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I'm just a huge mess
#19011016 - 10/21/13 10:13 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I know I need to leave my ex alone. I have a boyfriend, who knows about this ex, and LOATHES him for perfectly good reasons. Reasons I should hate him but I don't
Instead, I worry about him constantly. Wondering if his homeless (by choice) ass is okay. If his delusional, angry state of mind has caused him to get into any trouble. Worrying.
I know I shouldn't think about him, but I can't help it. I don't want to forget about him, but I want this feeling of attachment to go away!
Or do I...?
Any advice on what I should do? I mean, I know I haven't given that much information, but you're more than welcome to ask me anything. Any input is welcome.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19011078 - 10/21/13 10:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You're wasting emotional energy by worrying about someone no longer relevant to you. Are you even friends? I think you should leave the past in the past.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19011079 - 10/21/13 10:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Whats your current boyfriend like?
Sounds like you may have a bit of a messiah complex from the little bit of information you've given
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#19011101 - 10/21/13 10:34 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Old flames die hard.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: bloodsheen]
#19011136 - 10/21/13 10:41 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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bloodsheen said: Whats your current boyfriend like?
Sounds like you may have a bit of a messiah complex from the little bit of information you've given
Messiah complex?
He's wonderful actually. I have never been with anyone else who has treated me as good as he does. Every relationship does have it's problems, however.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: kneesocks]
#19011180 - 10/21/13 10:47 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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kneesocks said: You're wasting emotional energy by worrying about someone no longer relevant to you. Are you even friends? I think you should leave the past in the past.
We are on speaking terms. I'm actually trying to make the decision on whether or not Ishould go see him tomorrow. He wants to talk and settle things. I'm assuming he wants to either try to get me back, or he's wanting to completely end things. Cut all ties. I could never take him back. ever. EVER. Because you're right, the past is the past. And our relationship was...one of the craziest rollercoasters I've ever been on.
You'd think he'd no longer be relevant to me, right? A part of me feels responsible for making sure that he's not going to kill himself or get himself killed. He needs someone to look out for him.
It could be my desire to help that keeps me here.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19011187 - 10/21/13 10:48 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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why do you care so much, what was he like ? you must really dig him.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19011300 - 10/21/13 11:11 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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bloodsheen said: Whats your current boyfriend like?
Sounds like you may have a bit of a messiah complex from the little bit of information you've given
Messiah complex?
He's wonderful actually. I have never been with anyone else who has treated me as good as he does. Every relationship does have it's problems, however.
Messiah complex, meaning you sort of get off on being the person (girl) who saves someone (man). You like the idea that you are so great (no egotism required) as a girlfriend/human that you are able to save somebody from themselves.
Its a theory as to why so many women like to date fucked up men but grow bored with good, kind men. They need to feel like they are truly needed, not just wanted and appreciated
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: bloodsheen]
#19011608 - 10/22/13 12:25 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Eh it's not so much that i want to save him, or anybody for that matter. I just want some freakin passion! Something that says "Hey you! Yeah you! I love you. and you are the most important thing to me...etc mushy-romantic-shit"
my ex shows more desire to be with me. He shows me that he wants me
Where as my boyfriend...pretty much acts like I'm here to stay, so he doesn't have to even try. ya know?
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear] 1
#19011637 - 10/22/13 12:31 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I feelzzz ya. Lots of relationships get like that. Sometimes its a stage sometimes its a sign. Talk to him.
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i care so much because of the connection that we had. maybe. i really don't know.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
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Kittybear said: Eh it's not so much that i want to save him, or anybody for that matter. I just want some freakin passion! Something that says "Hey you! Yeah you! I love you. and you are the most important thing to me...etc mushy-romantic-shit"
my ex shows more desire to be with me. He shows me that he wants me
Where as my boyfriend...pretty much acts like I'm here to stay, so he doesn't have to even try. ya know?
Damn girl, you sound like me cept I'm the dude. And you're my ex...
I mean I guess we worry about each other equally. Apparently I've been a big issue in the relationships she has had after me. But we never stopped talking...and our relationship WAS a fuckn rollercoaster too. CRAZY!
I'm single though. And my girl would never take me back, even though we are really good friends now. I still kinda want her though
Dude, we put each other in JAIL and we still talk!! WTF OP! I feel you girl, shit's weird but the universe will make everything the way it's supposed to be.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: itsthedank]
#19013737 - 10/22/13 01:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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What you resist persists. Your attempts to not worry will probably result in more worrying, and also wondering and over-analyzing stuff.
If you feel like thinking about him, think about him, let it come, let it pass by itself and then go on with your regular business once it's done.
Is there a problem for you, do you feel like you're sort of cheating or not giving your man your full attention, or what's the problem with you thinking of said ex? It's not like you're screwing him or anything.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Spacerific]
#19013799 - 10/22/13 01:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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That's why they call them old flames; they are impossible to get over and you will carry them in your heart and head forever. Move on and live your life in gratitude for what was and how you made it special for you and for him.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19013847 - 10/22/13 01:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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my ex shows more desire to be with me. He shows me that he wants me
Where as my boyfriend...pretty much acts like I'm here to stay, so he doesn't have to even try. ya know?
Well of course the homeless dude is all about ya. He needs a place to stay.
No one is homeless on propose unless they are a trust-fund baby or/and have one hell of a drug problem.
Maybe you should stay out of relationships till you get over your ex or fugue out why you want him .
Dont use relationships to define you. You can be single and showered with affection from many different men if that is what you desire
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Spacerific]
#19014199 - 10/22/13 03:24 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Is there a problem for you, do you feel like you're sort of cheating or not giving your man your full attention, or what's the problem with you thinking of said ex? It's not like you're screwing him or anything.
I do feel like I'm cheating. Emotionally. I am not screwing him; however, today, I almost let that happen... i'm a bad girlfriend
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19014303 - 10/22/13 03:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Is there a problem for you, do you feel like you're sort of cheating or not giving your man your full attention, or what's the problem with you thinking of said ex? It's not like you're screwing him or anything.
I do feel like I'm cheating. Emotionally. I am not screwing him; however, today, I almost let that happen... i'm a bad girlfriend 
So what exactly is going on there? You're SEEING this guy? Is he homeless but comes over for lunch or how does that work? Where does a homeless guy even fuck a woman, location-wise? 
Your boyfriend is probably just having a good time, sounds pretty chill. Most men, when compared to the desperate dangerous homeless ex, will fall short in terms of enthusiasm.
Say you know about the ovulation and attraction to other men thing? Should be required reading for all women no exception, but so many either don't know or act like they didn't, thus sleeping around much more than they'd like, then go wtf was I doing, I have a good man at home etc. You know that whole deal?
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Spacerific]
#19014386 - 10/22/13 04:00 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yes yes I know this. This is the first time in a while that I've actually seen him in person. We talk off and on here and there. We just went for a walk, down a trail. and things just got really intense. It started off fine, he told me about his fiance and a few of the stupid things that he's done "because of me". but then he started to tell me something that I would be fucking INSANE to believe, but I think I might believe him...it's hard to say too much without giving away his identity,
I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend. And I don't really want to break up with him.
I think I just need a nice hard smack in the face.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19014503 - 10/22/13 04:30 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You'd think he'd no longer be relevant to me, right? A part of me feels responsible for making sure that he's not going to kill himself or get himself killed. He needs someone to look out for him.
It could be my desire to help that keeps me here.
Get over this. Sometimes a drowning man drags his rescuer down into the depths with him. Homeless by choice? Fuck that. Sounds like a world class flake. If he needs taking care of it is somebody else's turn. You fulfilled your sentence. Move on. Ditch him completely. If necessary move a thousand miles away. Never see him again on purpose.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19014509 - 10/22/13 04:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Was that hard enough? Because I can do better if you like.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
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Well for one thing you should probably stop seeing your exes alone for walks down trails. Maybe consider having tea in more public venues? You know generally things that can't end up in you two ravishing each other and then going oh my what have we done, what a terrible mistake how did this happen?
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You'd think he'd no longer be relevant to me, right? A part of me feels responsible for making sure that he's not going to kill himself or get himself killed. He needs someone to look out for him.
It could be my desire to help that keeps me here.
Get over this. Sometimes a drowning man drags his rescuer down into the depths with him.
sometimes it's better to throw the drowning man a rock instead of a line
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19016510 - 10/22/13 09:52 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Rock on Jesus, I knew someone would eventually start showing some sense in this thread
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Prisoner#1]
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You'd think he'd no longer be relevant to me, right? A part of me feels responsible for making sure that he's not going to kill himself or get himself killed. He needs someone to look out for him.
It could be my desire to help that keeps me here.
Get over this. Sometimes a drowning man drags his rescuer down into the depths with him.
sometimes it's better to throw the drowning man a rock instead of a line
I couldn't agree with you more!
Don't worry, after yesterday, there's no fucking way I'm letting him back into my life again.
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mpd said: That's why they call them old flames; they are impossible to get over and you will carry them in your heart and head forever. Move on and live your life in gratitude for what was and how you made it special for you and for him.
Good advice.
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You'd think he'd no longer be relevant to me, right? A part of me feels responsible for making sure that he's not going to kill himself or get himself killed. He needs someone to look out for him.
It could be my desire to help that keeps me here.
Get over this. Sometimes a drowning man drags his rescuer down into the depths with him. Homeless by choice? Fuck that. Sounds like a world class flake. If he needs taking care of it is somebody else's turn. You fulfilled your sentence. Move on. Ditch him completely. If necessary move a thousand miles away. Never see him again on purpose.
I agree with this - it was a really important lesson I learned. You can't be there to fix him, and it's not fair to put your life on hold. He isn't your responsibility - and you have to let him go.
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
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Don't worry, after yesterday, there's no fucking way I'm letting him back into my life again.

Well wha wha wha wha what happened? Do tell
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He showed me that he's still a very angry individual. He spit on me, screamed in my face, called me names (that I won't say because that's how fucking harsh they were)
all because i wouldn't have sex with him.
incredible huh?
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hahaa i gotta temper what can i say other than sorry. I'm growing up. I'm only human. i make mistakes. but i'm gonna learn from em. one love everybody!
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
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Kittybear said: He showed me that he's still a very angry individual. He spit on me, screamed in my face, called me names (that I won't say because that's how fucking harsh they were)
all because i wouldn't have sex with him.
incredible huh?
Whoa, really? That's simply magical. Someone with way less impulse control than myself. I feel totally redeemed now  Very big of you to not call his fiancee and ruin it all for him. I totally would have
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Spacerific]
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Kittybear said: He showed me that he's still a very angry individual. He spit on me, screamed in my face, called me names (that I won't say because that's how fucking harsh they were)
all because i wouldn't have sex with him.
incredible huh?
Whoa, really? That's simply magical. Someone with way less impulse control than myself. I feel totally redeemed now  Very big of you to not call his fiancee and ruin it all for him. I totally would have 
It's pretty funny because he thinks I'm such a heartless bitch. I could ruin his entire life if I wanted to. But I don't. I just want him to move on and enjoy his life.
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Kittybear said: He showed me that he's still a very angry individual. He spit on me, screamed in my face, called me names (that I won't say because that's how fucking harsh they were)
all because i wouldn't have sex with him.
incredible huh?
Whoa, really? That's simply magical. Someone with way less impulse control than myself. I feel totally redeemed now  Very big of you to not call his fiancee and ruin it all for him. I totally would have 
It's pretty funny because he thinks I'm such a heartless bitch. I could ruin his entire life if I wanted to. But I don't. I just want him to move on and enjoy his life.
I think you should tell him, the kind of crazy shit that would happen, if he ever stepped out of line again. I know every time I've lost it, for any reason, I probably would have benefited from hearing the potential gruesome consequences. They simply are out of sight, out of mind sometimes.
You know how when you nearly have a life-threatening accident, fall, some scary shit happens to you but turns out well, and for a while you realize that holy shit, whatever you were stressing and making noise about, didn't actually matter in the slightest?
Kind of like that. Dude needs context, otherwise a little nookie fills his whole screen 
Refocus him a bit, explain in detail how you could turn into this:
 Should get him all polite and functional again.
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I still see a deep throat
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Spacerific]
#19028163 - 10/24/13 08:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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LOLOL yoo guys. She really is my better half. i honestly just want her to see that
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JesusGoneRogue said: LOLOL yoo guys. She really is my better half. i honestly just want her to see that
Ok, I don't know who's trolling and who's playing so I'm just asking, are you the spitter person in question? If so, are you or are you not engaged to someone else?
If it's none of anybody's business that's fine, I was just mildly curious about the situation. I mean it seems a bit counterproductive to get engaged to someone else, when one plans to get their ex back. Or is the fiancee super cool with threesomes? If so, well played  
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Spacerific]
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JesusGoneRogue


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Spacerific
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For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it. - Matthew 13:16
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Kittybear
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Spacerific]
#19030012 - 10/25/13 08:30 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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JesusGoneRogue said: LOLOL yoo guys. She really is my better half. i honestly just want her to see that
Ok, I don't know who's trolling and who's playing so I'm just asking, are you the spitter person in question? If so, are you or are you not engaged to someone else?
If it's none of anybody's business that's fine, I was just mildly curious about the situation. I mean it seems a bit counterproductive to get engaged to someone else, when one plans to get their ex back. Or is the fiancee super cool with threesomes? If so, well played   
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Re: I'm just a huge mess [Re: Kittybear]
#19035819 - 10/26/13 01:47 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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At first I thought the thread said "I've a huge ass" ....I am disappoint
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Esekon Kelly said: At first I thought the thread said "I've a huge ass" ....I am disappoint 
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