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Poor Boy
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god damn it!!! not sure what to do
#19039694 - 10/27/13 08:34 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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i make this as short as possible.
last year my bro in law was shot 10 times and was in the hospital for a few weeks. this all happened due to some crazy bitch.
one of his sisters decided to take him in and help him out. while staying there he started talking to this chick again. the sister said he is not aloud to stay there if he starts talking to her. he leaves.
he moves into his dads house.
about a month later the dad cant pay the bills and they lose power.
he also has 2 kids, kinda... one is his and the other isnt. he does not have them all the time.
he started staying here off and on cause its starting to get cold. i started getting a bit pissy cause as of now im playing catch up. im pretty much negative. we are making the food stretch as long as possible and watching our power. with him and his kids here the food goes much quicker and the lights and tvs and shit are always on.
before he was shot him, both kids, and that crazy bitch stayed with us for a good 6 months. they were hell to live with. the last month they stayed with us they showed no respect cause they knew they were moving out.
they talked shit about my chick and i to the family which no one believed.
now, my chick is mad cause i said he can no longer stay here cause i just cant afford it, but to be honest. i feel like shit. he has no where else to go. thing is, they have 12 brothers and sisters. if he actually tried, he could find somewhere to go. thing is, my chick, his sister, is the only one that smokes. anywhere else he wont be able to smoke as freely.
i know what is right financially, but morally... i dunno.
oh, he cannot work cause of the scars and shit on his arms. it will be awhile before he can build muscle again.
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fee
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: Poor Boy]
#19039733 - 10/27/13 08:48 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hey will you relocate up here to San Francisco? I've had cancer twice along with ten major operations amongst a Shit ton (that's two metric butt loads) of other medical shit totaling as of now just over 3.84 million (no joke serious talk).
You can come rent a bad ass place here and ill live in your living room, but please be courteous and don't stare into my cock or single nut as I fuck as many random chics all over the brand new furniture you just bought to furnish the place.
Don't worry ill start looking for a job as soon as my 52 body parts regenerate. And while your out can you pick up some milk eggs and smoked salmon. Don't worry bro I got you as soon as I'm healed.
What?hey... Shhhhh they are revealing the killer, why haven't you left yet?
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blankk said to fee: btw you're a total fucking psychedelic pimp Turtletotem said: I want to become a sun worshipper, so next time an atheist smugly asks me where god is, I can point smugly at the sun and laugh my ass off. Then I drive away in my solar powered piece of shit car, cool stuff man. And then I go kill a bitch because the flaming orb in the sky told me to do so, and I don't know, oppress a few minorities here and there in the name of nuclear fusion? Religion is fun.
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Poor Boy
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: fee]
#19039750 - 10/27/13 08:55 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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im cool with everything, but not being able to stare into your cock. I MAKE NO PROMISES!
thats pretty much how it is though.
if i wasnt struggling, there really wouldnt be an issue. id drop some rules and let him know im not fucking around.
my chick understands too, but shes still upset that we cant help him. if he could maybe come up with a way to bring some cash in, then maybe, but all he can do is sell bud. which means id have these skeezy fuck offs bangin on my door. i am in no mood to come home to a house full of smoke and a bunch of idiot pot heads.
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fee
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: Poor Boy]
#19039846 - 10/27/13 09:21 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I hear you man.
Lay down the law. Tell him straight up that your the bread winner in the house and because if this you have rules he needs to follow.
If he can't get a legal job then his illegal one will still have to operate the same. And since your not a businessowner and its your place then hos job by ddefault must operate outside of the property you reside on.
And whatever other things you want to throw in their.
Then explain that once he is the bread winner in the house the roles may reverse and in fact you will have to live under his rules.
Just don't tell him about the fine print that declares since you and your girl live there that you get 2/3rds vote and he loses any argument ever.
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blankk said to fee: btw you're a total fucking psychedelic pimp Turtletotem said: I want to become a sun worshipper, so next time an atheist smugly asks me where god is, I can point smugly at the sun and laugh my ass off. Then I drive away in my solar powered piece of shit car, cool stuff man. And then I go kill a bitch because the flaming orb in the sky told me to do so, and I don't know, oppress a few minorities here and there in the name of nuclear fusion? Religion is fun.
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Prisoner#1
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: Poor Boy]
#19039869 - 10/27/13 09:25 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Poor Boy said: oh, he cannot work cause of the scars and shit on his arms. it will be awhile before he can build muscle again.
then he needs to be on disability so he can contribute, he's not your kid, you have no obligation to raise him. maybe if he's a broke ass bitch he should set his priorities in order such as not trying t get high s he can afford to contribute the cash he's spending on drugs
I work with a guy that was robbed and stabbed, he missed 3 days of work
sounds like this guy is just a pussy
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Poor Boy
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19039906 - 10/27/13 09:35 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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to be fair, he was shot 10 times with hollow points and the guy was only a few feet away.
he is waiting on a check from the state. i guess they put money aside for victims of violent crimes.
once my chick stops acting like a fucking 16 year old on her period, ill sit her down and discuss some options.
i mean, he is family...
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fee
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19039932 - 10/27/13 09:40 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said:
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Poor Boy said: oh, he cannot work cause of the scars and shit on his arms. it will be awhile before he can build muscle again.
then he needs to be on disability so he can contribute, he's not your kid, you have no obligation to raise him. maybe if he's a broke ass bitch he should set his priorities in order such as not trying t get high s he can afford to contribute the cash he's spending on drugs
I work with a guy that was robbed and stabbed, he missed 3 days of work
sounds like this guy is just a pussy
You ok pris, your missing some vowels up in that bitch.
O I know what happened, you are slowly easing into the coaster posting style.
Slowly and easy you'll work in certain key coaster style posting signatures and then before you know it you'll be full blown moron and no one will notice because you where just that smooth with the transition.
Either that or your coffee isn't brewed yet.
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blankk said to fee: btw you're a total fucking psychedelic pimp Turtletotem said: I want to become a sun worshipper, so next time an atheist smugly asks me where god is, I can point smugly at the sun and laugh my ass off. Then I drive away in my solar powered piece of shit car, cool stuff man. And then I go kill a bitch because the flaming orb in the sky told me to do so, and I don't know, oppress a few minorities here and there in the name of nuclear fusion? Religion is fun.
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19039941 - 10/27/13 09:41 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah if smoking freely is an issue for him but contributing to his semi long term host's financial problems (which are in part induced by him) is not than there is no moral issue for you. When your other option is living on the street to recover from injury, getting high and other luxurious living experiences should not be priority. It sounds like he really has a lot of options, he is just picky.
In fact the moral issue lies with him and not you. In truth you're doing him no favors by housing him. It gets tough because it is your gal's family but you need to approach this logically for your (and hers) well being.
as pris said he is not your kid, it sounds like you've done more than enough for him at this time and he needs to move on and progess
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Poor Boy
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: fee]
#19039944 - 10/27/13 09:41 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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@ full blown moron.
that kid was a trip. is thats whats wrong with our young society? all the teachers are K'ed out...
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Poor Boy
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: muirileD]
#19039950 - 10/27/13 09:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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muirileD said: Yeah if smoking freely is an issue for him but contributing to his semi long term host's financial problems (which are in part induced by him) is not than there is no moral issue for you. When your other option is living on the street to recover from injury, getting high and other luxurious living experiences should not be priority. It sounds like he really has a lot of options, he is just picky.
In fact the moral issue lies with him and not you. In truth you're doing him no favors by housing him. It gets tough because it is your gal's family but you need to approach this logically for your (and hers) well being.
as pris said he is not your kid, it sounds like you've done more than enough for him at this time and he needs to move on and progess
i agree.
i think i should still sit down and try to work something out. if i dont see an option that doesnt hurt me financially, then ill do what i have to do.
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Poor Boy
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: Poor Boy]
#19040422 - 10/27/13 11:53 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So I came up with some rules...
Everything off by 12am. I don't care how awake or bored you are.
No sleeping in till the afternoon.
Don't eat my food like its yours.
Control your damn kids while their here.
That cracy bitch cannot be any where near my place.
He's also going to collect food stamps and look into disability.
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fee
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: Poor Boy]
#19040574 - 10/27/13 12:27 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Solid plan but you need to be super stern and don't give any leeway or he will thrive on it.
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blankk said to fee: btw you're a total fucking psychedelic pimp Turtletotem said: I want to become a sun worshipper, so next time an atheist smugly asks me where god is, I can point smugly at the sun and laugh my ass off. Then I drive away in my solar powered piece of shit car, cool stuff man. And then I go kill a bitch because the flaming orb in the sky told me to do so, and I don't know, oppress a few minorities here and there in the name of nuclear fusion? Religion is fun.
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: Poor Boy]
#19040586 - 10/27/13 12:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Poor Boy said: So I came up with some rules...
Everything off by 12am. I don't care how awake or bored you are.
No sleeping in till the afternoon.
Don't eat my food like its yours.
Control your damn kids while their here.
That cracy bitch cannot be any where near my place.
He's also going to collect food stamps and look into disability.
WHAT NO WEEKEND PRIVILEGES???!!!
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Re: god damn it!!! not sure what to do [Re: DpRwav]
#19040639 - 10/27/13 12:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Pretty lenient, I'd make it 10pm, wake up before 10am, and get your shit together.
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Poor Boy
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this is the way i look at it...
the only shit that will fluctuate while hes here is the food and electricity. my chick and i are usually asleep around 11-12pm on the weekdays. theres no need for all the shit to be on after that.
as far as the food. we shop for 2. now, there will be 5 off and on. food will go quicker. the food stamps will help him and myself in the long run.
my rent wont raise cause hes here. my internet bill wont increase. same as the phone and my other bills.
i think what im offering is fair. even with the not sleeping in until noon. im not a complete control freak ass hole. he doesnt have to wake up when i do. he sure as hell aint gonna still be asleep when i get home though.
i also know hes getting a FAT check for being a victim of violence. not sure when hes getting that, but i will make it known that i would like to be compensated.
if he has a problem with any of this i really wont care. i mean, whats he gonna do? not move in... 
oh noes....
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