it , but Im not going after HBs at clubs ( that I cant even get in) , I have the knowledge of how people work kinda , but I have no desire to further it and build a routine , I want to be able to be me , I studder sometimes and say wierd off topic shit , Id rather not be fake and not show that then end up that way who I really am and get left



Who said anything about HBs and clubs?

You have knowledge kinda? PUA means getting knowledge for real, and much more importantly learning to apply it with some level of consistency. Most nerds know in theory that body language is important. They still have shitty eye contact, idiot grins or fidgety movements that give away tons of anxiety and ruin the day for all involved.

You have no desire to build a routine? Mkay, you seemed to have plenty of desire to build routines for writing, walking, eating, cooking, driving a car, playing an instrument or learning the rules of grammar and punctuation. Are any of those covering up your personality and not allowing you to be yourself? Is grammar getting in the way of you expressing yourself, or on the contrary enabling you to do so even more clearly?

I say off topic shit all the time, the only difference is that with some PUA skills, the vibes of the off topic shit are much much better. The whole point of the exercise is so that you can say your off topic shit with full flamboyant confidence. Nobody will "find out who you really are" because practicing the stuff will actually improve who you are. It's not a surface mask you wear for 5 minutes. You learn some good habits and as you use them they become second nature. They become you.

If you learn to drive for instance, do you then spend every moment on the road fearing the day when someone will "find out who you really are" namely still a non-driver? :lol:




I will not do salvia regardless of your experience or guidelines my mind has doubts so I will never do it

Pua is focused towards those people and environments Ive spent too much time studying it


I dont do any of those regularly
With the exception of grammar

I built my life to only have to do things I like
So I just live and hope it will all be alright

Maybe I dont want to change into a PUA
Maybe I just need time and to get some meds for social anxiety and experience , not some bullshit facade that I want to change into


I am not you and no offense man but from the sound of it I dont want to be like you


Edited by Kalypto (11/06/13 03:01 PM)


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Kalypto]
    #19095862 - 11/06/13 03:06 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

When I mean improve myself I mean improve my life , go to school , buy nicer clothes , actually do something with my hair , not change myself.

Id rather be hated for who I am than loved for being someone I'm not


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Kalypto]
    #19096065 - 11/06/13 03:47 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Suit yourself man, I was just sharing what worked for me.

I feel a bit of hostility that's IMO unwarranted, but I get where you're coming from. If anything gives you bad vibes (salvia, PUA, me) then indeed it's best to look elsewhere.

If you think PUA stuff is about "building a bullshit facade" then my job is done here. Best of luck and enjoy the ride :thumbup:


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Spacerific]
    #19096975 - 11/06/13 06:46 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Iv tried salvia, and didn't have a bad time. I just think its too expensive for the duration. I also know 4 other people that have tried it (I was in the room with them) and none of them had bad experiences. Try putting a picture of you with an animal as your profile picture.


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: SteelPanther]
    #19097992 - 11/06/13 10:05 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Suit yourself man, I was just sharing what worked for me.

I feel a bit of hostility that's IMO unwarranted, but I get where you're coming from. If anything gives you bad vibes (salvia, PUA, me) then indeed it's best to look elsewhere.

If you think PUA stuff is about "building a bullshit facade" then my job is done here. Best of luck and enjoy the ride :thumbup:



I use to think PUA was great , but I have realized after talking to people it doesnt fit within my morals
Sorry If I came off hostile

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Iv tried salvia, and didn't have a bad time. I just think its too expensive for the duration. I also know 4 other people that have tried it (I was in the room with them) and none of them had bad experiences. Try putting a picture of you with an animal as your profile picture.




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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Kalypto]
    #19098916 - 11/07/13 03:24 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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I use to think PUA was great , but I have realized after talking to people it doesnt fit within my morals
Sorry If I came off hostile



Morals? :lol:

Well as I said I think you got the wrong idea, or got to talk to some weird superficial PUA students. It's a set of skills one can use to improve themselves and have more healthy, chill, flowing interactions. One can use them to get one night stands and deceive people, or to find a nice girlfriend or wife, just as one can use fire or chemistry for great purposes or for burning shit to the ground. The skills themselves are completely amoral.

We just got off on the wrong foot, no harm done. Good vibes, hope you find some ways that work for you :thumbup:


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Spacerific]
    #19099622 - 11/07/13 10:00 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Spacerific said:
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I use to think PUA was great , but I have realized after talking to people it doesnt fit within my morals
Sorry If I came off hostile



Morals? :lol:

Well as I said I think you got the wrong idea, or got to talk to some weird superficial PUA students. It's a set of skills one can use to improve themselves and have more healthy, chill, flowing interactions. One can use them to get one night stands and deceive people, or to find a nice girlfriend or wife, just as one can use fire or chemistry for great purposes or for burning shit to the ground. The skills themselves are completely amoral.

We just got off on the wrong foot, no harm done. Good vibes, hope you find some ways that work for you :thumbup:




Ive bought multiple books
Downloaded tons of movies
From ones like niel stauss or what ever
and mystery
and matador
and lovedrop


I wouldnt do anything I wouldnt tell someone about , If I cant tell the girl Im trying to talk to that I use  PUA books and am a PUA then I dont want to

And any guy who says he is a PUA will most likely get turned down by any girl I want


Edited by Kalypto (11/07/13 10:06 AM)


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Kalypto]
    #19099728 - 11/07/13 10:32 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Write down your post count in your profile OP. Bitches love post counts

Just send a lot of messages to every girl you think looks cute, its a numbers game


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Patlal]
    #19099807 - 11/07/13 10:48 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I normally try to talk to every girl I think is cute , I normally get like 10 responses out of a hundred and maybe one that I actually talk to for a bit

Like I said I think Im gonna try and get my life sorted out work on "loving myself" then get back out there in public


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Kalypto]
    #19100013 - 11/07/13 11:32 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Ive bought multiple books
Downloaded tons of movies
From ones like niel stauss or what ever



Nei Strauss is a complete fag IMO, not that his stuff doesn't work, it probably does, anything works if you apply it enough, but his whole being just rubs me the wrong fucking way. If that matters. Sorry to any readers that like his book, I'm glad it works for ya.

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and mystery
and matador
and lovedrop




So let me get this straight, you learned NOTHING useful from these guys? Matador I don't know, but Mystery and Lovedrop are pretty decent. Are you telling me especially with Mystery, at no point did you stop and go "Hmm, what an awesome thing to know, I never thought about that!" - you knew all that stuff by default and doing it right in practice? Kino escalation and everything by the book? Just wow, is all I can say :hatsoff:

Not pushing this stuff, just curious. Most people dismiss PUA material without even looking into it. I've never seen anybody to check out several authors and conclude they're all useless for their life.

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I wouldnt do anything I wouldnt tell someone about , If I cant tell the girl Im trying to talk to that I use  PUA books and am a PUA then I dont want to



Well I have 2 points to make on this one:

1. When you ask a girl out, say for coffee. Do you tell her right then and there that you're asking her for coffee, so that you can later make out and then on the second date go over to your place and fuck and then hopefully she'll be your gf and then marry and have your babies and grow old together? Do you mention all this explicitly when first asking a girl out?

Because if not, then by your logic you probably shouldn't ask her out at all, you'd be doing something and couldn't verbally tell her about it.

2. I've told plenty of girls about the books and the PUA stuff and not one was turned off by it. Some were curious, some rolled their eyes and were completely uninterested but none of them slapped me in the face and walked out of the room, how dare I use techniques and whatever. It doesn't happen. Mostly they might care somewhat about these observations on human attraction and behavior.

I have absolutely no problem admitting I used to suck at girls. I mean my god, the fucking extent of it boggles the mind, if I gave you any amount of details from what I was like in high school or first years of college, Jeezus. :facepalm: But, ever the explorer, I googled the shit out of this, put in the hours and now I can go out and strike up a convo, get some shit going with some reasonable success rate I can live with. Any girl is welcome to ask about how these things work, and I'll freely disclose anything that I've used already, if it's not to weird to talk about. I may not talk about things I plan to do from then on, because as you've seen in point 1 that would be weird, but once the deed is done I have no problem spilling the beans. I don't care and she won't mind. It's not an issue.

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And any guy who says he is a PUA will most likely get turned down by any girl I want



And you know this how exactly? Let me guess, the girls you want are "special"? :lol:

Not trying yo bring you down man, I'm just having real trouble understanding your position on PUA material. Literally you're the first person that has actually put in some time to check it out, and still holds on to what sounds like basic uninformed opinions.

Like let's take your shoulder line for instance. 100% non-verbal stuff.

How does fixing your body language so you don't act like a wuss, make you less genuine? Do you have to tell the girl? Oh you're hot and so I wanted to face you head on like a chump, but since I saw this video and now I know that's a retarded thing to do, I'm still at 45 degrees. But I'm actually desperate and lonely as fuck and would really like to face you fully, but I don't because of the PUA video said I shouldn't.

Do you have to explain and tell the girl that stuff, or just fucking learn where to face and do it?

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Like I said I think Im gonna try and get my life sorted out work on "loving myself" then get back out there in public




Oh you'll be "loving yourself" quite a bit, no worries there :rofl:


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Spacerific]
    #19100099 - 11/07/13 11:49 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Ugh wall of text

To lazy to fully reply

Neil IMO is for richer higher life
There is knowledge in that book that is great , But I refuse to build a routine of it

oh and the coffee thing , if I take her on a date and she asks what my intentions are , I say that shit I lay it the fuck down , Im not crude about It but if I take a girl on a date she knows Im interested

the part where girl i like would turn me down if i said that , I have asked exs

I dont want to act as an alpha male if im not , Just cause I remember to give off that vibe in one situation doesnt mean I always will and then Id seem fake or something

Id rather be seen for who I am


I wont lie PUA info floats around my head all the time

but I will not set up routines of someone im not and fill into those shoes

Id rather just fail 100 times more and If I become an alpha male popular confident whatever

For awhile I wanted to do it a lot like when I was sixteen and had no car so I couldnt go sarge



Im sure some of this is contradictory but I still dont know who I entirely am or who I would even hope to be


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Kalypto]
    #19100229 - 11/07/13 12:21 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Like let's take your shoulder line for instance. 100% non-verbal stuff.

How does fixing your body language so you don't act like a wuss, make you less genuine? Do you have to tell the girl? Oh you're hot and so I wanted to face you head on like a chump, but since I saw this video and now I know that's a retarded thing to do, I'm still at 45 degrees. But I'm actually desperate and lonely as fuck and would really like to face you fully, but I don't because of the PUA video said I shouldn't.




Shoulder line? :rofl: What a bunch of retarded nonsense. I hope you didn't pay for that 'technique'.
"Don't be a beta man! Be a completely fake, ingenuine, alpha douche to the point that you're worried about the angle your shoulders are pointing!" For fucks sake.
PUA :burke:


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Lynnch]
    #19100235 - 11/07/13 12:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Like let's take your shoulder line for instance. 100% non-verbal stuff.

How does fixing your body language so you don't act like a wuss, make you less genuine? Do you have to tell the girl? Oh you're hot and so I wanted to face you head on like a chump, but since I saw this video and now I know that's a retarded thing to do, I'm still at 45 degrees. But I'm actually desperate and lonely as fuck and would really like to face you fully, but I don't because of the PUA video said I shouldn't.




Shoulder line? :rofl: What a bunch of retarded nonsense. I hope you didn't pay for that 'technique'.
"Don't be a beta man! Be a completely fake, ingenuine, alpha douche to the point that you're worried about the angle your shoulders are pointing!" For fucks sake.
PUA :burke:




Thank you


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Lynnch]
    #19100531 - 11/07/13 01:20 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Lynnch said:
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Like let's take your shoulder line for instance. 100% non-verbal stuff.

How does fixing your body language so you don't act like a wuss, make you less genuine? Do you have to tell the girl? Oh you're hot and so I wanted to face you head on like a chump, but since I saw this video and now I know that's a retarded thing to do, I'm still at 45 degrees. But I'm actually desperate and lonely as fuck and would really like to face you fully, but I don't because of the PUA video said I shouldn't.




Shoulder line? :rofl: What a bunch of retarded nonsense. I hope you didn't pay for that 'technique'.
"Don't be a beta man! Be a completely fake, ingenuine, alpha douche to the point that you're worried about the angle your shoulders are pointing!" For fucks sake.
PUA :burke:



Of course I didn't pay for any material, wtf people do that? :lol:

It's not a "technique". It's one of several different things to be somewhat mindful of. Once you're doing it right, you can stop worrying about it and go about your day. If you're doing it wrong (and chumps and nerds WILL be doing it wrong until it's pointed out to them) then it'll contribute to fucking up girl interactions. Not by itself, but with the shitty eye contact, shaky insecure voice, defensive body language, they all add up. You can tell from a distance when a chump is trying to talk to a girl and failing hard, even if you don't hear the convo. The body language gives the whole thing away.

Obviously if you're chill with yourself and have a great life and all is going awesome, you don't need to know any of this, ever. The eye contact, the conversation topics, the body language, everything will go smooth by itself, no need to pay any attention at all to anything. Just show up and be your awesome self :biggrin:

You need to read OP's posts again and see if he's in such an amazingly great state right now, or if minor improvements here and there might help. I haven't seen him in RL, he may be awesome at this stuff, but I doubt it. We're in a thread that starts with trying to impress girls online and ends with "loving oneself" until he's ready. If PUA material isn't relevant here, then I don't know what is.

Hand lotion tips perhaps? :lol:


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Spacerific]
    #19101925 - 11/07/13 05:37 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Look, I get the point of it all, I understand how it could help; but PUA just comes off as so shallow, like it treats all the symptoms but not the cause. It tells you how to appear confident and in control, by pretty much just tacking on a whole slew of new insecurities and dumb things to worry about; when in reality guys just need to work on being confident and in control- most of the time accomplished by chilling the fuck out and treating girls like other relatable human beings instead of some obstacle you need to read up on to figure out.


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Lynnch]
    #19102703 - 11/07/13 08:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I get what you're saying as well. There's a point after which concentrating on details and shoulder angles becomes empty and ludicrous. If you look at it that way, every skill can be pushed and overanalyzed to unhealthy extremes.

If one takes PUA to be a superficial covering up of insecurities with some shallow quick fixes, indeed some crappy results will follow. Fake alpha-looking dudes with little or no real content inside.

If you look however at programs like Deep Inner Game, all of that is an experienced therapist, explaining his system of how a mature human being functions, and what to work on to get there. Things like healthy boundaries, relating to other people in general, parents bosses spouses and so on. At no point are pick-up lines or even body language issues discussed, as that's all details and tactics. They are important as well, but they're by no means the core or the only thing PUA materials talk about.

I don't like the name of this field btw, perhaps the Venusian Arts would be more appropriate. It's less shallow, implies less demeaning simple control or superficial gimmicks, and focus on longer term relationships, not just the pick-up (the start).

As for the techniques and tactics, most are often very simple once someone points them out, but they're not intuitive, they don't pop in one's mind by default. Super easy to stress about what to SAY to a girl, and then walk up to her and fuck up all the rest of the body language, or take her out, have a great time and get friendzoned because you made no physical contact at all. Simple retarded shit like that, very easy to get wrong if one doesn't know what they're supposed to be doing. And when young and just starting out with girls, most guys don't.


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Re: How to get noticed online? [Re: Spacerific]
    #19103228 - 11/07/13 10:24 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Lynnch said:
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Like let's take your shoulder line for instance. 100% non-verbal stuff.

How does fixing your body language so you don't act like a wuss, make you less genuine? Do you have to tell the girl? Oh you're hot and so I wanted to face you head on like a chump, but since I saw this video and now I know that's a retarded thing to do, I'm still at 45 degrees. But I'm actually desperate and lonely as fuck and would really like to face you fully, but I don't because of the PUA video said I shouldn't.




Shoulder line? :rofl: What a bunch of retarded nonsense. I hope you didn't pay for that 'technique'.
"Don't be a beta man! Be a completely fake, ingenuine, alpha douche to the point that you're worried about the angle your shoulders are pointing!" For fucks sake.
PUA :burke:



Of course I didn't pay for any material, wtf people do that? :lol:

It's not a "technique". It's one of several different things to be somewhat mindful of. Once you're doing it right, you can stop worrying about it and go about your day. If you're doing it wrong (and chumps and nerds WILL be doing it wrong until it's pointed out to them) then it'll contribute to fucking up girl interactions. Not by itself, but with the shitty eye contact, shaky insecure voice, defensive body language, they all add up. You can tell from a distance when a chump is trying to talk to a girl and failing hard, even if you don't hear the convo. The body language gives the whole thing away.

Obviously if you're chill with yourself and have a great life and all is going awesome, you don't need to know any of this, ever. The eye contact, the conversation topics, the body language, everything will go smooth by itself, no need to pay any attention at all to anything. Just show up and be your awesome self :biggrin:

You need to read OP's posts again and see if he's in such an amazingly great state right now, or if minor improvements here and there might help. I haven't seen him in RL, he may be awesome at this stuff, but I doubt it. We're in a thread that starts with trying to impress girls online and ends with "loving oneself" until he's ready. If PUA material isn't relevant here, then I don't know what is.

Hand lotion tips perhaps? :lol:




Yes they do its called supporting people who helped you I still buy games from my favorite developers when I can get them for free

I stopped reading after that , And im done talking about PUA personally


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