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Chowder963
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Yeah people who think its ok to do that in front of your gf just dont know or maybe had a unique relationship. Not only is it disrespectful but it shows the guy isnt in control of himself and seriously cant just not look while with his gf.. Shows what kinda guy he is, she might think hes weird. A guy should be able to not look even if "hes hardwired to" for the time hes with his gf lol..
When I was with my gf I took pride in not looking and still do even when im single, I can tell girls are super aware of guys looking and me not looking makes me look good. I can tell they respect it. If its just random girls at the mall or people I dont know then yeah ill check that shit out.
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who cares if im looking?
the fact of the matter is im gonna take her home and bang the shit outta her..
not that other chick.
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Re: Would you? [Re: rackem]
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You gotta know how they think though, I grew up in a house of women, if you just imagine what theyre thinking and know how they think it can get you far.
I noticed kids that grew up with sisters were always good talking with girls and girls liked talking to them and guys who grew up with brothers ended up more party animal douchebag type. Kids who grew up alone were always really deep and usually intelligent.
Which some girls like the wild party douchey guys though, im just saying from my point of view.
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SexyBeezy123 said: He always say I'm in a relationship, not dead. WTF does that mean? I trust he wouldnt physically cheat on me but sometimes it hurts and I feel left out
He meant that just because he's in a relationship with you doesn't mean he lacks a human body. I.e he can still tell that other people exist and some even look good and being alive he sometimes notices this
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meh, ive never had any issues with women.. grew up with a sister..
i just dont see the issue in looking...
my parents have been married 38 years.. they still look. and will make comments. openly to each other.
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It also means they arent that close most likely havent been going out that long.
I mean dont get me wrong getting caught every now and then is fine if not could be made into a joke, but when its every time and you feel concerned enough to talk to people about it, hes either not that slick/not that smart/doesnt understand women or relationships.
I was in a 4 year relationship, if I always looked to where I got caught all the time, not only would I feel not so slick, but also embarrassed, girls respect guys who seem like they arent desperate, I dont know if thats the right word but its good not to look if your with your gf or with girls and dont want to look creepy.
I mastered it, I never got caught, and mostly because I purposely didnt look alot though also.
RACKEM: When your married its probabbly a bit different, my dad pointed out every hot girl he saw. It also depends on the girl, if she honestly doesnt want you looking, it shouldnt be too hard to just not look while with her imo. I dont HAVE to look.
Again these are all my opinions I might be the minority here so I could be wrong, but im pretty sure im right, or maybe its just how I think, I can tell women respect not looking though, it makes you look alot more attractive.
Or im just cracked out on vyvanse and wrote this whole thing that doesnt make any sense because I havent slept in 2 days.
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well whatever it is your fighting the good fight..
different strokes/folks i suppose.
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Yeah man, I guess its just rude to do. Then again I don't like to stare at food if I'm starving either..... Its like...what's the fuckin point?? So, now you have an offended girlfriend and still no piece of the other ass... redundancy. Ehh, well we're all just animals still in some ways (ways like these)
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Chowder963 said: It also means they arent that close most likely havent been going out that long.
I mean dont get me wrong getting caught every now and then is fine if not could be made into a joke, but when its every time and you feel concerned enough to talk to people about it, hes either not that slick/not that smart/doesnt understand women or relationships.
I was in a 4 year relationship, if I always looked to where I got caught all the time, not only would I feel not so slick, but also embarrassed, girls respect guys who seem like they arent desperate, I dont know if thats the right word but its good not to look if your with your gf or with girls and dont want to look creepy.
I mastered it, I never got caught, and mostly because I purposely didnt look alot though also.
RACKEM: When your married its probabbly a bit different, my dad pointed out every hot girl he saw. It also depends on the girl, if she honestly doesnt want you looking, it shouldnt be too hard to just not look while with her imo. I dont HAVE to look.
Again these are all my opinions I might be the minority here so I could be wrong, but im pretty sure im right, or maybe its just how I think, I can tell women respect not looking though, it makes you look alot more attractive.
Or im just cracked out on vyvanse and wrote this whole thing that doesnt make any sense because I havent slept in 2 days.
If you have to straight up hide then I doubt you are comfortable in your relationship. In a good relationship the female will know the male loves her not some random chick he thought looked kinda hot.
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Chowder963 said: It also means they arent that close most likely havent been going out that long.
I mean dont get me wrong getting caught every now and then is fine if not could be made into a joke, but when its every time and you feel concerned enough to talk to people about it, hes either not that slick/not that smart/doesnt understand women or relationships.
I was in a 4 year relationship, if I always looked to where I got caught all the time, not only would I feel not so slick, but also embarrassed, girls respect guys who seem like they arent desperate, I dont know if thats the right word but its good not to look if your with your gf or with girls and dont want to look creepy.
I mastered it, I never got caught, and mostly because I purposely didnt look alot though also.
RACKEM: When your married its probabbly a bit different, my dad pointed out every hot girl he saw. It also depends on the girl, if she honestly doesnt want you looking, it shouldnt be too hard to just not look while with her imo. I dont HAVE to look.
Again these are all my opinions I might be the minority here so I could be wrong, but im pretty sure im right, or maybe its just how I think, I can tell women respect not looking though, it makes you look alot more attractive.
Or im just cracked out on vyvanse and wrote this whole thing that doesnt make any sense because I havent slept in 2 days.
If you have to straight up hide then I doubt you are comfortable in your relationship. In a good relationship the female will know the male loves her not some random chick he thought looked kinda hot.
Exactly how I see it, if a girl is so insecure that she makes a big deal about a guy checking someone else out there is an issue with the relationship.
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Re: Would you? [Re: Dudits]
#19011591 - 10/22/13 12:21 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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saviorsam said: Me and my wife always check people out, we will rate girls or guys. That's one of my favorite things about our relationship. Some people are just really hot.
Cool. I don't think I would mind at all if my guy (well, if I had one) looked at another lady whilst I'm around. On the contrary, if I personally thought we were in the presence of someone particularly attractive, I would be confused if he didn't. I mean, I'm not expecting him to be all googly-eyed, mouth agape, but there's nothing wrong with him looking and appreciating a fine specimen of womanhood. Females are beautiful creatures.
Don't feel too bad if he does it, OP. As everyone else has said, he's only looking. Who is the one he sleeps next to at night? You, of course. No worries. I'm sure your man loves you.
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That's the best argument anyone's presented for the lookers team lol. Yes, that's a good point, but I'm also saying if he seriously does it enough to where she says he does it literally all the time and she can even tell what color hair the girls have that he looks at and where he's looking at them, just doesn't seem right to me, it can be something people are open about like I said earlier, but when its a problem then I don't think that's right. It shouldn't become a big deal.
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Re: Would you? [Re: Viol]
#19011599 - 10/22/13 12:23 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think people are forgetting that she said he compulsively did it obsessively, we're starting to debate on just looking general, which isn't exactly the case.. Good debate nonetheless. Interesting.
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SexyBeezy123 said: Would you check out another girl if your with your girlfriend? My BF always turns around and looks at asses and stares at blonde bitches! His Dad does the same thing and he's married so must run in the family. Do you guys do this?
Your bf probably looks at way more ass on the internet, as well as all the other beautiful lady parts NEKKED!
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"Lookers team" that's funny....
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rackem



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if she is that insecure about it, it could very well seem like its compulsive to her..
but im not going to get into a debate about that..
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