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Moonlightblue



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i told her " ill be back later someday"..
#19015707 - 10/22/13 07:50 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hey shroomery..
So I met this girl about a month ago Right from the beginning she understood why I started talking to her, I had told her i was looking for friends ( don't have many, non really) Everything was fine, we laughed, we bugged each other much, we talked daily all day, sometimes too much lol but it was fine, we understood our humor. She would say how weird i was in a good way. Even tho she had expressed that she was lonely too.. But she kind of was talking another guy.. not that much, she would say..
Anyways I got drunk once, and expressed some anger (kind of bad) ..whatever She forgave me.
Then we stated talking again cool! like before, then I got drunk again and said stupid shit.. This time.. Not many replys from her.
Today I just said.. I'm going away for awhile, but ill be back later someday. Good to meet ya.
This shit makes me depressed. I hate departing from ppl. I just don't know.. I never met someone like her. I'm talking to no one again. *sigh*
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Sheekle
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You could've given her a sincere apology for your drunken shenanigans and explained to her how much you value her as a person and think it would be a shame if you guys stopped being friends over something so trivial. You have the option of just not being angry around her ever again, like it's possible you can fix that temporary aspect of your personality. We're all human, we all make mistakes from time to time.
She prolly would've sorta forgiven you but still had her guard up for a while, then you two could've continued to hang out, and after some time it'll be not much more than water under the bridge. Your relationship would even be strengthened in the end from having made it through something like that together.
You still have the option to do that. Give it a week or two and hit her up, be honest and let her know what's up.
Nobody's perfect man, you can't always expect things to run as smoothly as butter forever.
You didn't HAVE to stop talking to her, because of two times you got drunk and acted stupid. If you really never met anybody like her than it is probably worth making things right with her.
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Moonlightblue



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Re: i told her [Re: Sheekle]
#19016410 - 10/22/13 09:36 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hi Sheekle
Thanks for your response, and your so right about everything you know. Its been only a month that I met her, I don't wanna apologize so much even tho I did.. It just seems I should just dissapear. I mean that's how I felt, I get so caught up in the moment when I don't even remember I'm human, where I am, what I am , I get so lost in my head even sober. I can't take back what I said. And thanks for reminding me we're human. I will give it a few weeks and see how it goes.
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Nabuca
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You also should cut down on the drinking, or at least avoid her when drunk. Two angry incidents in a month, to a normal, stable girl is going to have them thinking you have a drinking problem. As you've already seen, that will cause some friction.
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Moonlightblue



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Re: i told her [Re: Nabuca]
#19019134 - 10/23/13 12:21 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Nabuca,
She is a pretty normal girl, almost the opposite of me.
I know what you mean. Not to disrespect any of you, and your opinions,... I feel.. I am drinking a few right now as we speak. Its hard not to from what I was feeling before the buzz.
I'll take it smooth. Thanks
Edited by Moonlightblue (10/23/13 10:49 PM)
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pwnasaurus
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Re: i told her [Re: Nabuca]
#19022639 - 10/23/13 10:59 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Nabuca said: You also should cut down on the drinking, or at least avoid her when drunk. Two angry incidents in a month, to a normal, stable girl is going to have them thinking you have a drinking problem. As you've already seen, that will cause some friction.
If you have two "drunk angry incidents" in a month it will more than make someone think you have a drinking problem - it implies that you likely do, in fact, have a drinking problem. This theory is only further confirmed by your most recent post.
Lay off the drinking OP.
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