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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19014517 - 10/22/13 04:34 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well for one thing you should probably stop seeing your exes alone for walks down trails. Maybe consider having tea in more public venues? You know generally things that can't end up in you two ravishing each other and then going oh my what have we done, what a terrible mistake how did this happen?
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear] 1
#19016177 - 10/22/13 08:56 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: zappaisgod] 1
#19016256 - 10/22/13 09:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You'd think he'd no longer be relevant to me, right? A part of me feels responsible for making sure that he's not going to kill himself or get himself killed. He needs someone to look out for him.
It could be my desire to help that keeps me here.
Get over this. Sometimes a drowning man drags his rescuer down into the depths with him.
sometimes it's better to throw the drowning man a rock instead of a line
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19016510 - 10/22/13 09:52 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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LetHeWhoIsWithoutSin Cast the first stone
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Rock on Jesus, I knew someone would eventually start showing some sense in this thread
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19017945 - 10/23/13 08:38 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You'd think he'd no longer be relevant to me, right? A part of me feels responsible for making sure that he's not going to kill himself or get himself killed. He needs someone to look out for him.
It could be my desire to help that keeps me here.
Get over this. Sometimes a drowning man drags his rescuer down into the depths with him.
sometimes it's better to throw the drowning man a rock instead of a line
I couldn't agree with you more!
Don't worry, after yesterday, there's no fucking way I'm letting him back into my life again.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: zappaisgod] 1
#19017960 - 10/23/13 08:44 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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mpd said: That's why they call them old flames; they are impossible to get over and you will carry them in your heart and head forever. Move on and live your life in gratitude for what was and how you made it special for you and for him.
Good advice.
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You'd think he'd no longer be relevant to me, right? A part of me feels responsible for making sure that he's not going to kill himself or get himself killed. He needs someone to look out for him.
It could be my desire to help that keeps me here.
Get over this. Sometimes a drowning man drags his rescuer down into the depths with him. Homeless by choice? Fuck that. Sounds like a world class flake. If he needs taking care of it is somebody else's turn. You fulfilled your sentence. Move on. Ditch him completely. If necessary move a thousand miles away. Never see him again on purpose.
I agree with this - it was a really important lesson I learned. You can't be there to fix him, and it's not fair to put your life on hold. He isn't your responsibility - and you have to let him go.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19019240 - 10/23/13 12:47 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Don't worry, after yesterday, there's no fucking way I'm letting him back into my life again.

Well wha wha wha wha what happened? Do tell
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He showed me that he's still a very angry individual. He spit on me, screamed in my face, called me names (that I won't say because that's how fucking harsh they were)
all because i wouldn't have sex with him.
incredible huh?
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19025098 - 10/24/13 11:30 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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hahaa i gotta temper what can i say other than sorry. I'm growing up. I'm only human. i make mistakes. but i'm gonna learn from em. one love everybody!
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19025462 - 10/24/13 12:45 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Kittybear said: He showed me that he's still a very angry individual. He spit on me, screamed in my face, called me names (that I won't say because that's how fucking harsh they were)
all because i wouldn't have sex with him.
incredible huh?
Whoa, really? That's simply magical. Someone with way less impulse control than myself. I feel totally redeemed now  Very big of you to not call his fiancee and ruin it all for him. I totally would have
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Spacerific]
#19026128 - 10/24/13 02:41 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Kittybear said: He showed me that he's still a very angry individual. He spit on me, screamed in my face, called me names (that I won't say because that's how fucking harsh they were)
all because i wouldn't have sex with him.
incredible huh?
Whoa, really? That's simply magical. Someone with way less impulse control than myself. I feel totally redeemed now  Very big of you to not call his fiancee and ruin it all for him. I totally would have 
It's pretty funny because he thinks I'm such a heartless bitch. I could ruin his entire life if I wanted to. But I don't. I just want him to move on and enjoy his life.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19026608 - 10/24/13 04:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Kittybear said: He showed me that he's still a very angry individual. He spit on me, screamed in my face, called me names (that I won't say because that's how fucking harsh they were)
all because i wouldn't have sex with him.
incredible huh?
Whoa, really? That's simply magical. Someone with way less impulse control than myself. I feel totally redeemed now  Very big of you to not call his fiancee and ruin it all for him. I totally would have 
It's pretty funny because he thinks I'm such a heartless bitch. I could ruin his entire life if I wanted to. But I don't. I just want him to move on and enjoy his life.
I think you should tell him, the kind of crazy shit that would happen, if he ever stepped out of line again. I know every time I've lost it, for any reason, I probably would have benefited from hearing the potential gruesome consequences. They simply are out of sight, out of mind sometimes.
You know how when you nearly have a life-threatening accident, fall, some scary shit happens to you but turns out well, and for a while you realize that holy shit, whatever you were stressing and making noise about, didn't actually matter in the slightest?
Kind of like that. Dude needs context, otherwise a little nookie fills his whole screen 
Refocus him a bit, explain in detail how you could turn into this:
 Should get him all polite and functional again.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Spacerific]
#19026621 - 10/24/13 04:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I still see a deep throat
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I still see a deep throat
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Spacerific]
#19028163 - 10/24/13 08:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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LOLOL yoo guys. She really is my better half. i honestly just want her to see that
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JesusGoneRogue said: LOLOL yoo guys. She really is my better half. i honestly just want her to see that
Ok, I don't know who's trolling and who's playing so I'm just asking, are you the spitter person in question? If so, are you or are you not engaged to someone else?
If it's none of anybody's business that's fine, I was just mildly curious about the situation. I mean it seems a bit counterproductive to get engaged to someone else, when one plans to get their ex back. Or is the fiancee super cool with threesomes? If so, well played  
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Spacerific]
#19028688 - 10/24/13 10:24 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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[Mod edit: no]
Edited by tymoteusz3 (10/25/13 06:10 AM)
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[Mod edit: no]
Edited by tymoteusz3 (10/25/13 06:10 AM)
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