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OgreLokon
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19042445 - 10/27/13 08:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well, if you can't keep intimate feelings out of it, then I'd say to stop wasting your time. Besides, don't you think it's possible that she stops talking to you so she CAN go out and be a "ho", without having it in your face?
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19042497 - 10/27/13 08:11 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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No.
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19042728 - 10/27/13 08:55 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Either stop talking to her or start banging her, which I'm assuming is what you want and thus why you are feeling jealous.
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: Sleepwalker]
#19042767 - 10/27/13 09:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I had a similar situation with a girl for 7 years. Chances are good that it will not end well for you OP.
I'd cut her loose and look elsewhere
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: Mr.PhilCybin]
#19043338 - 10/27/13 11:20 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Get out now. Had something similar as well and getting out was painful and made me feel like a selfish terrible person but it was better in the end
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: bloodsheen]
#19043781 - 10/28/13 01:06 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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But hold on are you banging this chick as a fbuddy or not?
Cause if you aren't, then you should. You wanting to bang her and not having done so yet, is probably the main reason for the jealousy. You wouldn't get jealous unless you actually like her as more than a friend. Ergo, bang her brains out. Maybe you'll hook up long term or not, but the fucking needs to happen so that you're chill about her.
I've had a few female friends. The ones I didn't sleep with were the ones I wasn't attracted to sexually. Didn't care who they fucked, couldn't care less as long as they were safe and entertained.
The ones I slept with and still remained friends after, I also didn't care that much who they banged, we could still shoot the shit just fine.
The ones that I did care who they banged, those weren't friends. If you like someone in that way and shit doesn't happen in a reasonable amount of time (aka you get friendzoned), then common sense and/or PUA theory should tell you to bail and move on, as there's no happiness to be found there. Unfulfilled sexual tension would always be looming around, who needs that crap.
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: Spacerific]
#19046044 - 10/28/13 01:08 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Thanks for the advice. I think I'm just gonna move on
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: Mr205man]
#19046055 - 10/28/13 01:10 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Mr205man said: Thanks for the advice. I think I'm just gonna move on
Gotta hit it before you quit it.
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: Mr205man]
#19046692 - 10/28/13 03:38 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mr205man said: Thanks for the advice. I think I'm just gonna move on
Rock on brother, plenty of fish in the sea for both friendship and other types of relationships.
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For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it. - Matthew 13:16
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: Mr205man]
#19048039 - 10/28/13 07:06 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mr205man said: Thanks for the advice. I think I'm just gonna move on
Doing this with my ex right now. Tried to be friends with her but she just wouldn't stop expecting the same relationship minus the sex.
Some people just aren't worth your time.
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: APE]
#19048271 - 10/28/13 07:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Rip the bandaid off now and drop her. It's already turned unhealthy, and It'll hurt a lot less in the future if you take care of it sooner than later. The energy you have been putting into her can be focused on a different girl that could turn out to be the love of your life. Besides, if you already have the impression that she is a ho, you will never be able to fully trust her, hence not worth the emotional energy.
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Re: Should I keep being friends with her? [Re: Supernova77723]
#19048490 - 10/28/13 08:07 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've heard once in a nice instructional video that basically when 2 people start having sex affects the power balance of the whole relationship, long term.
The sooner sex starts, the more power on the man's side. The more delaying, hand holding, kisses on the cheek and chocolates and all that shit, the more power on the female side. They've also studied all manner of relationships and found that people are happiest when you have the power balance slightly on the man's side. Once you give the woman 51% of the power in a couple, it's the beginning of the end. There can't be any respect, trust or feeling of safety with a pussy-whipped man.
So knowing this, regardless of the reason, if things don't work out well in a reasonable amount of time for me, if I try to get together with a girl and it takes way too long, I for one cut things off on general principle. I know that even if I could make it work later, it won't be a stable chill relationship where I can relax the way I want to.
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For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it. - Matthew 13:16
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