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Anonymous #1

I don't think I can go to parties anymore
    #19058519 - 10/30/13 04:10 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Every time I go to a social gathering I have some sort of incident and embarrass myself. I just can't function around that many people. I literally cannot think of things worth vocalizing. So I end up standing around quietly, smoking or something.

And after the last few I went to a while back being particularly bad, I'm just deciding not to go to any anymore. Fuck parties, and forget hanging out with more than a couple people at the same time.


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Anonymous #2

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #19058535 - 10/30/13 04:13 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I've been saying that for a while now. Parties suck. I don't want to get shitfaced and I don't really want to meet a bunch of drunk people.


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Anonymous #1

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #19058568 - 10/30/13 04:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Haha yeah I'm not much for alcohol either. I do enjoy watching the drunk people doing stupid things though.

Last time the thing that went wrong was I got talked into played beer pong with hard alcohol. Got too drunk when I'm not used to drinking like ever.

I don't even remember what happened but I woke up on the floor with vomit on me.


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Anonymous #3

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #19058774 - 10/30/13 05:04 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I was always painfully shy ever since I can remember.  I find small talk so incredibly banal and the rituals we put ourselves through in social situations are hollow and embarrassing once you're hip to a deeper understanding. 

For my whole earlier life, I thought this "shyness" was something that absolutely had to be overcome, like a physical disability of sorts.  So I self-medicated to try to be the life of the party person I thought I was supposed to be.  I won't go into that because the addiction I lived through gave me a whole new set of obstacle to overcome versus just being fucking shy.

My lesson learned: being shy and kinda awkward may just be who you are and no need to feel pressured to change it.  some of us are just introverts.  everyone doesn't need to be an extrovert.  make use of the free time you have to spend it learning and doing new things, hobbies, arts, sciences.  you'll be expanding your mind in real ways versus spending every night/weekend at the latest, meaningless, social event. 

if you think being shy is a disadvantage - it's actually not, you just haven't learned to use it to your advantage yet.  most people who are shy and avoid typical social situations have amazingly good concentration and learning abilities that you can use in whatever way you want....


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Anonymous #1

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #19058817 - 10/30/13 05:12 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
I was always painfully shy ever since I can remember.  I find small talk so incredibly banal and the rituals we put ourselves through in social situations are hollow and embarrassing once you're hip to a deeper understanding. 

For my whole earlier life, I thought this "shyness" was something that absolutely had to be overcome, like a physical disability of sorts.  So I self-medicated to try to be the life of the party person I thought I was supposed to be.  I won't go into that because the addiction I lived through gave me a whole new set of obstacle to overcome versus just being fucking shy.

My lesson learned: being shy and kinda awkward may just be who you are and no need to feel pressured to change it.  some of us are just introverts.  everyone doesn't need to be an extrovert.  make use of the free time you have to spend it learning and doing new things, hobbies, arts, sciences.  you'll be expanding your mind in real ways versus spending every night/weekend at the latest, meaningless, social event. 

if you think being shy is a disadvantage - it's actually not, you just haven't learned to use it to your advantage yet.  most people who are shy and avoid typical social situations have amazingly good concentration and learning abilities that you can use in whatever way you want....



I like that a lot. Embrace the shyness.

Maybe I will go to this party tomorrow and only speak when I feel like it. Spend the rest of the time getting super high and people watching


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Anonymous #4

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19059046 - 10/30/13 06:06 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

this is why you go to parties with friends. you know


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Anonymous #1

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #19059238 - 10/30/13 06:56 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
this is why you go to parties with friends. you know



lol, the only parties I go to are ones with friends. Even when all the people there are my good friends I have these horribly uncomfortable experiences.

I'm just THAT socially retarded. When I was growing up I was ALWAYS alone. It made me this way.


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Anonymous #4

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19060186 - 10/30/13 09:04 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

friends or aquaintences?


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Anonymous #1

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #19060214 - 10/30/13 09:06 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
friends or aquaintences?



mostly acquaintances, but also like 3 friends and 2 close friends


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Anonymous #4

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19060233 - 10/30/13 09:09 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

go to a party with all good friends. or at least semi good friends. not just people you nod too on the way to class.


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Anonymous #5

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19062210 - 10/31/13 08:22 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
Every time I go to a social gathering I have some sort of incident and embarrass myself. I just can't function around that many people. I literally cannot think of things worth vocalizing. So I end up standing around quietly, smoking or something.

And after the last few I went to a while back being particularly bad, I'm just deciding not to go to any anymore. Fuck parties, and forget hanging out with more than a couple people at the same time.




I do this same stuff when I go to parties, I end up standing somewhere chain-smoking, playing on my phone, and twittling my thumbs.

Then I start to get drunk and loosen up a little bit and socializing, then 9/10 times I end up getting too drunk and making an ass out of myself.

I love parties/socializing even though I suck at it.

I believe we are social beings at heart, it just comes more naturally to some. If you do it a lot though you should get better at it.


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Anonymous #6

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #5] * 4
    #19062787 - 10/31/13 11:04 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I dislike parties also, when I was 14 it was fun.

These days I'm so sick of the same petty bullshit. I'm sick of the alpha male trying to out-bro everyone at the party.

I'm sick of drunk bitches that think they're so cool when in reality they are no more special than the next drunk bitch. I'm sick of good friends doing anything they can to make themselves look better than you in front of said drunk bitch.

I'm sick of people thinking that a bunch of people drinking themselves into a stupor is the fun and cool, and the best way to socialize, even though everyone will forget 3/4 of the night.

I'm sick of fights, I'm sick of drama, I'm sick of stupid fucking drinking games. Fuck parties.

The only time I was really into going to parties was back when I sold grass, I would find customers then leave and go to the next one. I don't do that anymore so whenever I catch myself at a party I always think to myself wtf am I doing here.
 
I'd rather go to a rave, EDM show, concert or a festival. Even a light show at a planetarium is a better time for me than getting juiced.


Edited by Anonymous (10/31/13 11:11 AM)


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Anonymous #7

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #6] * 1
    #19062829 - 10/31/13 11:13 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I don't like parties either. Usually most of the people are assholes who are just there to get laid and be douche bags. There is usually some dipshit who thinks hes a tough guy too. I don't like parties.


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Anonymous #8

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #7]
    #19063003 - 10/31/13 11:57 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I'm pretty reserved at parties too, always have been. I usually just play beer pong all night :lol: I don't dance and I hate small talk so beer pong was pretty much the only other thing to do. It was always an easy way for me to meet new people at a party plus I really love beer pong :cookiemonster:


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Anonymous #9

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #19063021 - 10/31/13 12:02 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Im the same as you guys, but i found that if you lighten up and share ideas with those who you connect with, its easy. Don't try to be social, actually be social. Just be yourself, If somebody judges you don't take it so personally. In the end its you judging yourself.


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Anonymous #10

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19064786 - 10/31/13 05:30 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
Every time I go to a social gathering I have some sort of incident and embarrass myself. I just can't function around that many people. I literally cannot think of things worth vocalizing. So I end up standing around quietly, smoking or something.

And after the last few I went to a while back being particularly bad, I'm just deciding not to go to any anymore. Fuck parties, and forget hanging out with more than a couple people at the same time.




Perhaps you can have a new goal

How to interact with people at parties

Buy books, and go to counselling. Make it a special project of your life to improve this part of your spirituality while in this body.

Just say, " I can do it!"

and look towards every sunrise like a new chance to win a prize in the game of life.

:nodofunderstanding:


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Anonymous #1

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #10]
    #19069042 - 11/01/13 09:58 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Sooo, I went. And it was reallyyyy fun. I'm so glad that I went.

Connected with someone who used to be my best friend but we had a small falling out. And just embraced my shyness.

It felt liberating just sitting there thinking "I don't have to talk to feel comfortable. It's okay to be shy and thats what I am."


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Anonymous #11

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19069118 - 11/01/13 10:20 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

:grin::thumbup: 

That shit they always tell you when you're a kid, "just be yourself!"...well in most cases, it actually works.


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Anonymous #1

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #11]
    #19069123 - 11/01/13 10:21 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #11 said:
:grin::thumbup: 

That shit they always tell you when you're a kid, "just be yourself!"...well in most cases, it actually works.



Yeah for most of my life I thought stuff like that was bullshit.

I had trust issues as a kid; so I actually rarely took advice from anybody


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Anonymous #12

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19069305 - 11/01/13 11:01 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

parties suck

get drunk


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Anonymous #13

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #19073590 - 11/02/13 04:09 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Get baked as shit before you actually get to the party.  Whilst there light up a j and see how many people start slowly congregating.  Now pass it around and talk strains/legal policy concerning mj how people feel about it, etc.  You've managed to meet a few like minded people and get stoned at the same time.
:youthemandawg:


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Anonymous #14

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #19076893 - 11/02/13 08:07 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

fuck parties. Drunk people really suck. theyre loud, sloppy, have no filter on what they say, and are just part of the masses acting like idiots trying to get laid

Honestly I would rather not have sex with some chick then have to smell her nasty beer/liquor breath


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Anonymous #15

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #14]
    #19077281 - 11/02/13 09:38 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I hate parties.

I've always had trouble with feeling like I really 'fit in' anywhere. No matter what group of people I hung out with, I never felt truly as connected to those in the group as they did with each other. I always felt like the black sheep when hanging out with more than a couple of people at a time, whether that was just in my head or reality I have no idea.

Like on Halloween the other day, I went and hung out with some friends of mine to smoke and just fuck around. I had fun until others began to come over. At that time I just started smoking as much as I could in order to remove the feelings of awkwardness. Usually that'll work to an extent and let me open up a bit more, but for whatever reason I just couldn't get high enough to socialize that night, so I went home.

This really worries me at time because it makes me wonder whether I am destined to be alone or if I will finally find my place with a real group of people that I love. I suppose only time will tell, but it is a scary thought.


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Anonymous #16

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #15]
    #19084123 - 11/04/13 03:54 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I puked on a girl a while back at a party. Everyone there was looking at me. I want to punch myself every time I think about it.


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Anonymous #17

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #16]
    #19084613 - 11/04/13 09:12 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

You seem to know shitty people who make shitty parties.

Of course drunk people mostly suck. Especially if they're idiots anyway. So just get your friends better drugs, and fuck them when they're high as a kite. Don't forget the boner pills, the concept doesn't work without it.

Since I've started doing that, I love parties.

The last 4 parties I can remember were 2 threesomes and 1 nice stealthy fuck on the kitchen counter, oh and the other one I overdosed on GHB and blacked out with 3 hours complete breath depression while getting a blowjob.
Had a full boner halfway through the coma.

But it was fun before that happened :laugh:


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Anonymous #1

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #17]
    #19084649 - 11/04/13 09:23 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #17 said:
You seem to know shitty people who make shitty parties.

Of course drunk people mostly suck. Especially if they're idiots anyway. So just get your friends better drugs, and fuck them when they're high as a kite. Don't forget the boner pills, the concept doesn't work without it.

Since I've started doing that, I love parties.

The last 4 parties I can remember were 2 threesomes and 1 nice stealthy fuck on the kitchen counter, oh and the other one I overdosed on GHB and blacked out with 3 hours complete breath depression while getting a blowjob.
Had a full boner halfway through the coma.

But it was fun before that happened :laugh:



luckyduck. I miss 3somes

I feel extremely lucky that i got to have any 3somes at all in my life. But I had them when I was young/sucked at sex. If I had one now it would be off da hook :rockon:


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Anonymous #17

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19084924 - 11/04/13 11:00 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I don't know if, or better, when shit like this will stop happening.
I don't know if it has to end, if sex drug binges and 3-4somes is just some rebellious phase to most people.
I'm afraid it is.
When they decide to grow up, this will be the end for partying to me.
A party without sex is a waste of time and brain cells.

I'm 24 now.


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Anonymous #18

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #17]
    #19101693 - 11/07/13 04:50 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

lol at all these people who don't know how to party


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Anonymous #16

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #18] * 1
    #19102226 - 11/07/13 06:49 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #18 said:
lol at all these people who don't know how to party




I've seen the people that 'know how' to party. I don't think I want to be one of them.


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Anonymous #18

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #16] * 1
    #19102447 - 11/07/13 07:31 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I'm not talking about the ones getting super fucked up.

Knowing how to party is super easy, follow some simple steps:
Know your alcohol/drug limits
Be able to say no, this is where most amateurs go bad
know how to keep a conversation going with one and multiple people
don't be the weirdo who stays on their phone
don't be the weirdo in the corner
don't be the weirdo
talk to chicks or dudes, which ever you desire
learn when to stop
have fun, it's a fucking party after all.

:cheers:


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Anonymous #19

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #18]
    #19103400 - 11/07/13 11:02 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

A lot of my shyness is due to anxiety.  If you just accept the fact you're at some party with a bunch of people you don't know very well just be your fucking self and stop worrying about what to say.  Once you start to not be afraid about what you'll say and just say how you feel people won't think you're a weird ass and you can bond with other humans instead of going home and hating yourself.  I'm not saying be the guy with no filter who just blurts out the first thing that comes to mind, but don't think that your thoughts and your feelings aren't worth sharing.  Unless you have a soft spot in your heart for raping children chances are you're not as weird as you think.  One of the things about finally talking and speaking to people is you figure out that you're not alone and some of these other people around you share common interests, fears, music ect ect.  I know it's hard but once you start talking and stop nit picking your self it will just flow out of you with no effort at all.


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Anonymous #20

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19103929 - 11/08/13 03:18 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I was like that when I was younger.

then I became a raging alcoholic.

now I got liver damage and neuropathy and am a hermit.

:foreveralone:


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Anonymous #21

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #19103946 - 11/08/13 03:30 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

op it sounds like to me your just chilling man if you go to a party and dont talk much but smoke and enjoy the music and crowd your chilling you dont gotta be the center of attention
although it has its perks
i stopped drink at party's i always end up brawling out back with someone


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Anonymous #22

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #13] * 1
    #19103975 - 11/08/13 04:06 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #13 said:
Get baked as shit before you actually get to the party.  Whilst there light up a j and see how many people start slowly congregating.  Now pass it around and talk strains/legal policy concerning mj how people feel about it, etc.  You've managed to meet a few like minded people and get stoned at the same time.
:youthemandawg:




Weed bums aren't friends even though we've all done it.


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Anonymous #23

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19115221 - 11/10/13 02:34 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
this is why you go to parties with friends. you know



lol, the only parties I go to are ones with friends. Even when all the people there are my good friends I have these horribly uncomfortable experiences.

I'm just THAT socially retarded. When I was growing up I was ALWAYS alone. It made me this way.



:hugitout:


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Anonymous #20

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #23]
    #19115675 - 11/10/13 04:03 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Same here. I cant smoke too much pot because it makes me more socially awkward.


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Anonymous #24

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #19131836 - 11/13/13 03:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Same - Not much of a drinker really, I get very annoyed by certain other people when they drink. My GF recently has been a massive liability if I take her drinking.  Starts handing out life advice to everyone whilst complaing how shit her own life is followed by her getting into a fight with me over nothing.

I totally prefer just smoking some weed with friends and chilling out.

Fuck parties full of loud-mouthed twats getting plastered and forcing booze down each others throats in the sorry hope of getting laid.

I'm  done with it, almost at the point of telling the GF she's not allowed to drink so much either. She always ends up in tears with me just sat there bored, confused and frustrated.

Had similar issues with my ex although she was borderline alcoholic with deeper childhood issues.  I could never get drunk enough for me to ignore how drunk she would get and how much of a liability she'd turn into. 

You know somethings up when the GF tries to sneak a bottle of peach scnhapps and a pair of scissors into bed...


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Anonymous #20

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #24]
    #19132999 - 11/13/13 07:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

scissors?


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Anonymous #5

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #24]
    #19133010 - 11/13/13 07:50 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

:rofl2:


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Anonymous #17

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #19134892 - 11/14/13 06:27 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

it's "schnaps" btw with 1 p but anyway, funny how many german words made it into american english


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Anonymous #25

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #17]
    #19134930 - 11/14/13 07:00 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I've been shy since day 1. It's natural. Some animals are simply just more shy and the same goes for humans. I embrace it, but I can still function normally at a party. I do tend to get really drunk sometimes. Alcohol fucks with GABA, which is perfect for shy people. That is why shy people tend to get really hammered because the relief..

If you go to a party, stick with a good friend..


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Anonymous #24

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #19136241 - 11/14/13 01:47 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Yup, she was a cutter...


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Anonymous #20

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #25]
    #19138541 - 11/14/13 09:33 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #25 said:
I've been shy since day 1. It's natural. Some animals are simply just more shy and the same goes for humans. I embrace it, but I can still function normally at a party. I do tend to get really drunk sometimes. Alcohol fucks with GABA, which is perfect for shy people. That is why shy people tend to get really hammered because the relief..

If you go to a party, stick with a good friend..



Most people seem oblivious to the fact that there are plenty of legal, non-alcohol, non-benzo, non-barbituate ways to fuck with GABA.
  • kava kava
  • phenibut
  • L-Glutamine
  • Picamilon


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Anonymous #26

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #19142159 - 11/15/13 06:49 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Any personal experience with these? I've been wondering about good alcohol alternatives that work in the same manner, but without the shittttttyyyyy side effects, hangover etc.

Anyway as for me I'm also one of those people that can't smoke before parties. I love my weed and everything but only around friends or at least small groups of people, i.e. mary jane is strictly for chilling-out situations. I don't even smoke during the day on Saturdays if I know I'll be going out later because I'll end up standing around, focusing too hard on random shit and being unable to stop, and generally every interaction I have feels "forced", I'm pretty good at faking being social when I have to, but when I'm (coming down from being) high I'm so much more aware of it and it feels soooo shitty.

Other than that though parties are cool if I go with a group of friends. Alcohol is pretty much necessary but it's not all bad if they run out while we're there or whatever. Interestingly enough, the times that the party gets shitty and I'm kind of aggravated and say fuck it and light a joint, I feel great and able to socialize with everyone no problem. But only at those times, and never before.


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Anonymous #20

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #26]
    #19142359 - 11/15/13 07:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I relate 100%.

Unfortunately many of the alternatives have some similar side effects ,like hypertension, liver problems, hangovers, etc. not as bad though. No nausea.


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Anonymous #27

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #19319073 - 12/23/13 11:31 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
I was always painfully shy ever since I can remember.  I find small talk so incredibly banal and the rituals we put ourselves through in social situations are hollow and embarrassing once you're hip to a deeper understanding. 

For my whole earlier life, I thought this "shyness" was something that absolutely had to be overcome, like a physical disability of sorts.  So I self-medicated to try to be the life of the party person I thought I was supposed to be.  I won't go into that because the addiction I lived through gave me a whole new set of obstacle to overcome versus just being fucking shy.

My lesson learned: being shy and kinda awkward may just be who you are and no need to feel pressured to change it.  some of us are just introverts.  everyone doesn't need to be an extrovert.  make use of the free time you have to spend it learning and doing new things, hobbies, arts, sciences.  you'll be expanding your mind in real ways versus spending every night/weekend at the latest, meaningless, social event. 

if you think being shy is a disadvantage - it's actually not, you just haven't learned to use it to your advantage yet.  most people who are shy and avoid typical social situations have amazingly good concentration and learning abilities that you can use in whatever way you want....




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Anonymous #28

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #27]
    #19320270 - 12/24/13 09:31 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Sometimes I don't even talk on parties

man shut the fuck up and let me put my head into the speakers, keep your smalltalk bullshit to yourself

d:thumbup::heart::awedance:

It's a party for me, enjoying a composition, like a concert, who said anything about a "social gathering" LOL

If I want to talk i'll invite you in my home and we'll discuss, laugh or debate all you want.


Edited by Anonymous (12/24/13 09:32 AM)


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Anonymous #27

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #28]
    #19353605 - 01/01/14 03:10 AM (10 years, 30 days ago)

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Anonymous #28 said:
Sometimes I don't even talk on parties

man shut the fuck up and let me put my head into the speakers, keep your smalltalk bullshit to yourself

d:thumbup::heart::awedance:

It's a party for me, enjoying a composition, like a concert, who said anything about a "social gathering" LOL

If I want to talk i'll invite you in my home and we'll discuss, laugh or debate all you want.



I like the way you think haha


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Anonymous #29

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #27]
    #19970630 - 05/11/14 03:44 AM (9 years, 8 months ago)

:fuckyouandalsoyou:


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Anonymous #30

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #29]
    #19992510 - 05/15/14 02:07 PM (9 years, 8 months ago)

Weed makes me too scared to go to parties. Paranoid.


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Anonymous #31

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #30]
    #19993223 - 05/15/14 04:37 PM (9 years, 8 months ago)

I would rather have a small kickback with select friends than a full blown party with less than a quarter of people I know. I can be social, I can party I just hate it. I feel very alienated at parties, self inflicted i'm sure but something I can't get past. I'll be social, i'll be  fun but i'll never have fun.


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