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foodsgoodtoo
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When you asked your partner out/ or were asked...
#19089223 - 11/05/13 09:39 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Was it tense?
I'm not really actually looking for a relationship but I had an encounter and I'm not sure if I should pursue or not.
Probably not as I am not ready financially.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19089438 - 11/05/13 10:40 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Tense? Its normal to be nervous before making a move, but it should all go pretty easily from there.. Look you'll know when you're into someone and they're into you.
What was your encounter?
Not ready financially What the hell man. A good relationship is based on two people enjoying each other, not fucking finances.
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foodsgoodtoo
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: Lynnch]
#19089498 - 11/05/13 10:55 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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well yeah i respect the emotion. I just can't seem to hold a job all that well.
And yeah enlightening.
She's just a store clerk at a gas station.
Really hot and a lot of attraction. I've been thinking about asking for her name but its like every time I hear her speak I'm muted.
Aw well. I could settle for another definitely.
and no money is the root of all evil btw.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19091345 - 11/05/13 05:37 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Meet her asap. Don't let money be an excuse for not meeting her.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19091347 - 11/05/13 05:37 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I don't think it was tense, we were at the beach with some friends, and hugging each other and sort of making out if I recall. I asked her out and she said yes 
You don't need to be "financially" ready for a relationship. If your thinking this because the girl you have in mind would not be happy if you didn't have the cash to take her out and stuffz, I don't think she'll be worth your time.
If it's a relationship thats worth the time and effort that is required by a relationship, money shouldn't be an issue.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: deadwk]
#19091487 - 11/05/13 06:04 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sound advice.
I'm lonely nowadays but prefer it.
It's just a connection such as this is very questionable. Thanks all.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: brokentv]
#19091505 - 11/05/13 06:09 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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brokentv said: Meet her asap. Don't let money be an excuse for not meeting her.
I'm not sure I will rush this one. The first time I saw her was exactly a year ago and she still works there.
I need to open my mouth next time. There is a reason for everything.
But what the heck lets see if I can rack up the nerve...
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Edited by foodsgoodtoo (11/05/13 06:10 PM)
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19092814 - 11/05/13 10:00 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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wow again she is not working when I take the dive. I'd say though the night was incredible. Snow is just hitting hard for the first night... I finally have something planned. I'm not sure I want to keep ya'll updated. If anything I'll have to have proper proof lol.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19094721 - 11/06/13 10:21 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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That's it OP, keep building up pressure and expectations and intricate plans with this girl. THat will really make you mellow and chill and not tense at all when you walk up to say something to her
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For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it. - Matthew 13:16
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: Spacerific]
#19096820 - 11/06/13 06:15 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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haha
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19098997 - 11/07/13 04:34 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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only a year? A mere 525,600 minutes? Give it some more time.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: koods]
#19099252 - 11/07/13 08:03 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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yeah but if shes gone then I have no failure to worry about.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: koods]
#19102936 - 11/07/13 09:13 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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koods said: only a year? A mere 525,600 minutes? Give it some more time.
this is money. she's taken. No wonder.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19102946 - 11/07/13 09:15 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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me n my ex just spent a lot of time together and after a while it clicked that we didnt want eachother to be seeing other people and we wanted to be together
i think its just supposed to happen.
idk man.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19102970 - 11/07/13 09:19 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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i feel like i just broke up with this girl by finding out she's been with someone. It's so strange but I have a smile and everything.
Yeah. Time to level off and keep seeing these shroomerettes take their clothes off. lol
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19104052 - 11/08/13 05:31 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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no... my current bf said to me casually "do you wanna be my girl?" and i casually said "sure".
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19104495 - 11/08/13 09:19 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Failure is healthy. It's a real important part of progress.
Edited by brokentv (11/08/13 09:22 AM)
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: brokentv]
#19104893 - 11/08/13 10:36 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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brokentv said: Failure is healthy. It's a real important part of progress.
I'm really healthy.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: koods]
#19106424 - 11/08/13 04:02 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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if i meet her on here its over...
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19106924 - 11/08/13 05:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: me n my ex just spent a lot of time together and after a while it clicked that we didnt want eachother to be seeing other people and we wanted to be together
i think its just supposed to happen.
idk man.
Are you inferring I should ignore this girl completely now?
That is my plan but further down the road I'll probably go back there who knows how long. And to stop thinking about her is tough and hopefully I will be able to.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19107215 - 11/08/13 07:11 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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foodsgoodtoo said: Was it tense?
I'm not really actually looking for a relationship but I had an encounter and I'm not sure if I should pursue or not.
Probably not as I am not ready financially.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: zappaisgod]
#19107315 - 11/08/13 07:33 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Getting in a relationship for me is extremely smooth because I can tell the girl wants it
when I'm in the relationship and realize I have to keep it, then I get tense lol
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: Konyap]
#19109142 - 11/09/13 05:59 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Illyabo said: Getting in a relationship for me is extremely smooth because I can tell the girl wants it
when I'm in the relationship and realize I have to keep it, then I get tense lol
yeah I don't know.
I feel like her obsessed fan its killer. Shroomery crushes are a lot easor. I need to go catch some frogs...
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Edited by foodsgoodtoo (11/09/13 06:00 AM)
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19109178 - 11/09/13 06:15 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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And to stop thinking about her is tough and hopefully I will be able to.
No it's not tough at all, you're just going about it the wrong way.
Go for other chicks, diversify. Even if you fail at it, you'll at least have something completely different to think about, than the first girl. Then when you talk to her again, you'll be way more chill, because you were otherwise engaged in the meantime.
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: Spacerific]
#19109253 - 11/09/13 07:04 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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No man this chick is THE FINEST
good point though. I was thinking I don't need a girl.
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Edited by foodsgoodtoo (11/09/13 07:05 AM)
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Re: When you asked your partner out/ or were asked... [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#19109278 - 11/09/13 07:24 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I think you need to step away before you start boiling bunny rabbits.
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