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cloudboy
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Older girl asked me out
#19001096 - 10/19/13 07:26 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well I'm in college and last week a girl asked me out at school. I've never had a girl ask me out so up front like that before, it was pretty cool and felt really good. She is 26 (grad student). We are going to dinner on the weekend. How do I play this? I've never been with an older woman before, only 20-22 year olds. Are girls in their later 20's usually different in their expectations? Please let me know any helpful tips. Thanks.
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Edited by cloudboy (10/19/13 07:32 PM)
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: cloudboy]
#19001129 - 10/19/13 07:34 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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good for you bro!
I have no advice unfortunately, but I'm currently dating a girl who's a couple years older than me too!
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: cloudboy]
#19001173 - 10/19/13 07:43 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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cloudboy said: Well I'm in college and last week a girl asked me out at school. I've never had a girl ask me out so up front like that before, it was pretty cool and felt really good. She is 26 (grad student). We are going to dinner on the weekend. How do I play this? I've never been with an older woman before, only 20-22 year olds. Are girls in their later 20's usually different in their expectations? Please let me know any helpful tips. Thanks.
Dude congrats! Grad student is awesome. She's probably smart. Just be yourself and don't think about it too much. Btw, she might want you to pay for her dinner.  If you do pay then you'll probably get laid or get a rimjob.

But ya, just have fun doood!
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cloudboy
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Thanks. Yeah it felt really great. Without saying too much, I was helping her with a problem, and she sort of just asked me out. I was really taken aback but tried hard not to show it, I just smiled and said sure.
Ok sure I will pay for her.
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: cloudboy]
#19001209 - 10/19/13 07:50 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mid to late 20s in when chicks start getting really horny. Get ready to bang. Don't be surprised if she wants to start "taking control"
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cloudboy
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Anonymous said: Mid to late 20s in when chicks start getting really horny. Get ready to bang. Don't be surprised if she wants to start "taking control" 
Nice
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Older girls, in my experience, freaks in the sheets
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: unknown1123]
#19001575 - 10/19/13 09:13 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Did someone mention older women?
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: cloudboy]
#19002546 - 10/20/13 02:44 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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cloudboy said: Please let me know any helpful tips. Thanks.
Yeah, don't fuss. She asked you out so she liked something about you; just do whatever it is you're doing and have a good time.
Btw, there's a real chance she's just going to use you for sex and that she doesn't intend to actually date you (like in a long-term, monogamous fashion). Too early to tell if that's the case, but take into account that it's a possibility.
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: cloudboy]
#19002883 - 10/20/13 07:21 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Please let me know any helpful tips.
Relax. Be upfront and let her know you're a little flummoxed. Don't try to be more sophisticated then you actually are or she'll know you're a dork. Just likely she wants some fun and good sex, so enjoy. Some older women can teach you some useful things.
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: Icelander]
#19003283 - 10/20/13 10:27 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Thanks for the tips. I will take them into account.
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Anonymous said: Mid to late 20s in when chicks start getting really horny. Get ready to bang. Don't be surprised if she wants to start "taking control" 
I can attest to the first part being true. 
As for the second part, maybe, but maybe she'll want you to take control too. You never know!
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: Ballerium]
#19015868 - 10/22/13 08:11 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ballerium said:
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Anonymous said: Mid to late 20s in when chicks start getting really horny. Get ready to bang. Don't be surprised if she wants to start "taking control" 
I can attest to the first part being true. 
I will solidly +1 this.
Seriously, where did all these hormones come from!? Just entered my mid-20's and I have no idea what to do with them. Reminds me of what a seventeen year old guy might feel like.
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: eira]
#19020750 - 10/23/13 06:03 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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This happened to me recently, except I'm 21 and she is 24. She asked me out and she wanted the D so bad.
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: mpd]
#19029459 - 10/25/13 02:58 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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mpd said: Did someone mention older women? 
Yeah... 26. I thought this was going to be a May/December thing... More like a Mid-May/late-May thing.
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: gref]
#19033281 - 10/25/13 09:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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gref said: This happened to me recently, except I'm 21 and she is 24. She asked me out and she wanted the D so bad. 
21 and 24 is practically the same thang man. Unless they got kids and a house and stuff
Aka responsibilities
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The5thElement said:
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gref said: This happened to me recently, except I'm 21 and she is 24. She asked me out and she wanted the D so bad. 
21 and 24 is practically the same thang man. Unless they got kids and a house and stuff
Aka responsibilities
yeah i agree. I'm 20 dating a 23 year old, and i feel like we're basically the same age
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Cloudboy we need a update here , how'd your date go ? you have a good time ? I hope for your sake you acted like a real gentleman .
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: mandrax360]
#19040149 - 10/27/13 10:38 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well we went out over the weekend, it was really nice. Nothing happened, but we made plans for a second date.
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Re: Older girl asked me out [Re: cloudboy]
#19042371 - 10/27/13 07:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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cloudboy said: Well we went out over the weekend, it was really nice. Nothing happened, but we made plans for a second date.
Nice. May the force be with you.
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