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Anonymous #1
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Lied about heroin
#19042865 - 10/27/13 09:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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My girl was in my bedroom when I didn't think she'd end up in there. She went over to check out this cool plant I have and see's my big glob of black tar on a mirror.
She inspects it closely, and the cocaine thats near it on the mirror.(while I'm internally going oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck) she doesn't care about coke though
After she plays with it since its all goopy she finally asks "is that hash oil?" And I just lied to her face like an asshole and said yes.
I did this because it's a new relationship an I'm scared to tell her that I have a problem with H. I'm embarrassed of my problem. However I really really like being with her.
I know the only solution is to tell the truth. I'm just venting and looking for advice I guess
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Anonymous #2
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Get it out there quick buddy. The longer you wait the worse it will most likely be. Get some rehab in if you have a problem and if she is worth it she'll stick around to help you out. Hope it all works out.
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Anonymous #3
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Tell her the truth don't be a secret keeping douchebag
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #3 said: Tell her the truth don't be a secret keeping douchebag
Thanks, honestly.
I want to. She can be my heroine
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Anonymous #4
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Yah man dont hide it get it out in the open.
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Anonymous #5
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If you actually have a problem with it, she's going to find out sooner or later anyways.
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Anonymous #3
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Secrets destroy
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Anonymous #6
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Seriously you NEED to tell her ASAP. I started to lie to my now wife when I was use Ketamine and Methoxetamine everyday. With MXE I use to try get in a hole between the time when I got home to when she got home. When I was still fucked I would just say I got really stoned (even though I was struggling to put words together).
It took a long time to get the trust back as while I was only lying about drugs I think it gives them other doubts like "well he lies about that, what about cheating". I would never as when I out without her Im usually too busy getting mashed to even think about other women but once you start lying about one thing, it destroys the trust.
We are fine now but I have told her about some it, not yet about the 100g+ of MXE I had to flush to stop taking it (never touched it since and never would, man that stuff fucked me up!)
Edited by Anonymous (10/28/13 04:29 AM)
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Anonymous #7
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Tell her immediately, keeping a secret like this is not fair on her in the slightest. She deserves to know if she's getting into a relationship with a heroin addict and if she feels the same way about you as you do her, she'll be there for you to support you while you quit. If you really care about her at all, do something about it. Decide to stop using and tell her the truth. She'll be disappointed that you lied, but glad that you're doing something about it.
The longer you keep the truth from her, and the longer you go without dealing with your habit, the worse it will be when you tell her, or when she finds out. God forbid, she decides to try some of your "hash oil" and gets a taste for it herself.
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Anonymous #8
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I'd try and quit.
Unless of course, "Hey baby, I do heroin" is a pickup line that's worked for you in the past.
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Anonymous #1
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Quote:
Anonymous #7 said: Tell her immediately, keeping a secret like this is not fair on her in the slightest. She deserves to know if she's getting into a relationship with a heroin addict and if she feels the same way about you as you do her, she'll be there for you to support you while you quit. If you really care about her at all, do something about it. Decide to stop using and tell her the truth. She'll be disappointed that you lied, but glad that you're doing something about it.
The longer you keep the truth from her, and the longer you go without dealing with your habit, the worse it will be when you tell her, or when she finds out. God forbid, she decides to try some of your "hash oil" and gets a taste for it herself.
I would really like to quit for her. It's too lame to be like "oh i can't hang out today. Withdrawals."
Is there any "good way" to tell her this?
I just hope I can do it. Last time I got into my first week of being clean I got super depressed.
Was totally over the worst of the physical symptoms. But just felt I needed it to be happy.
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Anonymous #9
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She is going to think it is hash oil and smoke it all and OD.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #9 said: She is going to think it is hash oil and smoke it all and OD.

ha, I wonder if she even believed me that it was hash.
Luckily she's never alone in my house so she'd have no time to just decide to smoke it
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Anonymous #9
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I learned that one from pulp fiction.
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Anonymous #10
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Just tell her. You'll save everyone a lot of pain
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Anonymous #11
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I was shooting heroin and lying about it to my girl. Multiple times I relapsed and tried to hide it but it never worked. It always just caused a rift between us and more distrust.
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Anonymous #12
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A woman that isn't worth lying to is a woman you don't deserve to have.
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Anonymous #2
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Anonymous #12 said: A woman that isn't worth lying to is a woman you don't deserve to have.
Oh snap, I love this.
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Anonymous #13
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Anonymous #12 said: A woman that isn't worth lying to is a woman you don't deserve to have.
You sound like someone who doesn't get laid often
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Anonymous #14
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Anonymous #13 said:
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Anonymous #12 said: A woman that isn't worth lying to is a woman you don't deserve to have.
You sound like someone who doesn't get laid often
And you sound like a neck beard basement-dwelling beta male. Perhaps untrustworthy homosexual.
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