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abltsandwich
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028609 - 10/24/13 10:06 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hating people isn't fucked up it's just realistic.
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buest
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19028610 - 10/24/13 10:06 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: I do love myself, no ifs and or buts.
love =/= like.
there are many things I do not like about myself, so much so that it has manifested in eating disorders, depression, and all sorts of shit in the past. It doesn't mean I haven't grown to love myself.
As I've stated time and time again on shroomery, there is always gonna be someone smarter, hotter, and wittier than you. If you torture yourself over that type of stuff you'll just end up..well, torturing yourself. I stopped comparing myself to others and started being the best human I can be, inside and out.
I'm not saying I'm perfect, far far far from it. But fuck perfection, that's boring and for pansies.
I used to hate myself to the point of standing on cliffs for as long as I could just wishing I could jump.
Those days are long gone now, I would never wish that on ANYONE!
Loving yourself is something you have to learn, and its a beautiful thing.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028624 - 10/24/13 10:08 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Agreed .
True self-growth can only come from self-love.
Abitsandwich, I dislike a lot of people, but I can't think of anyone I know personally that I really hate . That just takes so much energy out of me.... it's just easiest to be totally indifferent, and sometimes even that can be a problem for me in the form of aloofness. But i don't hate anyone.
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stimpson
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: ReginaldPMcpoop]
#19028640 - 10/24/13 10:13 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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i work pretty hard at being a worthwhile human being but i pee out of a hole in my abdomen because my penis had a hymen in it when i was born and blew up my bladder.
fucking totally sucks because i prolly shouldn't breed and i feel bad about being friends/BF to a chick when i am an easy target for female pecking. i guess i'm pretty disgusting.
i'm in really good shape and semi-attractive too. what a fuckn waste of a fuckn life! 60 more fuckn years of being a geriatric!!!!!!!!!! fuck that shit!!!!!11 i'm gonna buy a gun some day and end it.
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buest
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: stimpson]
#19028698 - 10/24/13 10:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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stimpson said: i work pretty hard at being a worthwhile human being but i pee out of a hole in my abdomen because my penis had a hymen in it when i was born and blew up my bladder.
fucking totally sucks because i prolly shouldn't breed and i feel bad about being friends/BF to a chick when i am an easy target for female pecking. i guess i'm pretty disgusting.
i'm in really good shape and semi-attractive too. what a fuckn waste of a fuckn life! 60 more fuckn years of being a geriatric!!!!!!!!!! fuck that shit!!!!!11 i'm gonna buy a gun some day and end it.
at least you got a plan!
ZING!
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buest
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19028700 - 10/24/13 10:26 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: Agreed .
True self-growth can only come from self-love.
Abitsandwich, I dislike a lot of people, but I can't think of anyone I know personally that I really hate . That just takes so much energy out of me.... it's just easiest to be totally indifferent, and sometimes even that can be a problem for me in the form of aloofness. But i don't hate anyone.
BTW, I LOVE YOU! <3
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nicechrisman
Interdimensional space wizard



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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028727 - 10/24/13 10:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Now THIS is the kinda post I love to see. Thank you buest
I think it's mostly fear that keeps us from truly loving ourselves. I think in order to truly love ourselves, we must first develop a type of unconditional love for all living beings. I think it's fear that prevents people from being able to do that. BUT the good news is that everyone is actually on the right track, and all is exactly as it should be.
-------------------- "Cosmic Love is absolutelely ruthless and highly indifferent: it teaches its lessons whether you like/dislike them or not." John C. Lily
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028734 - 10/24/13 10:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You know how I feel about that phrase in regards to saying it to just anyone, buest .
But fuck it for the sake of the thread, and because I had a couple glasses of wine earlier, I love you too  
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buest
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19028754 - 10/24/13 10:38 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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nicechrisman said: Now THIS is the kinda post I love to see. Thank you buest
I think it's mostly fear that keeps us from truly loving ourselves. I think in order to truly love ourselves, we must first develop a type of unconditional love for all living beings. I think it's fear that prevents people from being able to do that. BUT the good news is that everyone is actually on the right track, and all is exactly as it should be.
no, thank you buddy! 
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pirate-blues said: You know how I feel about that phrase in regards to saying it to just anyone, buest .
But fuck it for the sake of the thread, and because I had a couple glasses of wine earlier, I love you too   
yay, thats the spirit beautiful!
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ReginaldPMcpoop
The Colour Out of Space


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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19028815 - 10/24/13 10:49 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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How long do I have to love myself before I can love others?
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buest
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: ReginaldPMcpoop]
#19028821 - 10/24/13 10:50 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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ReginaldPMcpoop said: How long do I have to love myself before I can love others?
I guess you'll never know without trying!
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nicechrisman
Interdimensional space wizard



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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: ReginaldPMcpoop]
#19028822 - 10/24/13 10:50 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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long time
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fapjack
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: ReginaldPMcpoop]
#19028824 - 10/24/13 10:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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buest
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: fapjack]
#19028841 - 10/24/13 10:55 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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fapjack said: After loving yourself for 30 minutes, you can love someone else for as long as it takes your love to run down her leg.
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ReginaldPMcpoop
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: fapjack]
#19028850 - 10/24/13 10:56 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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In that case, I'd say I've got a couple years worth of other-loving built up.
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: fapjack]
#19028873 - 10/24/13 11:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I love the world and love myself wasn't always like that I think some people are just misunderstood not necessarily in a bad way
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19028902 - 10/24/13 11:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: You know how I feel about that phrase in regards to saying it to just anyone, buest .
and i love you
But fuck it for the sake of the thread, and because I had a couple glasses of wine earlier, I love you too   
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buest
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#19028977 - 10/24/13 11:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well shit, I might as well add some more myself to this thread cause im bored.
The thing that held me back from loving myself was the fear of looking bad in someone elses eyes. How stupid is that. If you just be yourself and not worry about it then there's nothing left to fear. Then you can start learning to really love yourself.
If you aren't where you want to be, don't worry, you'll get there soon enough.
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buest
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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: buest]
#19029129 - 10/25/13 12:18 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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High on toilet said: I love you.
<3 buddy, miss you
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cez

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Re: What keeps you from learning how to truly love youself? [Re: Sheekle]
#19029152 - 10/25/13 12:22 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: every1 just keep moving up to the cosmic heavens of love and unity
dont stop no matter what unless u just need to take a breather to catch up with urself
even if u fall back down, figure out what made u fall and ur shoelaces will be permanently tied tighter after
theres always gonna b some badness in life but if u dont let it become sadness or madness than u can turn into gladness on a higher fractal scale
This is really solid
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