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mpd
Lammen Gorthaur



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Don't let a natural reflex fuck with your head, SexyBeezy. That is all it is and there's no competing with it.
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Dark_Star
train driver pervading a desktop


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Re: Would you? [Re: qman]
#19010527 - 10/21/13 08:28 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Nothing wrong with looking at the menu. If he orders off it that's one thing, but there's nothing wrong with looking.
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hidenseek1
Its got all the dinks.
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qman said: OP wants to control what her boyfriend looks at, that relationship isn't going to last very long.
I have low self esteem sometimes. I guess I'm the problem not him
Does your BF jerking off to porn bother you?
And if he says he doesn't do it he's lying.
he could be a no fap guy
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volcomstoner
I'll have just one more xanax



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OMG my screen is having a seizure! 4 YEARS AND I FINALLY GOT AN EASTER EGG
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TrentBoyett
Aspiring Mycologist



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I find it kind of rude to just blatantly do it/do it all the time.
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LSDreams
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Re: Would you? [Re: smack]
#19010547 - 10/21/13 08:30 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Even if I just like someone in particular, I wont even look at another girl. Im aware of their presence, but just ignore them. It just depends on the individual.
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volcomstoner
I'll have just one more xanax



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I feel like a bigger douche trying NOT to stare at the hot girl walking by. Or having my eyes drift in that directionand act like it never happened. I have to be prety obvious about it and say something like "damn did you see that ass"
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qman
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qman said: OP wants to control what her boyfriend looks at, that relationship isn't going to last very long.
I have low self esteem sometimes. I guess I'm the problem not him
Does your BF jerking off to porn bother you?
And if he says he doesn't do it he's lying.
he could be a no fap guy
Or he could be watching gay porn.
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mushmafia
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I do. My girl doesnt care she knows im coming home with her. She points out girls with big butts to me sometimes, cause i like big butts (and i can not lie).
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Dudits
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Me and my wife always check people out, we will rate girls or guys. That's one of my favorite things about our relationship. Some people are just really hot.
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Chowder963
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He should be able to hide it/not do it in front of you, he must have very little self control..
If I did that in front of my x she would've been like wtf, especially if it was obvious enough apparently to where you feel you have to ask others about it.
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evileye001
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me and my gf have a understanding about this. we both check people out. if she catches me i will eather get a playful glare or a "damn she is hot". if i catch her ill grab her ass and say "only if your good" or somthing like that. playing of course.
its human nature to have LUST for people. but we LOVE each other and if at the end of the night im the one she is riding like a wild mustang then its all good.
you know when you see a hot guy you are like weather you show it or not
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Chowder963
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Love to psychologists is just an evolutionary phenomenon.
I think love is meant to exist, but we are in a strange part of the evolutionary process where we still have our primal caveman instincts, but love still being put more heavily into the human species, but its not completely in yet.
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sprinkles
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your boyfriend is rude. I'd trade him in if I were you. I think that would bother me. Even if it didn't, it's still inconsiderate of your feelings and maybe uncomfortable for the woman he's looking at. If its a habitual, id definitely be having some revenge sex.
Its one thing to look or glance, but that what he's doing is just inappropriate.
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evileye001
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sprinkles said: your boyfriend is rude. I'd trade him in if I were you. I think that would bother me. Even if it didn't, it's still inconsiderate of your feelings and maybe uncomfortable for the woman he's looking at. If its a habitual, id definitely be having some revenge sex.
Its one thing to look or glance, but that what he's doing is just inappropriate.
maybe you should take advice from someone who has your bf's point of view. aka dudes.
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pirate-blues


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qman said: OP wants to control what her boyfriend looks at, that relationship isn't going to last very long.
I have low self esteem sometimes. I guess I'm the problem not him
Aw, you shouldn't :/ Just remember he is with you for a reason. I'm a girl too, and if I see someone exceptionally attractive of either gender I can't help but do a quick double take(with my eyes). Beauty does not always equal sexual attraction for me, and it's a very objective thing in my head regardless of my relationship status.
When I'm in a relationship I'm smitten. There may be taller, more objectively attractive dudes passing by than the one I'm with, but it hardly means that I'm comparing them at all or even thinking more than 'hey that's an attractive person, cool!'.
It's purely aesthestic, and I, like any decent person would never knowingly let my glance linger enough that my partner would notice because i know it would probably hurt a lot of people.
tldr:
don't worry about it, biological programming, nothing more, you're lovely.
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pslyke
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id definitely be having some revenge sex.
Revenge sex??? Like cheating on him with other people? Or punishing him for looking at other chicks by having sex with him?
Imagine if he were to leave the toilet seat up...?
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openmind
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volcomstoner said: Having a girlfriend will stop me from fucking other girls, but sure as hell won't stop me from checking them out.
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rackem said: always.. every fucking time..
if you cant be open about what you are looking at then, its not worth it in my mind.
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evileye001 said: me and my gf have a understanding about this. we both check people out....
its human nature to have LUST for people. but we LOVE each other and if at the end of the night im the one she is riding like a wild mustang then its all good.
Just echoing what others have said...
...and I'm not currently in a relationship. But when I am, of course I'll still glance at another ladies body. And I wouldn't be bothered if my girl was checking out some dude. Some people have really beautiful bodies , nothing wrong with looking & admiring that .
Honestly, when I was in a relationship years ago when I was younger, I did get a bit up set if I caught my girl checking out another dude. But now that I'm older and have a bit more experience in that thing called life, I'm a lot more comfortable with things and have better acceptance/understandings of such.
I mean it's understandable that one may get bothered by their BF/GF looking at another...but there should be an equal understanding that people like to check out others. It's one of those things you have to be open about and discuss in the relationship, with an open logical discussion...easier said then done, but try to keep the emotions in check during such discussions . Emotions tend to make disucssion escalate into all sorts of tangents .

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Interdimensional space wizard



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I can't help but look. I'm programmed to. I try to not make it obvious, but I've also been caught plenty of times.
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sprinkles
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Re: Would you? [Re: pslyke]
#19011422 - 10/21/13 11:35 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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id definitely be having some revenge sex.
Revenge sex??? Like cheating on him with other people? Or punishing him for looking at other chicks by having sex with him?
Imagine if he were to leave the toilet seat up...?
I want respect. If my guy is constantly doing a 180 gawking at other women's asses in public, with me standing right there, i'd be a little put out. Do not leave the f******* toilet seat up. You'd be repairing it every time you did.
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