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some insight
    #19088726 - 11/05/13 05:37 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I made a thread a while ago about a girl in my class, we got a lot in common and get along and flirt a bit, anyway I invited her to a show last friday but got no reply, I got pissed off and got really drunk at a party and went home with this older girl and screwed.

I saw the girl I like at school monday and she said how she would love to next time but had been spending the weekend camping with some dude and told me all about it so I smiled and nodded and did my best to hide the jealousy. School week is as normal we talk, flirt and smoke cigs together.
Sunday arvo I was bored so I hit her up for a coffee and I get a message along the lines of "sounds awesome! I'm about to have a nap but let me hit you up later on" I wait and get no reply so I ate a few mushrooms and went on a big adventure for a couple days with my mates.
I get a message from her today saying "Sorry I missed you, love! So, when were you thinking?" I replied "tonight" and she said she's too worn out from walking, I asked what she's been doing and she said she's been on a "romantic date :wink:, just traipsing around"

I just can't tell if she's interested or not, she seems like it in person yet wants to tell me about another guy?


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Re: some insight [Re: elborito] * 3
    #19088817 - 11/05/13 06:49 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

she's an attention whore, I would move on don't waste your time


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Re: some insight [Re: elborito] * 1
    #19088818 - 11/05/13 06:49 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

You're getting jealous but it's not like you're dating, plus you are fucking other girls.

On the other hand, I don't know why she is telling you about her dates.  Tell her to cut that shit out.  Sounds like maybe she's just interested in friendship with you?


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Re: some insight [Re: Sleepwalker]
    #19088831 - 11/05/13 06:57 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Yeah feeling jealous is a bit absurd and tbh I'd be happy to just be friends, but yeah I couldn't care less about her dates I'll probably let her know it if she brings it up.


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Re: some insight [Re: elborito]
    #19094088 - 11/06/13 05:19 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Had a couple beers with her a bar after school today, was fun, I don't think I would want to be in a relationship with her but a nice FWB situation would be mad :smile:


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Re: some insight [Re: elborito]
    #19094713 - 11/06/13 10:18 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

OP, what you need to do is simply ignore her verbal crap about other guys. Unless you physically see her carrying some guy around that's cockblocking you, that's 100% irrelevant.

Assume she's single and also open for your advances until proven otherwise.

From here, just do your standard approach. Make sure you make a lot of friendly skin contact when you meet, non-erotic at first, get her used to you physically, see how she responds. Shoot the shit with her, all the time spent together having fun adds fun and builds comfort. Very important that you build up physical contact with her, and that you make it non-erotic at first. Creep up under the radar as it were.

Just doing this, might at some point place you in the position to advance to the next step, taking it from playful non-erotic, to something more interesting, grinding, making out, whatever.

The only show stoppers with this girl would be if she pushes you away basically breaking skin contact in an active manner, looking you dead in the eye saying she has a boyfriend, ultimatum type of stuff like that. Which she's very unlikely to do, if you very slowly move things along as described above.

If she's telling you verbally that she went for a walk with some guy, that doesn't really matter. He could have been a fucking nerd, they spent the whole day talking about stamps and he was too pussy to make any move, leaving her unsatisfied and wishing she met a guy with some actual balls. Namely you.

Get in there and do the deed. Only when she pushes you away, mentions a clear boyfriend AND stops spending time with you, only then should you cross her off the list and move on.

Alternatively, if she's not open to banging you at this point, go for her nice single friends. She talks about other guys? No problem, start meeting her female friends and then bring it up to her when you meet her. Win-win either way.


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Re: some insight [Re: Spacerific]
    #19097069 - 11/06/13 07:08 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

:cheers:


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Re: some insight [Re: elborito]
    #19104053 - 11/08/13 05:32 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

sounds like shes giving you the run around


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Re: some insight [Re: babydoll]
    #19104295 - 11/08/13 08:08 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

urgh probably, yet I spent the last few hours being drunk thinking about her  :undecided:

edit - while I'm not going to delete the above statement I realize that it's whiny and the last thing I should be doing if I want this girl.


Edited by elborito (11/08/13 08:23 AM)


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Re: some insight [Re: Spacerific]
    #19104358 - 11/08/13 08:36 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

:thumbup:^


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Re: some insight [Re: elborito]
    #19104690 - 11/08/13 09:53 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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elborito said:
urgh probably, yet I spent the last few hours being drunk thinking about her  :undecided:



Did it work?

The thinking I mean, did you go over your strategy and are now clear on what you'll be doing from here on? What did you get out of it?

IMO you should be at the gym working out or in the park running, or out with friends or fishing or at home listening to some nice PUA refresher material, anything to get your mind and body right for the next time you meet. Hell even shrooming about it might help at this point, rather than drunk "thinking" about it. At least from shrooming you have some chance of an insight :lol:

Get your head in the game mate, the girl isn't going to attract herself, you have to put in some minimal amount of focused effort.


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Re: some insight [Re: Spacerific]
    #19104851 - 11/08/13 10:29 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

actually it did, next week I'll take your advice on physical contact, She mentioned something about the canoe club on the river near school being cheap and how she's always been meaning to try it, so if the weathers good I think I'll take her out on the river and smoke a spliff.
I have been working out a bit, just at home doing pull/push ups I don't think I'd like the gym, also got some antibiotics because I get acne on my chest which probably makes me a bit insecure though that won't be cleared up by next week.


Edited by elborito (11/08/13 10:32 AM)


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