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Anonymous #25

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #17]
    #19134930 - 11/14/13 07:00 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I've been shy since day 1. It's natural. Some animals are simply just more shy and the same goes for humans. I embrace it, but I can still function normally at a party. I do tend to get really drunk sometimes. Alcohol fucks with GABA, which is perfect for shy people. That is why shy people tend to get really hammered because the relief..

If you go to a party, stick with a good friend..


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Anonymous #24

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #19136241 - 11/14/13 01:47 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Yup, she was a cutter...


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Anonymous #20

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #25]
    #19138541 - 11/14/13 09:33 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #25 said:
I've been shy since day 1. It's natural. Some animals are simply just more shy and the same goes for humans. I embrace it, but I can still function normally at a party. I do tend to get really drunk sometimes. Alcohol fucks with GABA, which is perfect for shy people. That is why shy people tend to get really hammered because the relief..

If you go to a party, stick with a good friend..



Most people seem oblivious to the fact that there are plenty of legal, non-alcohol, non-benzo, non-barbituate ways to fuck with GABA.
  • kava kava
  • phenibut
  • L-Glutamine
  • Picamilon


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Anonymous #26

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #19142159 - 11/15/13 06:49 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Any personal experience with these? I've been wondering about good alcohol alternatives that work in the same manner, but without the shittttttyyyyy side effects, hangover etc.

Anyway as for me I'm also one of those people that can't smoke before parties. I love my weed and everything but only around friends or at least small groups of people, i.e. mary jane is strictly for chilling-out situations. I don't even smoke during the day on Saturdays if I know I'll be going out later because I'll end up standing around, focusing too hard on random shit and being unable to stop, and generally every interaction I have feels "forced", I'm pretty good at faking being social when I have to, but when I'm (coming down from being) high I'm so much more aware of it and it feels soooo shitty.

Other than that though parties are cool if I go with a group of friends. Alcohol is pretty much necessary but it's not all bad if they run out while we're there or whatever. Interestingly enough, the times that the party gets shitty and I'm kind of aggravated and say fuck it and light a joint, I feel great and able to socialize with everyone no problem. But only at those times, and never before.


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Anonymous #20

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #26]
    #19142359 - 11/15/13 07:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I relate 100%.

Unfortunately many of the alternatives have some similar side effects ,like hypertension, liver problems, hangovers, etc. not as bad though. No nausea.


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Anonymous #27

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #19319073 - 12/23/13 11:31 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous #3 said:
I was always painfully shy ever since I can remember.  I find small talk so incredibly banal and the rituals we put ourselves through in social situations are hollow and embarrassing once you're hip to a deeper understanding. 

For my whole earlier life, I thought this "shyness" was something that absolutely had to be overcome, like a physical disability of sorts.  So I self-medicated to try to be the life of the party person I thought I was supposed to be.  I won't go into that because the addiction I lived through gave me a whole new set of obstacle to overcome versus just being fucking shy.

My lesson learned: being shy and kinda awkward may just be who you are and no need to feel pressured to change it.  some of us are just introverts.  everyone doesn't need to be an extrovert.  make use of the free time you have to spend it learning and doing new things, hobbies, arts, sciences.  you'll be expanding your mind in real ways versus spending every night/weekend at the latest, meaningless, social event. 

if you think being shy is a disadvantage - it's actually not, you just haven't learned to use it to your advantage yet.  most people who are shy and avoid typical social situations have amazingly good concentration and learning abilities that you can use in whatever way you want....




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Anonymous #28

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #27]
    #19320270 - 12/24/13 09:31 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Sometimes I don't even talk on parties

man shut the fuck up and let me put my head into the speakers, keep your smalltalk bullshit to yourself

d:thumbup::heart::awedance:

It's a party for me, enjoying a composition, like a concert, who said anything about a "social gathering" LOL

If I want to talk i'll invite you in my home and we'll discuss, laugh or debate all you want.


Edited by Anonymous (12/24/13 09:32 AM)


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Anonymous #27

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #28]
    #19353605 - 01/01/14 03:10 AM (10 years, 30 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #28 said:
Sometimes I don't even talk on parties

man shut the fuck up and let me put my head into the speakers, keep your smalltalk bullshit to yourself

d:thumbup::heart::awedance:

It's a party for me, enjoying a composition, like a concert, who said anything about a "social gathering" LOL

If I want to talk i'll invite you in my home and we'll discuss, laugh or debate all you want.



I like the way you think haha


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Anonymous #29

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #27]
    #19970630 - 05/11/14 03:44 AM (9 years, 8 months ago)

:fuckyouandalsoyou:


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Anonymous #30

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #29]
    #19992510 - 05/15/14 02:07 PM (9 years, 8 months ago)

Weed makes me too scared to go to parties. Paranoid.


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Anonymous #31

Re: I don't think I can go to parties anymore [Re: Anonymous #30]
    #19993223 - 05/15/14 04:37 PM (9 years, 8 months ago)

I would rather have a small kickback with select friends than a full blown party with less than a quarter of people I know. I can be social, I can party I just hate it. I feel very alienated at parties, self inflicted i'm sure but something I can't get past. I'll be social, i'll be  fun but i'll never have fun.


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