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Shortknight



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Yeah that was a great post trip surfer, you too MPD Shroomery rocks! Let our children and our childrens children enjoy it! Hahaha
I don't have any children
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seadragon
rawrasaur


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im 24 and no, and i'm not planning it either maybe if im older and its completely different in my head but i see no reason why i should have kids now..also have absolutely no wish in having them i don't have anything against people who have them unless they start questioning me'' when i will have kids?'' ffs the social pressure is retarded, my grandma always asks me when i will have a gf and kids like asked me about 200 times no kidding, it's always same conversations anyway.. also why do women want kids so bad .. most of them? it must hurt so fucking bad to give birth, O_o
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Shroomey Toons
Shh I farted



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pwnasaurus said: It's interesting how few people on the Shroomery want kids. When you talk to most people they say things like "when you have kids you'll understand" not "if" as if not having kids is unimaginable.
I think this is true 90% of the time. Me and my girlfriend were planning on having children together but it was a plan, nothing definitive. It wasn't like oh you're cycling and it's a half-moon time to get busy. Usually people who have kids on purpose do so after they realized it wasn't happening naturally. There are very few people who plan on having kids, as in know what month they're going to bang out without protection. Sometimes you just make love with someone that you wouldn't mind spending the rest of your life with and voila, life is created!
To you younger cats out there who accidentally have kids in the future, realize thats the norm and you're not alone. As long as you provide them with love you'll be alright.
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JesusIsLord
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nope. not gonna have kids, either. not interested in a family at all.
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Shroomey Toons
Shh I farted



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You got a girlfriend/wife Jesusislord?
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JesusIsLord
Jesus freak


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Shroomey Toons said: You got a girlfriend/wife Jesusislord?
an ex gf of 4 years. when that ended, some knowledge about me was distilled and revealed over time about my relationship to this world, other people, God, & etc. i won't be getting another gf, or one night stand. will be celibate from here on out.
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zappaisgod
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I have a daughter. I did not want to have children but she has been a miracle. She slept through the night the first day home. She got a 100% free ride from the top SUNY University and is now studying at Boston University Law. She is pretty, charming, obviously smart and a pain in the ass because she cares more about me than I do.
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Gilgamesh18
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JesusIsLord said:
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Shroomey Toons said: You got a girlfriend/wife Jesusislord?
an ex gf of 4 years. when that ended, some knowledge about me was distilled and revealed over time about my relationship to this world, other people, God, & etc. i won't be getting another gf, or one night stand. will be celibate from here on out.
I am celibate also!
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Shroomey Toons
Shh I farted



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JesusIsLord said:
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Shroomey Toons said: You got a girlfriend/wife Jesusislord?
an ex gf of 4 years. when that ended, some knowledge about me was distilled and revealed over time about my relationship to this world, other people, God, & etc. i won't be getting another gf, or one night stand. will be celibate from here on out.
Well to each his own bro. Although you might stumble across love again. If you do, as a man you need to realize the child thing is mainly the girls decision, lol. If you were in love and she wanted children would that be a deal breaker?
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JesusIsLord
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Shroomey Toons said:
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JesusIsLord said:
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Shroomey Toons said: You got a girlfriend/wife Jesusislord?
an ex gf of 4 years. when that ended, some knowledge about me was distilled and revealed over time about my relationship to this world, other people, God, & etc. i won't be getting another gf, or one night stand. will be celibate from here on out.
Well to each his own bro. Although you might stumble across love again. If you do, as a man you need to realize the child thing is mainly the girls decision, lol. If you were in love and she wanted children would that be a deal breaker?
yes, it would be a deal breaker. loyalty is a joke to everyone these days so i consider marriage/love/kids/whatever a fools errand.
but as you say, to each his own. won't deny that it works for some just not for me
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Shroomey Toons
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People can change, although you may not.
BUT, it's almost inevitable, even a girl who says they don't want kids when y'all first date will probably change her mind (or start being honest) over time. I suppose if you're serious and if you do 'accidentally' fall in love again be honest about this up front. Their biological clock is strong man, like so super strong.
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flipsidetrue




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JohnnieYen said: Hey, I'm not telling everyone to have kids. But there just seemed to be a lot of negative stigmas in this thread.
I'm just trying to show a brighter side. That not all parents are unhappy slaves just to give their kids a roof, food and education.
To me, kids are wonderful and I wouldn't regret it for a second.
2 years ago i was vagabonding around hitchhiking up 101 north on the west coast i managed to follow the remaining members of the grateful dead around (furthur) and managed to get a job on 3 ganja farms, trimming, spinning hash, and blowing hash oil never planned on having kids never really cared about having any...2 years later my life changed, i ended up meeting an awesome chick we dated for a while and after a night of red stagg whiskey our son was conceived, i didnt find out till about 2 weeks or so later she was balling her eyes out and freaking out, i then told her that whatever she wanted to do i would be supportive in the decision she made, she decided to keep the child so i went along with it, well a crazy 8 months or so of her being a raging hormonal pregnant woman, i sometimes felt regret and like WTF did i get myself into??? then later our son was born and let me tell you having a kid is not for the weak sometimes you barely get any sleep at all and get tired of hearing them cry and you feel CRANKY AS FUCK !but in the end when you see that little kid smile, and hold them, and know that they depend on you, it makes your heart melt and there's no better feeling in the world and would nt trade it for anything in the world, and after all you finally understand what patience is.
kids aren't for everyone and not everyone has parent qualities in them.
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JesusIsLord
Jesus freak


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Shroomey Toons said: People can change, although you may not.
BUT, it's almost inevitable, even a girl who says they don't want kids when y'all first date will probably change her mind (or start being honest) over time. I suppose if you're serious and if you do 'accidentally' fall in love again be honest about this up front. Their biological clock is strong man, like so super strong.
my level of social isolation is stronger. i am a super cynical asshole and i enjoy solitude the way a fish enjoys water.
just to let you in on a secret of mine to let you know the improbable nature of me ever ending up in a relationship - i loathe women, for the most part. i keep them at a distance so i can loathe them and not think of them as human.
fucked up but honestly how i am. it's not even them i loathe, it's what they become. it's the ideology they absorb. i'll leave it at that.
i'ma make some chow.
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ImFukNCLUELESS
I SPIT ON PEOPLE


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I have 1 and im a single father dont regret it at all but i do u regret who it was with though
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Rockhound
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Being a single father is tough, dude. You got my sympathy and understanding.
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iarphairc
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Re: Do you have kids?! [Re: Rockhound]
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I should probabl reply to the poster but anyway..
Having kids is evil 'cos you force a sentient being to suffer? Dude you are one bitter, bitter guy, Im kind of sad you have that view of the world. Damn Im cynical and going through a rough patch but I wouldnt ever have that fuckin depressed an attitude to life.
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King Klick
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Re: Do you have kids?! [Re: iarphairc] 1
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I have a cat that feels more like a son than a cat. Plus I can just bury it and move on if I decide to shake it.
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Prisoner#1
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Re: Do you have kids?! [Re: badchad]
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badchad said: I've said it before that I don't think I've ever met a parent that regrets having a kid. It's not socially acceptable to do so.
There's got to be plenty of parents that made a mistake and hate their lives forever because of their kids. I know it.
most of those parents are the abusive, neglectful sort.
I have 2 kids, I was 35 when the first was born and if there's anything I regret regarding them it's hooking up with their mother who left them with me and has decided to make a career out of being a meth monkey
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luvdemboomers
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I cannot think of anything (with a few exceptions) worse than having a kid, given my life situation.
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Romi
Indigo Child



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The most honest I can be...
I don't regret it because she is awesome to have around, I've never felt this love before but to have done it differently maybe although changing the ways things get done may have change the results and I wouldn't change Zoe for anything.
If I had a choice now I probably would have waited a little longer, still would have had her and love her as much as I love her now but... there is unresolved things that I would love to have had accomplished and having her kind of threw that possibility to the garbage.
Is a life changing experience so if you love your life my guess is don't change it?
If you hate your life... a kid won't make it any better.
Have a kid only when you feel it in your gut and you are willing to change your life and give that kid everything that they deserves, even if it means you will no longer have a day for you ever again, or at least until they are 18, but I can't promise you that either. LOL
I'm committed to my child and she makes me a better person everyday.
There's always a "what if"...
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