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Legend
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I've got a date
#19017073 - 10/22/13 11:49 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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On Friday night I'm going out for coffee and bullshit around the tone with a cute girl
Cliche I know, but she's a chill chick. We're going to figure ourselves out and what not
I know I've got this so idk Why am I so nervous though. Someone wanna lend a dude some advice?
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JesusGoneRogue


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Re: I've got a date [Re: Legend]
#19017074 - 10/22/13 11:50 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Treat her right. Don't fuck up. Be respectful towards her. And if you truly love her, ask for her hand in marriage.
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TheMovement
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Re: I've got a date [Re: Legend]
#19017077 - 10/22/13 11:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just be yourself, dont push the conversation let it just flow naturally.
You are the prize
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niteman

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Everything that guy just said except for the last thing
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Legend
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TheMovement said: Just be yourself, dont push the conversation let it just flow naturally.
thats what im worried about. i dont go out much these days, so im not used to conversing with anyone but my family, and a few close friends. im afraid what i have to say isn't going to be interesting enough.
but no she's the prize.
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Re: I've got a date [Re: Legend]
#19017098 - 10/22/13 11:56 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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When you're nervous....just whip your dick out. That will let all the tension out.
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TheMovement
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Re: I've got a date [Re: Legend]
#19017107 - 10/22/13 11:58 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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No you're the prize dude. You're the king of your world and she is just a possible female companion to accompany you on future adventures. Be genuine but confident and you will at least make it to a second date.
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JesusGoneRogue


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Re: I've got a date [Re: niteman]
#19017119 - 10/23/13 12:00 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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niteman said: Everything that guy just said except for the last thing
i agree with you!!! Girls are only trouble
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Keep it fun, casual, light and pleasant. Have a good time man and remember, humor is your friend.
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NotTheDevil
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Re: I've got a date [Re: smurfbury] 1
#19017126 - 10/23/13 12:02 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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dshsb
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JesusGoneRogue


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NotTheDevil said: dshsb
I agree 100%. If you want to make a woman yours. this is the way to do it
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JesusGoneRogue said:
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NotTheDevil said: dshsb
I agree 100%. If you want to make a woman yours. this is the way to do it
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Re: I've got a date [Re: Legend]
#19017177 - 10/23/13 12:17 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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WeTheKings mang
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TheMovement said: No you're the prize dude. You're the king of your world and she is just a possible female companion to accompany you on future adventures. Be genuine but confident and you will at least make it to a second date.
She's just a human like you and she is nothing special. The person you should think is worth more is you. And humor will get you laid even if you're ugly. YOU GOT THIS SHIT
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JesusGoneRogue


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Viol
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JesusGoneRogue said:
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niteman said: Everything that guy just said except for the last thing
i agree with you!!! Girls are only trouble
Girls, maybe. Ladies, not at all. 
I think the reason you're so nervous is because you really are falling for this girl, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It'd be a lot more awkward if you weren't sure how you felt about her, wouldn't it? Then again, I've never really been on a date, so what do I know....
Best wishes to you, OP. You're a really lovely guy from what I've read so far, and obviously this girl knows that, or else she wouldn't have agreed to the date. Who knows, she might be just as nervous as you are. You'll know what to do. As the others have said, let things flow naturally.
And if all else fails, then by all means, DSHSB.
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just chill man never know worst comes to worst u get a good friend out the deal
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JesusGoneRogue


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Re: I've got a date [Re: Viol]
#19017232 - 10/23/13 12:39 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: I've got a date [Re: Legend]
#19017242 - 10/23/13 12:42 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Black out on Xanax before going to meet up with her, you can't go wrong! I blacked out on Xanax, next day asked the girl out and we're still dating. Should work for you!
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deadwk
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Re: I've got a date [Re: deadwk]
#19017246 - 10/23/13 12:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just be yourself, don't be too pushy or anything. If you act like yourself, and say something she thinks is "uncool" or stupid, and lets it get in the liking you, she wasn't worth your time anyway.
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JesusGoneRogue


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Re: I've got a date [Re: deadwk]
#19017249 - 10/23/13 12:44 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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watermelon mon
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you are a chill guy will do fine like every one side just be yourself you already have your foot in the door no one will know you are nervous I am the same way you deserve this man
hopefully I have some luck meting a girl the time will come just need to make it happen
Edited by watermelon mon (10/23/13 01:55 AM)
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Legend said: but no she's the prize.
Nah bro you need to get that out of your head as soon as possible. She's just another chick, you're the prize and you always will be regardless of how awesome a girl is.
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volcomstoner
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BTW good luck man
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JesusGoneRogue


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nah man. she's my chick. I don't really give a fuck if she wants to go out and explore. she's her own person. Long as she comes back home.
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Legend
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volcomstoner said:
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Legend said: but no she's the prize.
Nah bro you need to get that out of your head as soon as possible. She's just another chick, you're the prize and you always will be regardless of how awesome a girl is.

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BTW good luck man 
thank you!
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Re: I've got a date [Re: Legend]
#19017395 - 10/23/13 01:59 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Also, just a tip for the future, girls respond SO much better when you're creative with the first date. Honestly every time I went out for coffee, or just took her out to dinner right away without any other plans it was just boring. All the conversation is forced and doesn't feel natural, the more natural/comfortable she feels with you on the first date the higher she will think of you.
I always liked to make a day out of it with doing multiple activities, show her cool places and do shit she wouldn't have done if it wasn't for me. Girls eat that shit up, and when you're actually doing things together the conversation just comes. Stronger connection right from the get go.
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watermelon mon
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for some reason you reminded me of this it wasn't a very good movie but you gave some good advice
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Let us know how it goes
It will go fine. If not, it will be great. A little Xanax or benzo be great, I always meet girls on etizolam and it goes great
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Sometimes its worse to constantly talk because then you talk about mundane shit so just relax and try to keep up the conversation if she talks about something she's interested in
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Re: I've got a date [Re: Konyap]
#19017429 - 10/23/13 02:18 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Also doing a lot of "you's" helps.
Girls like to be told one.
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volcomstoner
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Re: I've got a date [Re: Konyap]
#19017445 - 10/23/13 02:30 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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watermelon mon said: for some reason you reminded me of this it wasn't a very good movie but you gave some good advice

Lol well, trust me, I know a thing or two about getting a womans attention  And have gone through plenty of trial and error.
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Illyabo said: Sometimes its worse to constantly talk because then you talk about mundane shit so just relax and try to keep up the conversation if she talks about something she's interested in
I like to tell a lot of stories, and usually by gauging her reactions by what she seems interested in you can go from there because if you guys find a similar interest the conversation will really flow.
Really the best advice someone could give is to make her chase you, instead of you chasing her. Act like you got something she wants, don't come of as needy or constantly compliment her.
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Legend
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all right thanks everyone for the advice, im not sure i needed it, but it was nice to hear. im just going to be myself, and im sure she'll like it. We used to hang out a few years ago, but lost touch. so either way it's gonna be nice to see an old friend again. i plan on eating a bit of xanax to take the edge off, grabbing coffee, and going on a scenic walk. cause thats the kind of shit i do alone anyway, so im comfortable doing that.
tomorrow's the big day,
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Re: I've got a date [Re: Legend]
#19028182 - 10/24/13 08:37 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hmmmmm
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