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Bridgeburner
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: AnimaSoulBlue]
#13086238 - 08/22/10 11:56 AM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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AnimaSoulBlue said: yep yep.. how about u show her the forum and she can see how many people hate her for bein such a controlling bitch. maybe shell calm down
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hellbilly81
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: Bridgeburner]
#13086309 - 08/22/10 12:20 PM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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i would show her the door do the dmt and whatever else you wanna do and enjoy myself life is to short to listen to a bitchy controlling gf i have been there done that and never again
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THE KRAT BARON
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A Day InThe Life said: So my girlfriend isn't Really all anti-drug but she kinda is. She'll smoke weed, drink and even do MDMA. She's cool about mushrooms (she knows I grow em and wants to try them, sometimes she acts like shes cool with them, although sometimes not). Anyways she found out I want to extract my own DMT, and all of a sudden she's freaking out about it and told me that if I do DMT she'll leave me...
I asked her why and all she says is "just because" and doesn't give me an answer other than "its bad". She doesn't even know anything about it. I tried explaining it to her and reasoning with her but she remains completely ignorant to anything I say about the subject and I don't know what to do 
It sounds to me like she's seeking a way out of the relationship for reasons other than DMT.
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
#13086453 - 08/22/10 01:08 PM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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Made a series of mistakes. 1.) Brought your girlfriend into your hobbies. 2.) Brought your girlfriend into your hobbies. 3.) Brought your girlfriend into your hobbies.
I would have a serious talk about it, and show her FACTS about DMT and there pros/cons. She sounds like she would change her views, she just doesn't know.
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TrancedShroom
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: Shroomism]
#13086468 - 08/22/10 01:11 PM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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Shroomism said: Choosing it over her? WTF. That's typical BS controlling behavior. Any chick that wants to give you an ultimatum to control your harmless behavior is not worth it. It's YOUR life. You wanting to do DMT hurts no one. It's about you choosing it over her? NO... it's about her wanting to control you, out of complete ignorance. I could never be with a chick that didn't accept me for who I was. And tried to control me and make threats of leaving me over something like that. A relationship is supposed to be about give and take, see the other person's point of view, make compromises sometimes. Even if you don't UNDERSTAND their point of view, at least you can see it and respect it. but her threatening to leave you over that, without even considering your point of view or listening to you, is total BS. She obviously doesn't want to become educated on the subject. She just wants to remain ignorant and blindly make stupid claims like DMT is "bad", without any knowledge whatsoever on it.
If a bitch didn't want to accept me for who I was and made similar threats to try and control me, I would show her the door. Because that's not going to work in the long term... it may quell down for a little while, but it probably wont be the end of it. That nastiness will rear its ugly head again, if not this over something else. And if you have to HIDE your actions from your loved one, then it's not worth it either. If someone really loves you, they will listen to what you have to say and consider it. And they won't make threats over leaving you for wanting to explore YOUR OWN consciousness.
I once had a girlfriend who made a similar ultimatum. Once is the key word... cause she's ancient history now. Now I have a much better girlfriend who respects me for who I am and doesn't try and force change. If she has a problem with something I'm doing, she tells me straight out.. but doesn't threaten to leave. She understands that my body is MY body, and she can't tell me what I can and cannot put it in. If I want to shoot crack into my eyeballs, that's my goddamn choice. But I'm not shooting crack into my eyeballs, because I'm educated about every drug I do, and don't do drugs that are seriously harmful. Including alcohol. If she thinks I'm hurting myself or someone else by my actions, she's gonna say something and seriously get to me try and reconsider. But she wouldn't ever give me an ultimatum, because she knows how well I deal with those. And she's certainly not going to argue with me about drugs she knows absolutely NOTHING about, she's going to try and get me to educate her so she can make an informed decision on whether SHE wants to do it or not. Whether I want to do it or not is not her fucking decision .
This is true actually. Just be careful that she doesn't call the cops because once she realizes that she holds no weight over you she may do something a complete cunt would do in those situations.
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: GrassRackets]
#13087473 - 08/22/10 06:11 PM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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Okay so my girlfriend knows my user name on the Shroomery and she read this thread the other day. I don't feel like she's lieing about being cool with it anymore. She's changed her mind now and actually seems open minded to the idea of exploring psychedelics and wants to try them with me
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akira_akuma
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Dosile Kouki
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: akira_akuma]
#13089428 - 08/23/10 07:14 AM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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BoneMan
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: usefulidiot13]
#13089461 - 08/23/10 07:32 AM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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usefulidiot13 said: sounds like my girl friend a little bit.
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usefulidiot13 said: i havent really done any drugs since i have been with her..
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usefulidiot13 said: i could understand if it was heroin or crack or something but mushrooms and dmt and weed and lsd?... no way im giving those up bc a girl wants to be jealous and irrational.
but didn't you just say..
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usefulidiot13 said: i havent really done any drugs since i have been with her..
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: BoneMan]
#13089464 - 08/23/10 07:34 AM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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lols
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luvdemboomers
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: ninja cat 09] 1
#19045898 - 10/28/13 12:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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ninja cat 09 said: DSHSB and Dump her.
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: luvdemboomers]
#19045947 - 10/28/13 12:42 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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luvdemboomers said:
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ninja cat 09 said: DSHSB and Dump her.
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you bumped a 3 year old thread for that
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: mellowparty]
#19045950 - 10/28/13 12:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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mellowparty said:
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luvdemboomers said:
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ninja cat 09 said: DSHSB and Dump her.
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you bumped a 3 year old thread for that 
yeah I just realized that
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: luvdemboomers]
#19045955 - 10/28/13 12:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: mr sniffles]
#19045963 - 10/28/13 12:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Either way DMT sucks
I don't want to see DMT ever again
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Epigallo
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So did she every try DMT?
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Re: Girlfriend giving ultimatum over dmt [Re: Epigallo]
#19051759 - 10/29/13 12:22 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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wow, cant believe this random ass thread got bumped after so long. Umm I don't remember if she ever tried DMT, she had done acid with me though afterwards (I think she was a little scared of DMT).. Were no longer together 
EDIT: Mellow, I gotta disagree with you on that one.. DMT is an amazing thing, I can say its the only substance that straight up kicked my ass and taught me a very valuable lesson almost immediately and in such a unique way too.. It blows my mind how it can be so beautiful yet so harsh and wise at the same time..
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i did dmt with my girlfriend and she said it had no effect for her. it catapulted me into the 5th dimension after 1 toke. she took about 10
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MystiqueMushroom

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A Day InThe Life said: So my girlfriend isn't Really all anti-drug but she kinda is. She'll smoke weed, drink and even do MDMA. She's cool about mushrooms (she knows I grow em and wants to try them, sometimes she acts like shes cool with them, although sometimes not). Anyways she found out I want to extract my own DMT, and all of a sudden she's freaking out about it and told me that if I do DMT she'll leave me...
I asked her why and all she says is "just because" and doesn't give me an answer other than "its bad". She doesn't even know anything about it. I tried explaining it to her and reasoning with her but she remains completely ignorant to anything I say about the subject and I don't know what to do 
People fear what they do not understand, obviously your trying to experience/learn about this reality at a much faster rate than her, my ex was like that, we arent together anymore and I have grown leaps and bounds since
BREAK IT OFF BRO
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MystiqueMushroom

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Oops didnt read thread, gj OP for breaking it off
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