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Psilosopherr
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Monogamy has never made much sense to me
#19076251 - 11/02/13 05:38 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Of course, when it rains it pours. Why should I have to deny my feelings for other women?
Why do people choose to get jealous or super angry when their partners fool around with someone else for one night?
I would rather let things happen naturally.
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#19076277 - 11/02/13 05:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Because of commitment issues. It really doesnt get any more complicated then that.
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#19076283 - 11/02/13 05:45 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said: Because of commitment issues. It really doesnt get any more complicated then that.
Except the religion part
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: NotTheDevil]
#19076291 - 11/02/13 05:46 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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std's
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: brokentv] 2
#19076305 - 11/02/13 05:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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brokentv said: std's
That's why me and my husband are only going to fuck men outside of our marriage... no women. I hear their ladyparts attract ghosts.
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: st1llnox] 4
#19076310 - 11/02/13 05:49 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Ghosts ate still better then aids, relatively speaking.
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: st1llnox] 2
#19076313 - 11/02/13 05:49 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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monogamy doesn't make sense to many people...
just don't get in a relationship where that is an expectation.
if you're fighting with your gf about being attracted to other women then you either lied to her about what you wanted in the relationship or she's not the one for you.
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: brokentv] 3
#19076327 - 11/02/13 05:53 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quit trying to word it so you don't sound like a slut. If you're gonna act like a slut then wear that slut name loud and proud.
I prefer monogomy. I like being able to COMMIT to one person I love and give them all of my love.
You're responsibility as a slut though is when you do get involved with people tell them " I am a slutty individual and like sleeping around" so someone who may want a shot at monogomy with you won't get hurt.
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#19076328 - 11/02/13 05:53 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Why do people choose to get jealous or super angry when their partners fool around with someone else for one night?
Probably because they didn't discuss the topic before hand; or they did and agreed it wouldn't happen.
In the mind's eye it is easy to see a significant other gaining emotions for that fling and the possible end of the relationship.
Find a girl who is down for an open relationship (if it is no issue for you seeing her fool around with someone else) or just date several girls making it clear to each that you aren't being exclusive.
Women vs. Men Theory
Getting pregnant was a dangerous position to be in for our women ancestors. I think this mentally wires them to have a lot invested in a sexual relationship and exclusivity/stability.
The male could throw his seed everywhere and have no major repercussions and so there is not such a drive to an exclusive bond (in fact the opposite could be argued, IE: more sex partners = more potential success for passing on DNA).
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: NWlight]
#19076332 - 11/02/13 05:54 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said: Ghosts ate still better then aids, relatively speaking.
Aides can at least do shit for you... ghosts can hardly even manipulate the physical world, if at all. They're merely apparitions. Quote:
NWlight said: monogamy doesn't make sense to many people...
just don't get in a relationship where that is an expectation.
if you're fighting with your gf about being attracted to other women then you either lied to her about what you wanted in the relationship or she's not the one for you.
Or you have a dick (or a vag) and thus don't biologically operate like a PG rated RomCom (am I using that correctly?). If you're not attrracted to other humans, you're lying or something's probably amiss.
I heard a female friend of mine say she only masturbates to pictures of her boyfriend wuuuutever. And the boyfriend totally found the 20 pounds I lost so this isn't like committing to some supermodel or anything...
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: Mescalean]
#19076396 - 11/02/13 06:10 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: Quit trying to word it so you don't sound like a slut. If you're gonna act like a slut then wear that slut name loud and proud.
I prefer monogomy. I like being able to COMMIT to one person I love and give them all of my love.
You're responsibility as a slut though is when you do get involved with people tell them " I am a slutty individual and like sleeping around" so someone who may want a shot at monogomy with you won't get hurt.
this for the most part
but sometimes shit happens, i couldnt imagine a full on unintentional fuck
but one time a girl grabbed my hand to her boobs and it took me a second to realize i was in a relationship
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: hidenseek1]
#19076422 - 11/02/13 06:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I think the side fucking could strengthen the main relationship possibly.
Reminds me why I love the main girl so much. Sex with other random sluts usually sucks. (they don't know what i like)
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19076441 - 11/02/13 06:21 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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ya, i was in the looney bin once and their was a couple in a "open" relationship, and some guy made a comment about the guy hanging around other chicks, and i said, ya, but i think its some mutual thing they got going on, and they guy responded with its sign of immaturity
i dont know if thats even true, but its just something that stuck with me
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: hidenseek1]
#19076454 - 11/02/13 06:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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hidenseek1 said: ya, i was in the looney bin once and their was a couple in a "open" relationship, and some guy made a comment about the guy hanging around other chicks, and i said, ya, but i think its some mutual thing they got going on, and they guy responded with its sign of immaturity
i dont know if thats even true, but its just something that stuck with me
looney bin bro's!
There was a girl in my looney bin who blinked super hard, and I recently started doing it too. It actually feels kinda good to blink extra hard
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19076471 - 11/02/13 06:27 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Take this from someone who is in a relationship that has been open before. Even if your partner is 100 percent faithful and trustworthy if you are serious about marriage kids etc you will be jealous.
My jealousy wasn't that she got played with and pussy eaten etc, it was.that the other male was inferior and got my prize.
If you have a fuckbuddy gf then play around.
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19076506 - 11/02/13 06:36 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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If I get into a serious relationship I expect monogamy simply because it's a trust thing. If I am to trust you with my shit and trust you aren't going to leave me for another dude and take half my shit because that's the way it works these days then show you have enough self-control to keep from shoving every dick you get the chance to inside of you.
If I can't trust you to do that then how can I trust you to do anything else?
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: MHbound]
#19076586 - 11/02/13 06:55 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I like monogamy because I want to share a special connection directly between myself and another person without other people muddying up the waters.
I'm a hopeless romantic in a sea of materialists though, so it's hard to find someone worth the commitment.
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: Acaterpillar]
#19076598 - 11/02/13 06:58 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: Sheekle]
#19076708 - 11/02/13 07:29 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Free love ended with the 70's sheekle.
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Re: Monogamy has never made much sense to me [Re: Mescalean] 2
#19076719 - 11/02/13 07:31 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: Quit trying to word it so you don't sound like a slut. If you're gonna act like a slut then wear that slut name loud and proud.
I prefer monogomy. I like being able to COMMIT to one person I love and give them all of my love.
You're responsibility as a slut though is when you do get involved with people tell them " I am a slutty individual and like sleeping around" so someone who may want a shot at monogomy with you won't get hurt.
LOL someone walked in on another dudes dick in their girl
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