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stuckinwonderland
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Konyap]
#19071805 - 11/01/13 07:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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yeahh I think the sign idea is a bad idea pearsonally I would just face to face confront them and if it continued I would grab a trasbag or the trash they trow around and start chucking it at them
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Repertoire89]
#19071938 - 11/01/13 08:14 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Best advice hold on til the lease is up and pick better don't get anymore roommates next time ever.

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Shroomey Toons said:
Best advice hold on til the lease is up and pick better don't get anymore roommates next time ever.

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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Repertoire89]
#19073011 - 11/02/13 12:13 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said:
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Shroomey Toons said:
Best advice hold on til the lease is up and pick better don't get anymore roommates next time ever.

Don't you ever correct dance with me again! 
What's yo probme man?
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: NotTheDevil]
#19073074 - 11/02/13 12:28 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I know you guyizz type... I know things
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Magicman69]
#19073213 - 11/02/13 01:08 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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tell them straight up "dude pick ur shit up wtf". roomates need to check each other every now and then. if a roomate is not willing to comply then he's not worth it and roomate/you need to move out. unless your roomates are really uptight and have ridiculous rules one should speak up to the injustice.
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Magicman69
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Repertoire89]
#19113604 - 11/10/13 07:55 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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UPDATE: I spoke with a couple of my room-mates who agreed to take responsibility for their friends making a fucking mess of our place. Anyways, nothing has changed. Shit continues to be disgusting and my GF and I are the only ones who clean. I think this is a sign of me maturing and getting older. To be honest, I don't think I'll ever live with room mates again. The lesson learned here is that I'm over wanting to live in a party house with a bunch of people. I like my own space; just having my own room is not enough. It has been really awesome to see myself grow these past years. Has anyone experienced a similar situation, where suddenly you realize room mates are not for you?
Edited by Magicman69 (11/10/13 07:56 AM)
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Magicman69]
#19113613 - 11/10/13 07:58 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Try putting a trashcan in the middle of the room they chill in. In a place where they are bound to see it. Put the trashcan in plain sight and they will throw stuff in there. They just sound lazy. I would be pissed too.
EDIT: If you spoke with them and still they are making a mess, fuck those bitches. I would scream at people for not respecting me like that. They sound like douche bags.
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Magicman69]
#19113741 - 11/10/13 08:40 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Unfortunately, OP, I doubt there's much you can do to change their behavior. You're gonna either have to learn to live with the situation or move. Talking to them and leaving signs may make for a short term fix, but I doubt it will change things really. If the lease is in your name then you hold a little more leverage. You might make some difference by talking with them about how many people they have over. Less people = less mess.
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Magicman69]
#19113770 - 11/10/13 08:49 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Magicman69 said: I live with four other roommates, luckily I have my own room. Unfortunately one roommate ALWAYS has two or three friends over so it's more like I'm living with eight people. I'm the only one who cleans and these rats literally just throw garbage on the ground when there is a trash bag ten feet away. It's easy to say move, but I love the location and I have my own big room. I just cleaned the entire place spotless, and am thinking about placing signs up to remind them to throw their trash in the garbage. "If you make a fucking mess, clean it up!" or something similar. It is sad it has come to this.. Any advice?
you sound like a female.
wait til they're in the house together, and tell them to clean up after themselves. so hard?
have some self confidence and stand up for yourself.
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Magicman69]
#19113775 - 11/10/13 08:51 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Magicman69 said: Anything, candy wrappers, grocery bags, toilet paper with blood on it. I don't understand why they don't use the garbage! They are exchange students but speak decent English.
TP with blood on it?
sounds like they're shooting something man.
you should find out what the fuck is goin on in your house.
you could get fucked if they bring trouble home to you.
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: stzacrack]
#19113927 - 11/10/13 09:32 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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That's the craziest part! None of them use drugs, they're all squares. They're just young, messy, and they drink a lot. I always thought only druggies were messy, I've come to find out even the normies can be pigs and yes I'll be moving out into a 1 bedroom or studio as soon as the lease ends. I'm so over parties all the time.
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Magicman69]
#19113936 - 11/10/13 09:36 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Alcoholics are a type of druggie.
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Magicman69]
#19113960 - 11/10/13 09:41 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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get a strap yo! just kidding guns will probably just make the situation worse.
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: nicechrisman]
#19113962 - 11/10/13 09:41 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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True but the amount of alcohol they consume isn't at an alcoholic level. It's more how often they drink and have their friends over. Typical college type issues, I think it's the fact that I'm 25 and more mature than my room mates who are all 19-21. I'm already checking out the market for 1 BDRM apartments for when my lease ends in a few months
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: Magicman69]
#19114316 - 11/10/13 11:01 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Its the responsibility of the person who wants a clean house to clean the house
Whoever cooks must ALSO wash the dishes.
You can get a house cleaner for like 40$ a week that's like 10$ a person.
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: teamkiller] 1
#19114512 - 11/10/13 11:53 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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teamkiller said: Its the responsibility of the person who wants a clean house to clean the house

Glad I don't live with filthy fucks like you.
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19114599 - 11/10/13 12:14 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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teamkiller said: Its the responsibility of the person who wants a clean house to clean the house

Glad I don't live with filthy fucks like you.

Oh wait... I do
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Re: Another Room-mate issues thread [Re: TheMovement]
#19114869 - 11/10/13 01:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah get a cleaner.
My GF used to nag me about not cleaning up. Now we have some women from Bulgaria clean our house each week and I am off the hook. Cant put a price on that, but if you insist its 10€/h for 2 hours a week
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