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What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself?
#19028198 - 10/24/13 08:41 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Seriously, think about it, I see too many people so concerned with so many things, that they forget to just love themselves. Without loving yourself how could you possibly love anyone else. If you hate yourself, you probably hate your job, hate your family, hate your friends, hate life itself, how fucked up is that!
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest] 1
#19028226 - 10/24/13 08:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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every1 just keep moving up to the cosmic heavens of love and unity
dont stop no matter what unless u just need to take a breather to catch up with urself
even if u fall back down, figure out what made u fall and ur shoelaces will be permanently tied tighter after
theres always gonna b some badness in life but if u dont let it become sadness or madness than u can turn into gladness on a higher fractal scale
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028231 - 10/24/13 08:45 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Myself.
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NotTheDevil
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#19028276 - 10/24/13 08:53 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm a serial killer
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buest
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#19028282 - 10/24/13 08:54 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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If the only thing keeping you from loving yourself is yourself, why dont you just kick your own ass until you learn to live differently, if thats what you really want? or maybe you could just pat yourself on the back or give youself a hug. fuck it, hug a stranger, why the fuck not, just do something to make your life improve until there is no more room for improvement, which is never!
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: NotTheDevil]
#19028286 - 10/24/13 08:54 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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NotTheDevil said: I'm a serial killer
yes and im a serial rapist, I rape threads, lol
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028306 - 10/24/13 08:58 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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buest said:
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NotTheDevil said: I'm a serial killer
yes and im a serial rapist, I rape threads, lol
also I can't love myself cause I'm not the devil
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest] 2
#19028307 - 10/24/13 08:58 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Cause I love the world so much I don't have any left over
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: fapjack] 2
#19028338 - 10/24/13 09:05 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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The voices inside my head...
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: fapjack] 1
#19028341 - 10/24/13 09:06 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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fapjack said: Cause I love the world so much I don't have any left over 
Well, my love is better then your love, so there!
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: TwinEclipse]
#19028349 - 10/24/13 09:07 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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TwinEclipse said: The voices inside my head...
they tell me to freeze the world
Edited by NotTheDevil (10/24/13 09:07 PM)
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: NotTheDevil]
#19028402 - 10/24/13 09:17 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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NotTheDevil said: I'm a serial killer
i'm Jack The Ripper
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#19028410 - 10/24/13 09:18 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm Buest the masterbator, so what!?!
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028415 - 10/24/13 09:19 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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LOL heyy if all Else fails
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028500 - 10/24/13 09:35 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So I should be more narcissistic?
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: ReginaldPMcpoop]
#19028520 - 10/24/13 09:39 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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ReginaldPMcpoop said: So I should be more narcissistic?
IF thats what it takes to love yourself, MAYBE? i donno
saying your something and actually being it are two totally different things
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028558 - 10/24/13 09:48 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Cool, I'm going to start loving the fuck outta myself.
I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming.
This is my new mantra.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: ReginaldPMcpoop]
#19028571 - 10/24/13 09:54 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I do love myself!
I am an incredibly flawed human being, however, I also like to take my flaws head on and objectively. I am a constant work in progress. Either I learn to love them, or they are something I fix.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19028584 - 10/24/13 09:57 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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ReginaldPMcpoop said: Cool, I'm going to start loving the fuck outta myself.
I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming. I'm incredibly good looking, smart, and charming.
This is my new mantra.
LOL, thats a good start
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pirate-blues said: I do love myself!
no buts, lol
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028596 - 10/24/13 10:00 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I do love myself, no ifs and or buts.
love =/= like.
there are many things I do not like about myself, so much so that it has manifested in eating disorders, depression, and all sorts of shit in the past. It doesn't mean I haven't grown to love myself.
As I've stated time and time again on shroomery, there is always gonna be someone smarter, hotter, and wittier than you. If you torture yourself over that type of stuff you'll just end up..well, torturing yourself. I stopped comparing myself to others and started being the best human I can be, inside and out.
I'm not saying I'm perfect, far far far from it. But fuck perfection, that's boring and for pansies.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028609 - 10/24/13 10:06 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hating people isn't fucked up it's just realistic.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19028610 - 10/24/13 10:06 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: I do love myself, no ifs and or buts.
love =/= like.
there are many things I do not like about myself, so much so that it has manifested in eating disorders, depression, and all sorts of shit in the past. It doesn't mean I haven't grown to love myself.
As I've stated time and time again on shroomery, there is always gonna be someone smarter, hotter, and wittier than you. If you torture yourself over that type of stuff you'll just end up..well, torturing yourself. I stopped comparing myself to others and started being the best human I can be, inside and out.
I'm not saying I'm perfect, far far far from it. But fuck perfection, that's boring and for pansies.
I used to hate myself to the point of standing on cliffs for as long as I could just wishing I could jump.
Those days are long gone now, I would never wish that on ANYONE!
Loving yourself is something you have to learn, and its a beautiful thing.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028624 - 10/24/13 10:08 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Agreed .
True self-growth can only come from self-love.
Abitsandwich, I dislike a lot of people, but I can't think of anyone I know personally that I really hate . That just takes so much energy out of me.... it's just easiest to be totally indifferent, and sometimes even that can be a problem for me in the form of aloofness. But i don't hate anyone.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: ReginaldPMcpoop]
#19028640 - 10/24/13 10:13 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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i work pretty hard at being a worthwhile human being but i pee out of a hole in my abdomen because my penis had a hymen in it when i was born and blew up my bladder.
fucking totally sucks because i prolly shouldn't breed and i feel bad about being friends/BF to a chick when i am an easy target for female pecking. i guess i'm pretty disgusting.
i'm in really good shape and semi-attractive too. what a fuckn waste of a fuckn life! 60 more fuckn years of being a geriatric!!!!!!!!!! fuck that shit!!!!!11 i'm gonna buy a gun some day and end it.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: stimpson]
#19028698 - 10/24/13 10:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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stimpson said: i work pretty hard at being a worthwhile human being but i pee out of a hole in my abdomen because my penis had a hymen in it when i was born and blew up my bladder.
fucking totally sucks because i prolly shouldn't breed and i feel bad about being friends/BF to a chick when i am an easy target for female pecking. i guess i'm pretty disgusting.
i'm in really good shape and semi-attractive too. what a fuckn waste of a fuckn life! 60 more fuckn years of being a geriatric!!!!!!!!!! fuck that shit!!!!!11 i'm gonna buy a gun some day and end it.
at least you got a plan!
ZING!
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19028700 - 10/24/13 10:26 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: Agreed .
True self-growth can only come from self-love.
Abitsandwich, I dislike a lot of people, but I can't think of anyone I know personally that I really hate . That just takes so much energy out of me.... it's just easiest to be totally indifferent, and sometimes even that can be a problem for me in the form of aloofness. But i don't hate anyone.
BTW, I LOVE YOU! <3
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028727 - 10/24/13 10:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Now THIS is the kinda post I love to see. Thank you buest
I think it's mostly fear that keeps us from truly loving ourselves. I think in order to truly love ourselves, we must first develop a type of unconditional love for all living beings. I think it's fear that prevents people from being able to do that. BUT the good news is that everyone is actually on the right track, and all is exactly as it should be.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028734 - 10/24/13 10:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You know how I feel about that phrase in regards to saying it to just anyone, buest .
But fuck it for the sake of the thread, and because I had a couple glasses of wine earlier, I love you too  
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19028754 - 10/24/13 10:38 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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nicechrisman said: Now THIS is the kinda post I love to see. Thank you buest
I think it's mostly fear that keeps us from truly loving ourselves. I think in order to truly love ourselves, we must first develop a type of unconditional love for all living beings. I think it's fear that prevents people from being able to do that. BUT the good news is that everyone is actually on the right track, and all is exactly as it should be.
no, thank you buddy! 
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pirate-blues said: You know how I feel about that phrase in regards to saying it to just anyone, buest .
But fuck it for the sake of the thread, and because I had a couple glasses of wine earlier, I love you too   
yay, thats the spirit beautiful!
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028815 - 10/24/13 10:49 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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How long do I have to love myself before I can love others?
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: ReginaldPMcpoop]
#19028821 - 10/24/13 10:50 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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ReginaldPMcpoop said: How long do I have to love myself before I can love others?
I guess you'll never know without trying!
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: ReginaldPMcpoop]
#19028822 - 10/24/13 10:50 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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long time
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: ReginaldPMcpoop]
#19028824 - 10/24/13 10:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: fapjack]
#19028841 - 10/24/13 10:55 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: fapjack]
#19028850 - 10/24/13 10:56 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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In that case, I'd say I've got a couple years worth of other-loving built up.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: fapjack]
#19028873 - 10/24/13 11:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I love the world and love myself wasn't always like that I think some people are just misunderstood not necessarily in a bad way
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19028902 - 10/24/13 11:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: You know how I feel about that phrase in regards to saying it to just anyone, buest .
and i love you
But fuck it for the sake of the thread, and because I had a couple glasses of wine earlier, I love you too   
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#19028977 - 10/24/13 11:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well shit, I might as well add some more myself to this thread cause im bored.
The thing that held me back from loving myself was the fear of looking bad in someone elses eyes. How stupid is that. If you just be yourself and not worry about it then there's nothing left to fear. Then you can start learning to really love yourself.
If you aren't where you want to be, don't worry, you'll get there soon enough.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19029129 - 10/25/13 12:18 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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High on toilet said: I love you.
<3 buddy, miss you
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: Sheekle]
#19029152 - 10/25/13 12:22 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: every1 just keep moving up to the cosmic heavens of love and unity
dont stop no matter what unless u just need to take a breather to catch up with urself
even if u fall back down, figure out what made u fall and ur shoelaces will be permanently tied tighter after
theres always gonna b some badness in life but if u dont let it become sadness or madness than u can turn into gladness on a higher fractal scale
This is really solid
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19029188 - 10/25/13 12:31 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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High on toilet said:
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buest said:
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High on toilet said: I love you.
<3 buddy, miss you
Thanks man =]
Hope all is well for you. Cause things are going really well*over here and i can only wish the same for you.
yeah buddy, never been better!
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19029327 - 10/25/13 01:41 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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MXE and Samsara
beautiful
  
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: MystiqueMushroom]
#19029335 - 10/25/13 01:44 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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MystiqueMushroom said: MXE and Samsara
beautiful
   
I will second this!
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19029343 - 10/25/13 01:47 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lol i posted in the wrong thread
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