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Re: I'm beginning to think I am going to live the rest of my life completely single and abstinent of sex [Re: vandago] 3
#19058691 - 10/30/13 04:46 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Where you from bro? EST so where? I did a year of high school in Iowa, all those girls were too much into religion for me (small town, so maybe different elsewhere) and that's coming from a PK. I moved to California for 6 months, all the girls were too easy and worried about others opinion although they act like they don't (Valley area, so easy, trashy, ghetto girls). I grew up in Colorado where girls were relaxed but also went to a rich kid school and didn't really connect with those people there, which is why I went to Iowa for a year. Then I came to Arizona...
All I can say is that I seem to have found one of the most lax places in America it feels like. Prescott, AZ. Comparable to a mini Boulder CO, it just feels comforting here, and the women (girls, idk I'm 19) just seem right dude.
I recommend just moving around the country until you find the right spot. Try new things, switch shit up, and get out there.
This is what someone told me about percentages.
There's 7 billion people on the planet. Let's say 3.5 bil are women to make it easy. From there, in America, there is roughly 300 million or so. Think of age range, you have about 50 million women to choose from. Of that, anywhere from 1%-5% could be PERFECT for each other.
That's up to 2.5 million women just waiting to meet you and have you make their smile.
Ok don't get up in the math and all that. It's the idea that your perfect counterpart could be right outside your door on a jog, or shopping at walmart at 2 am, or in the starbucks, or at a play/museum/mountain hike whatever it is. Clean yourself up, get out there and experience life and it will come to you.
And then I remind you I'm 19 and probably lose all credibility.
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Re: I'm beginning to think I am going to live the rest of my life completely single and abstinent of sex [Re: vandago]
#19060856 - 10/30/13 10:39 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Stop wallowing in your own sadness and feeling sorry for yourself that you're single and suffering a dry spell.
Where's that going to get you? One slightly larger arm and a sore penis town.
If you keep thinking this, you'll stay that way for ever.
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Re: I'm beginning to think I am going to live the rest of my life completely single and abstinent of sex [Re: deadwk]
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Re: I'm beginning to think I am going to live the rest of my life completely single and abstinent of sex [Re: vandago]
#19063012 - 10/31/13 11:59 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yea you're right I am probably misunderstanding, sorry about that! Most of the time these threads pop up on the shroomery, or anywhere, it's people self pittying and crying about it.
Well if you're content with being single, I don't think you would have the urge to be with someone! Humans needs physical and emotional contact, whether it be non-sexual or sexual.
If you've been in 6 serious relationships, 2 of them at the same time (how did you do that lol!!) then I think part of the problem could be with the woman you are with, and the way you yourself handle it.
Perhaps you are just introverted rather than extroverted?
If you don't like one night stands, and don't want a fuck buddy, why not try and make non-sexual relationships with woman? Who knows, that could lead you to discovering someone you actually want to be with.
Sounds like you have aspergers, I know someone irl who talks and speaks exactly like you do, and they are extremely aspie. He constantly seeks other people to pitty him, and feel sorry for his terrible plague, and how he has a lack of ability with woman and “can't socialize with them”
If you really are content with your situation, then forget about it! Spend your time doing something more meaningful and that you value.
I lol'd when you said my post was egotisticaly, I wasn't referncing, or praising my self in any way :P
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Re: I'm beginning to think I am going to live the rest of my life completely single and abstinent of sex [Re: deadwk]
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Re: I'm beginning to think I am going to live the rest of my life completely single and abstinent of sex [Re: vandago]
#19065611 - 10/31/13 07:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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get to know your dad
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Re: I'm beginning to think I am going to live the rest of my life completely single and abstinent of sex [Re: JesusIsLord]
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Re: I'm beginning to think I am going to live the rest of my life completely single and abstinent of sex [Re: vandago]
#19067842 - 11/01/13 02:55 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I think I get where you're coming from. I'm pretty content being single most of the time. But there's those times I'm lying in bed alone and I think, "it would be nice to have someone to hug right now". I guess I miss the physical contact thing. I've never been any good at getting one night stands, so I rather not try and stress myself over it anymore.
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