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Happy in a relationship? * 5
    #19024708 - 10/24/13 09:59 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I feel like this forum is full of too much of the dark side of relationships. I guess maybe once we find a good one, we're too busy with the light & love to post about it on the shroomery - :tongue2: or maybe we feel like we would be bragging if we did?

I don't know, anyway, just wanted to open the floor for discussing your happy long term relationships! maybe it will give the rest of you hope, and inspiration to NEVER SETTLE!

I've been with my guy for a little over a year. We met online & started out as long distance (about 5-6 months) and then moved in together last february. He. is. amazing. I never knew I could share so much with a partner, and connect on so many levels. We teach each other, challenge each other, read books together, love music together and laugh together SO much. Co-created love magic.

:yinyang2:

tell me about your good love & how it works!




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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: yogabunny]
    #19024811 - 10/24/13 10:23 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

My wife and I will have been together for 6 years in February and married for 5 in December. Very happy, we are the definition of yin and yang. I the logical scientific mathematician, and she the fantasy imager. Music brought us together, and our life goals keep our bond tight. Even though there are rough spots just like any other relationship, we would fight, kill, and die for one another. We do everything together, and when its not possible (i.e. work/school) we count the moments until we can be. Everytime I trip it feels like we've been together for all of eternity in past lives. It truly is her and I versus the world.

Thank you for this thread pika*. S&R really needs more threads like this one.



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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: K1ngSp4de]
    #19024923 - 10/24/13 10:49 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Very happy. I see us as a team. whatever i can't do he can and vis versa. We are both young adventuring souls. We're ready to go see and do as many things together in life as we can. We complete each other. Never thought their was such a thing as soul mate..

our souls have entwined.

Very good happy feeling.
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anyone else feel the same with their partner?

that you look into each others eyes and see deep down, the soul of the other?


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: LuuuCid]
    #19025499 - 10/24/13 12:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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LuuuCid said:

anyone else feel the same with their partner?

that you look into each others eyes and see deep down, the soul of the other?





Yes. I have this strange thing happen sometimes...I'm looking at him and feel overwhelmed with love and then he kind of glows. It's hard to explain and never happened before him.

We celebrate 3 years together tomorrow. He is my best friend, my confidant, my lover. He is the comfort in my world.


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: yogabunny]
    #19026020 - 10/24/13 02:23 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Pika* I love your avatar. Is that your cat? If I still had a cat I think I would join this cat-in-bread craze.

On to the topic of the thread:
I think this is a cool idea for a thread. Especially since it can give people who are in sub-par relationships some additional thought as to what a relationship could be. I think relationships should be the icing on the cake of life - not holding the other person down in any way - and this is a good way for people to see how that is manifested in various healthy relationships.

I have been in an amazing relationship for over three years now - years and years ago I was in a relationship that mirrored many of the common relationship complaints that seem to consistently spring up in this forum. It wasn't really either of our faults - we both had issues and just were not right for each other. Breaking up was really hard - and it took some time to come to terms with what exactly I wanted in a relationship. And then I met the girl I am with now. We have the perfect relationship, imo. No jealousy, no fighting (I can count on my hand the number of fights we have had in the years we have been together, and all about silly things), and we each give each other the necessary room to live our own lives, while growing together. And we have been living together for over a year now and it's amazing. It's why not settling is so important - because once you determine what is important to you in a relationship, you are better poised to find that person who you work amazingly with. It's easy to settle - but it causes a great deal of hurt and breaks down at your confidence and well being.

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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: Cyclohexylamine] * 3
    #19026138 - 10/24/13 02:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Chatted online way back in 2001 and became friends. Met up a year later and we sort of drifted into a relationship, it strengthened, became best friends and got engaged. Married in 2008, and still very happily married now with children.

My previous relationships were pretty terrible and filled with high drama. I could never imagine myself in a long term relationship, especially not being married.

What sets my current relationship apart from the others is that I can be myself, no mask, no acting - for good or bad I am myself. My wife is the same. We love spending time together, but respect each partners space and time for hobbies/social occasions etc.

Previous relationships were more in the mood of finding someone to "complete me." My current one is more being with someone who compliments my life, sharing the journey together.


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #19026305 - 10/24/13 03:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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tymoteusz3 said:
Pika* I love your avatar. Is that your cat? If I still had a cat I think I would join this cat-in-bread craze.






haha, yes, that is my cat. my bf & i collaborated on that one last night, one of the many ridiculous things we'll do together and then laugh like children until we cry!

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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: SillyMe]
    #19026424 - 10/24/13 03:36 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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SillyMe said:
Quote:

LuuuCid said:

anyone else feel the same with their partner?

that you look into each others eyes and see deep down, the soul of the other?





Yes. I have this strange thing happen sometimes...I'm looking at him and feel overwhelmed with love and then he kind of glows. It's hard to explain and never happened before him.

We celebrate 3 years together tomorrow. He is my best friend, my confidant, my lover. He is the comfort in my world.





that's exactly it!!! its so spiritual (i guess that would be the right word) just overwhelms you like nothing else. time some how freezes. i melt. every time. :love:

we celebrate almost 2 years. i feel like i would be lost with out him. hes my rock, my comfort, everything. its well sublime

isnt it great to share something like this with someone? we are lucky compared to most id say. im so greatful for it.


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: misterjingo]
    #19026917 - 10/24/13 05:24 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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misterjingo said:

Previous relationships were more in the mood of finding someone to "complete me." My current one is more being with someone who compliments my life, sharing the journey together.





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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: yogabunny] * 1
    #19026957 - 10/24/13 05:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I met my fiance in junior high. Going on 9 years now.
Hes such an amazing man. Hes so calm, intelligent, sexy and just..awesome.

I knew from the first date that we would be together forever, how cliche' I know lol

Life wouldn't be worth living without him. I wouldn't want to live without him.


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: yogabunny] * 2
    #19027486 - 10/24/13 06:53 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

pika* said:
I feel like this forum is full of too much of the dark side of relationships. I guess maybe once we find a good one, we're too busy with the light & love to post about it on the shroomery - :tongue2: or maybe we feel like we would be bragging if we did?

I don't know, anyway, just wanted to open the floor for discussing your happy long term relationships! maybe it will give the rest of you hope, and inspiration to NEVER SETTLE!

I've been with my guy for a little over a year. We met online & started out as long distance (about 5-6 months) and then moved in together last february. He. is. amazing. I never knew I could share so much with a partner, and connect on so many levels. We teach each other, challenge each other, read books together, love music together and laugh together SO much. Co-created love magic.

:yinyang2:

tell me about your good love & how it works!






18 years with my second wife.  We had one date.  When I was leaving the next day she looked so sad and I told her that it wasn't the end, it was the beginning.  Here's the thing.  I come off as what she is in private and she comes off as what I am in private.  We complete each other and take care of each other in completely different ways and you would never guess how that works.  I doubt either of us will live much longer than the other.

I am so happy for you.  I knew you were struggling with that shit and couldn't figure out why.  You are pretty and smart and sweet.


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: yogabunny]
    #19027511 - 10/24/13 06:56 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

By the way, I have 3 cats who follow me everywhere and I cannot imagine them sitting still one second for the bread treatment.  How do you do that?  Do you dope them?


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: zappaisgod]
    #19028317 - 10/24/13 09:00 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

My cats freaked out when I tried to inbread them.


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: VivaLaMushie]
    #19028502 - 10/24/13 09:35 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

i dont know if dopping them up would help them fuck.

they might just lay their all day....

maybe vigra lmao.

kidding... or am i?

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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: LuuuCid] * 2
    #19028586 - 10/24/13 09:58 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I meant ....putting bread ...on their heads.

Not sex, LOL


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: VivaLaMushie]
    #19028701 - 10/24/13 10:26 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

End of october will be dating my current girlfriend for 7 months. It's been absolutely wonderful so far; We have fights occasionally, but tend to resolve them rather quickly, with no hard feelings afterwards. I don't think that's a bad thing though.

I cheated on her once though :doublefacepalm: never doing that again.


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: zappaisgod]
    #19029151 - 10/25/13 12:22 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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By the way, I have 3 cats who follow me everywhere and I cannot imagine them sitting still one second for the bread treatment.  How do you do that?  Do you dope them?




she is remarkably laid back for a cat...i held her and pet her while my bf cut the hole in the bread, put it on her face and took the photo. talk about a great team! :tongue2:


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: yogabunny] * 1
    #19029268 - 10/25/13 01:06 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

So yeah...I'll throw my positivity cap in on this thread.

I was in a toxic, bad relationship (8 years) that I ended way earlier this year. I couldn't find or see a way out for a long long time.
Suicide threats from her, general mental and emotional abuse, etc etc

I gathered the courage and left her...best thing I have ever done in my life.

Fast forward to July of this year.
I made a POF.com profile, browsed the gals and stumbled upon an absolute gem of a person.

I had always said (after the breakup) that if I were to try to "holler" at a random woman "on the street" that instead of asking her to dinner and a movie or whatever that I would invite her to play disc golf with me....as it's really fun and non-threatening and so forth.

Anyhow, I'm on POF and I see this woman who is a disc golfer (schwing!) (the 1st irony), so I further check her out and just about every "Interest" I listed, we matched. Hiking, camping, gardening, canoeing, animals, etc etc...

So I write her a message....I don't get a reply for several days.
In the meantime my friend sets me up on a sort of blind date at her house with her friend. I'm all nervous about it and shit.
A day or two later I get a text from my friend that girl had cold feet and the blind date wasn't happening. I was a little bummed and a little relieved since I was kinda nervous....
Anyways, not even 30 minutes after I get the text that girl had cancelled I get an email saying that "Disclady has sent you a message on POF" (many days after I sent the 1st message)  (irony #2).

We get talking and I find out she is an ABA therapist who works with children with Autism....Which is crazy since my only niece receives ABA therapy (Irony #3) I mean, what are the odds?

Get talking some more about random shit and she says that she really wants a Boxer (dog)... Well, as you may guess, my dog is a Boxer :smile: (#4).

The talks go well and we decide to have a disc golf date in Madison. We meet up and really hit it off well.
About an hour in (and although it is taboo) I tell her about my ex.
Wouldn't you know it, she was in the exact same situation as I was. 8 year relationship which ended when she gathered the courage to leave despite HIS suicide threats, just like me (#5). I mean, it was soooo nuts hearing her recite her tale. It was exactly the same as mine.
Long story short, we find a shit load of weird shit that we have in common.
From us both not being affected by poison ivy all the way to the fact the her and her sibling and me and my sibling's birthdays are exactly a week apart, just like the other.

It just kind of WOWED! us about how much we had in our favor.


Fast forward to current day. I have never in my life been happier. This woman is like a female me, just way cooler. Things are going so well. I never couldve guessed that I would've found a woman so compatible with me.
She is the kindest, sweetest, most amazing person I have ever met and wouldn't you know it, she actually wants to be my lady
:mindblown:

So yes, folks in unhappy relationships....There really is somebody out there for you....despite what you may think.

I am so happy


edit...and oh yeah, we both made our POF profiles on the same day :smile:


Edited by shLong (10/25/13 01:08 AM)


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: shLong]
    #19029940 - 10/25/13 08:02 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I'm three years into a relationship with my girlfriend and things are great.  I love her with all my heart.  We're celebrating our first date anniversary today.


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Re: Happy in a relationship? [Re: shLong]
    #19030366 - 10/25/13 10:21 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

:omgawesome:

my sweetie & i also have a ton of super random things in common! i love it!


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