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Thoughts?
*PUA: pick-up artist
Edited by eira (10/25/13 02:28 PM)
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Re: Female PUA [Re: eira]
#19017647 - 10/23/13 05:07 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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All women who can wear clothes?
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Re: Female PUA [Re: Heffy]
#19019423 - 10/23/13 01:38 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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What a stupid answer^^^
They need teeth too.
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Re: Female PUA [Re: Atrium]
#19019738 - 10/23/13 02:45 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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WTF is a PUA?
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Re: Female PUA [Re: mpd]
#19019942 - 10/23/13 03:27 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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mpd said: WTF is a PUA?
I am wondering the same thing.
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"Pick-up artist"
Let's see, for women - don't be a creep, approach guys until one of them wants to bang you.
Wait a minute...it's the same thing for men.
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Approach guys? I don't think I've EVER seen a girl approach a guy.
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Re: Female PUA [Re: Heffy]
#19021988 - 10/23/13 09:11 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Heffy said: Approach guys? I don't think I've EVER seen a girl approach a guy.
I've gotten approached quite a few times.
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For anyone curious...I was talking with somebody who mentioned Arden Leigh; I remember hearing about her a few years ago: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2440031/Arden-Leigh-teaches-female-pick-artist.html
She's got a heavy dose of ovaries, I will say. I don't know if I'd ever go to a bar and pick up a guy by myself 
I was most curious if anyone knows any women who follow a similar pick-up artist mentality. I don't know anyone personally but I think it would be awesome to hang out with them and watch what happens.
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Re: Female PUA [Re: eira] 1
#19031531 - 10/25/13 03:00 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dude a reasonably attractive girl could use the pickup line "I have aids, wanna bang?" and still find a guy to go home with her.
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Re: Female PUA [Re: eira]
#19031561 - 10/25/13 03:08 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Are you female and considering pua? You should read the comments on there. They are comparable to what we just said here. Really, all a woman has to do is look moderately attractive and approach a guy stating her reasons. Most if not all single guys will give her a chance whereas, switching roles, we are required to jump through hoops to get a woman's attention. This is why pua was made. Women put up many more barriers for their mates whereas men mostly care about how she looks and if she can keep up half a conversation.
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Re: Female PUA [Re: Atrium]
#19031668 - 10/25/13 03:27 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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To be perfectly honest I think picking someone up is about the same for both sexes. People take one look at you and decide if they're into you or not, talk for a few minutes and you either click or not. Its not really something you can change by saying a couple magic words.
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Re: Female PUA [Re: Atrium]
#19035186 - 10/26/13 11:21 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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It's the "approach" that I'm curious about. I've been told my approach is always extremely friendly (and therefore confusing). I have no idea how to show I'm attracted to someone, specifically if that someone is equally as shy/friendly as I am.
Guess there's always the "I like you, do you like me?" thing, but where's the fun in that?
(No, seriously. Where is the fun in that?)
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Re: Female PUA [Re: eira]
#19035443 - 10/26/13 12:21 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just hop on their lap and put your arm around them. Maybe give them a little kiss.
Seriously, as a female you should have 0 problems getting laid, and you don't need any skills or looks or anything but a vagina that you're willing to share.
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Re: Female PUA [Re: eira]
#19036024 - 10/26/13 02:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Right then, well talking and smiles go a long way. I suppose if this guy isn't a total shit stain, he should respond pretty greatly to you approaching by saying hi with a large smile and a brush on his arm.
Sadly, I have only ever had groups of younger girls publicly show attraction in me. It's never a single girl coming up to talk. This makes me feel weird having 14-16 year olds hitting on me.
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Re: Female PUA [Re: eira]
#19036563 - 10/26/13 04:57 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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eira said: Guess there's always the "I like you, do you like me?" thing, but where's the fun in that?
(No, seriously. Where is the fun in that?)
Nah, that's lame. You have to suggest spending time alone together. People are always saying "Oh, I don't want to ask them out, I don't do the dating thing" but It's not about 'dating', its about getting into situations where you can be intimate with someone. You don't have to say "I like you, do you like me?" You snuggle up on the couch and they either snuggle up too or they scootch away.
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Re: Female PUA [Re: Lynnch]
#19036975 - 10/26/13 06:28 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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36fuckin5 said: Just hop on their lap and put your arm around them. Maybe give them a little kiss.
Seriously, as a female you should have 0 problems getting laid, and you don't need any skills or looks or anything but a vagina that you're willing to share.
Haha but that's so lame. It's not about getting laid--it is extremely easy to do that. I'm looking for interactions that are invigorating, challenging, something requiring a lot of complex things at once.
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Jamesdnh said: It's never a single girl coming up to talk.
Yeah, I have no idea why we do this in groups. I always feel really awkward when I'm part of a group hit on a boy.
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Lynnch said: You have to suggest spending time alone together. People are always saying "Oh, I don't want to ask them out, I don't do the dating thing" but It's not about 'dating', its about getting into situations where you can be intimate with someone.
That's a good point--about the situations thing. I'm pretty outgoing, so I always suggest a social activity. Which in hindsight, is probably not the most intimate thing to do (although extremely fun).
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Re: Female PUA [Re: eira]
#19037009 - 10/26/13 06:34 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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eira said:
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36fuckin5 said: Just hop on their lap and put your arm around them. Maybe give them a little kiss.
Seriously, as a female you should have 0 problems getting laid, and you don't need any skills or looks or anything but a vagina that you're willing to share.
Haha but that's so lame. It's not about getting laid--it is extremely easy to do that. I'm looking for interactions that are invigorating, challenging, something requiring a lot of complex things at once.
Well it looks like what you want is a relationship. PUA tactics won't work for this.
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36fuckin5 said: Just hop on their lap and put your arm around them. Maybe give them a little kiss.
Seriously, as a female you should have 0 problems getting laid, and you don't need any skills or looks or anything but a vagina that you're willing to share.
Haha but that's so lame. It's not about getting laid--it is extremely easy to do that. I'm looking for interactions that are invigorating, challenging, something requiring a lot of complex things at once.
Well it looks like what you want is a relationship. PUA tactics won't work for this.
You're misinformed mate, plenty of PUA material deals with long term relationships. David DeAngelo and Savoy are two that come to mind. THey both delve into how to build relationships that have a good foundation for potential long term development, as opposed to picking up brainless slutty bimbos for a few evenings. Not that that's a bad thing, but you do have the choice on that short term - long term spectrum, to use as you please. Since OP wants more brain and long term stuff, studying PUA material will actually be good for her.
At the very least she'll be better at detecting PUA's and see who's put in some work to learn the body language, social dynamics etc. She'll know what's done to her or her gf's and be more aware, decreasing the chance of being played in ways she doesn't want. All pretty interesting topics for conversation.
Furthermore, women make great wingmen, but can't hurt to expand. If she finds a buddy / cousin / whatever and she wants to help out, it's good to know some PUA theory as well, not just teh default female skills alone.
I for one am thankful that most women don't think of ever googling any of this. I have found stuff that works well, some of it is retardedly simple, and it works best if it remains under the radar. It's not good to explicitly tell the frogs that water has just started slowly increasing in temperature, and where specifically to look for the thermometer
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Thanks for the name drops (DeAngelo and Savoy). I'll look them up the next time I feel like reading about this stuff.
I found a close friend who is down to be my wingman (and vice versa). So at the very least this should be an interesting experience.
I feel like most humans already know this kind of stuff. All you have to do is observe people. I guess the hard part is finding the confidence to showcase it.
Who says the frogs aren't enjoying the challenge?
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